Originally Posted by jaydash:
“ALRIGHTMATE, you took my point about Big Brother incorrectly. I was saying that people go on the show for fame and fortune, but very few get that; they experience ridicule or notoriety instead i.e. it's not worth it. I know that, so I would never apply in the vain hope that I might become famous or win £100,000.
Re: BGT, I used the word deluded in the general sense, not the psychiatry definition. As mere TV viewers, are we honestly expected to worry about the mental state of everyone we ever see on the box, to consider all the time we're watching whether they're suitable or not? All the BB housemates, the Come Dine attention-seekers, the really terrible singers who go in for BGT, whether the Apprentice candidates are actually serious about their skills, or if the Masterchef contestants can handle the pressure?
So, don't blame me/ us, but also, are the producers really supposed to know that a muscly 30-year-old fitness fanatic is likely to turn-out to be a vulnerable person? I'm not defending them, and it does seem that they might have given him encouragement falsely, but we've now come full circle because surely everyone knows that some contestants are there, and are encouraged to continue in the process, purely to be mocked or at least to make things a bit more silly/ fun i.e. Maarty this year, Wagner in X Factor, John Sargeant in Strictly etc.
None of them could have seriously thought they would win their respective shows, but it seems that Scott really did rate himself. Still, I'm not getting into amateur psychology on an entertainment forum...”
Okay, I'm sorry if I took what you said about BB wrongly, I just took it as I read it.
BIB. YES, I would hope so. Just because we are television viewers doesn't by default mean that we should forget about having a conscience. Just because we're a viewer doesn't make us passive in the entire scheme of things. I think we have a responsibility on our part too. These are real people and I don't think we should forget that, even if there is the barrier of the television screen between us and them which makes people less than people and more like characters whose only purpose is to amuse us.
If we laugh and mock others just for the sole sake of our own entertainment I'm not sure how we can really call ourselves a sophisticated society.
Second BIB, no I'm not blaming you. But yes, the producers are supposed to know if somebody is a vulnerable person. If they don't know then they probably shouldn't even risk it.
Shows like this are a big deal and there's a very danger that they could potentially harm some people if they're not adequately equipped.
They have a duty of care and must show a degree of responsibility for the people they use for their shows. They shouldn't mislead or inject false ideas into the heads of members of the public who appear on their show.
I believe that there is a legal remit for them to adhere to isn't there?
Third BIB. Not somebody who is deluded.
I don't think that the general definition of the word 'deluded' is any different from the pathological definition. It's exactly the same thing. There's no differentiation. If somebody is a victim of their own delusion, or are deluded due to misinformation which has been presented to them, I don't necessarily think that it means that people have an automatic self-entitlement to mock them and laugh at them.
True, we do at times, when rightly or wrongly we think we see an insufferable arsehole on The Apprentice and love to see them get their comeuppance. But even then I think ideally we should have a discerning eye and judge when it's appropriate to be laughing at somebody for being deluded and when it's not.
Sometimes it's cruel, not funny, and unnecessary. I don't think that just because somebody on telly is deluded it gives us carte blanche to mock and deride them. At some point I think our own consciences should come into play and we should be responsible for how we react to something. otherwise we'd be monsters wouldn't we? We'd be as culpable as the programme makers for contributing to somebody's misery.