i`m going to get him checked out by the vet, thank you all.
three pouches a day is the recommended amount [on the box] and he only gets another one on top if i forget. he does tuck in like he`s never been fed for a week and polish the lot off. i stopped feeding him dry food altogether a couple of years ago when i discovered how bad it is for older male cats and now he`s not got the teeth for it anyway.
i wonder how long it`s been going on [now] because he used to visit his cat friends every day [before i moved house] and have a bit of a snack there too [i think] so he may have only seemed to be eating normally before.
i`ve not seen him drink since i moved either, he`s never drunk from a bowl but i`ve taken him to the taps several times when he`s asking for food but i just get a withering look and he walks off.
stud and milmol:
he could well be bored as i havn`t started letting him out properly yet, he`ll chase paper and string for a bit but i`m sure it`s not as much fun as hunting and he does like going out normally.
whover:
that`s the point, he`s eating and not putting weight on, i`ve noticed it since i moved house a month ago.
mollie: thank you

he`s my baby

i worry if he`s out and i havn`t seen him for three or four hours
thank you all, a thyroid check is a good idea, i`m going to start letting him out proper this week and see how that goes.
edit: he`s just called me a liar and drunk from the bathroom basin

so perhaps he`s hungry for thirst.