Do you sell it tho?

(soz, too good to pass on.)

If I did, I'd be extremely expensive

No worries. From what I can gather from your post(s) it is common knowledge I would have thought, but apparently not.

No I wouldn't. I would look at the reasons as to why women weren't attracted to me and then work on them. Personally I would feel it to be very degrading, knowing the person I was sleeping with didn't find me attractive.

What if they did find you attractive. Devils advocate here.

And what about one night stands in general.

[quote=jra;64582501]What if they did find you attractive.

Good joke.

that's because you have respect for yourself.

I won't do it myself, even though admittedly it's been a very long time. But then for me, the reasons being are far too long for a thread post and I have to go to work soon.

I did know someone who lost their virginity to an escort, because he was so depressed about being a virgin into his 20's. Not something I would ever do but he had no regrets. It will, however, make it awkward for him in future if he were to meet someone, knowing that he lost it to an escort.

Depends on your morals and viewpoint. The people whom I know are not getting any mostly share the same things - socially awkward, shy and also have other mental health issues, but they have the same needs and desires as everyone else too. I'm reminded of Virgin School on Channel 4.

Not for me but each to their own, I suppose.

One night stands are different, you can't compare the two.

People who have sex with each other on a one night stand are doing it because they both want to. They may wake up the next morning without their beer goggles on and look at the other person and think 'what the hell have I done?' but at the time they obviously wanted to have sex with that person.

They aren't doing it because they are being paid for it, they're doing it because they want to. There's a massive difference.

Why. What difference will it make.

As I was trying trying to stipulate, what if someone you pay to have sex with becomes attracted to you. What happens then.

I think it's more likely to happen the other way around I can see some clients especially ones with self esteem issues ect getting the wrong idea and really thinking the escort genuinely does like them and falling for them

I suspect men often get the wrong idea and think the women they're paying are actually attracted to them, but in reality the women are just doing their job well!

Possible regret that he did not wait until he met someone else to lose it to. Who knows, I'm not him so cannot answer definitely.

Yeah while the client thinks the escort does like or even may love them all he is to her is say job number 3 that day and while it's going on she's thinking that after this she has time to pop to the shops and maybe give the dog a walk before her next appointment.

Too easy for a man with low self esteem or attention to believe that when someone shows them interest, in this case for monetary purposes, that can be misconstrued as attraction.

It is used as a tactic by scammers to get money off easily led or desperate people.

When you then find out the truth of the situation and it occurs all the time, it can lead to a misogynistic mistrust of women this forum only knows too well.

Most likely.

Not that I'm really bothered about it these days. I've been celibate for 5 years now.

if you going to use a prostitute make sure they're doing it by choice (basically just use an english/british person from a real 'brothel').

if you're both happy to do it i see no problem, if the person has been forced into it then there is a problem.

American Express?

Maybe that's why you've found yourself attracted to a few women on here!

This is one of the main reasons why I'd never use a prostitute. Having sex with someone who might find me totally unattractive and/or is only doing it for the money would not be an enjoyable experience for me.

I do, I'm a fat bald ugly gay man who gave up trying around the age of 30. The first time is rather awkward, but remember that escorts are just after the money, never think for a second they actually like you.

The ironic thing is, if you're the kind of bloke who can afford to pay for £100 an hour escorts then the chances are you've already got a flock of women wanting to sleep with you.

I knew a man who used Brothels regularly, I used to feel sorry for any of the girls who would have to "service" him as he was one of the great unwashed. Yuck!

Why's that? Do you walk around with your bank balance taped to your forehead?