Thoughts are with you xx
Euthanasia - My best friend. Do I or dont I?
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We were grateful our cat passed away peacefully at home and on his bed some six weeks ago after 17 years and, whatever anyone says, it isn't easy! And this is from a 50-year old bloke who used to play rugby!!
The one thing we were adamant about, though, was that we weren't prepared to see him suffer and, if needed, we would have asked for him to be put to sleep.
I think the best thing you can do for any pet after such a long time is make their departing as comfortable as they can be when their time comes.
Today will be very tough Central Cake, but remember the life you shared with Misi and that you did the right thing by her when the time came and that is all any caring owner can do.
The one thing we were adamant about, though, was that we weren't prepared to see him suffer and, if needed, we would have asked for him to be put to sleep.
I think the best thing you can do for any pet after such a long time is make their departing as comfortable as they can be when their time comes.
Today will be very tough Central Cake, but remember the life you shared with Misi and that you did the right thing by her when the time came and that is all any caring owner can do.
Just wanted to send you a big hug.
and to say I am thinking of you all today.
I know exactly what you are going through 18 weeks today at we had our beautiful dog PTS and it was the hardest thing ever. Still miss her just as much now as the first day without her. We also had the vet come out to the house and I must say it was the best decision we could have made for her and for us. I light a candle next to her picture everyday it might seem silly to some but it helps me get through the day
and to say I am thinking of you all today.I know exactly what you are going through 18 weeks today at we had our beautiful dog PTS and it was the hardest thing ever. Still miss her just as much now as the first day without her. We also had the vet come out to the house and I must say it was the best decision we could have made for her and for us. I light a candle next to her picture everyday it might seem silly to some but it helps me get through the day
Originally Posted by Sharon140:
“Just wanted to send you a big hug. and to say I am thinking of you all today.
I know exactly what you are going through 18 weeks today at we had our beautiful dog PTS and it was the hardest thing ever. Still miss her just as much now as the first day without her. We also had the vet come out to the house and I must say it was the best decision we could have made for her and for us. I light a candle next to her picture everyday it might seem silly to some but it helps me get through the day”
“Just wanted to send you a big hug.
and to say I am thinking of you all today.I know exactly what you are going through 18 weeks today at we had our beautiful dog PTS and it was the hardest thing ever. Still miss her just as much now as the first day without her. We also had the vet come out to the house and I must say it was the best decision we could have made for her and for us. I light a candle next to her picture everyday it might seem silly to some but it helps me get through the day
”
We lost our boy 15 days ago
Hugs xxx
Originally Posted by JJ75:
“We lost our boy 15 days ago
Hugs xxx”
“We lost our boy 15 days ago
Hugs xxx”
Sending virtual hugs to you and all my best wishes, its an awful experience isn't it
I have been reading this thread and it is absolutely heartbreaking.
My heart breaks in sorrow for you CC to be going through what you are going through today.
My thoughts and hugs are with you and your family today. xxxx
My heart breaks in sorrow for you CC to be going through what you are going through today.
My thoughts and hugs are with you and your family today. xxxx
She is now in heaven sleeping. The vet told us she had a number of strokes and kidneys failed.
I hope she is at peace now.
Love you Misi.
I hope she is at peace now.
Love you Misi.
You really did do the best thing, even if it doesn't feel like that now, and won't for a while.
You stopped her suffering anymore, and set her free from any pain she was in.
xx
You stopped her suffering anymore, and set her free from any pain she was in.
xx
Originally Posted by Central cake:
“Vets have told us she suffered multiple strokes and her kidneys had failed.”
“Vets have told us she suffered multiple strokes and her kidneys had failed.”
Poor girl. You had no choice but to do what you did. I really feel for you, and wish I could say something to make you feel better.x
Originally Posted by Central cake:
“Vets have told us she suffered multiple strokes and her kidneys had failed.”
“Vets have told us she suffered multiple strokes and her kidneys had failed.”
It sounds like you are beating yourself up. Please please dont xx
Originally Posted by Central cake:
“I can't be kind.”
“I can't be kind.”
You did the kindest thing and she is now at peace. I have had to do this many times and it hurts like heck and does not get easier
I feel so guilty when their time comes but it is the kindest thing. I only hope when my time comes there is something like this for me.
Misi had a fantastic life with you and you didn't make her suffer.
Losing a pet is heartbreaking. My best advice is cry buckets, it does help.
Sending massive hugs to you x
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