Originally Posted by wonkeydonkey:
“It's possible; but it was Aaron who claimed that a staff member had told him he won by a huge margin. It might not be true of course, but there is no particular reason to suppose he lied.”
“It's possible; but it was Aaron who claimed that a staff member had told him he won by a huge margin. It might not be true of course, but there is no particular reason to suppose he lied.”
It's interesting that you treat Aaron lying as the only other possibility.
Anyway, I have a lot more faith in Aaron's perception of threatened (discussed below) than I do in what some random, unnamed staff member thinks counts as "a huge margin", especially since we don't know how long a chain of Chinese whispers connected the random staff member to the original information.
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“Yes, but I don't have any faith in Aaron's perception of 'threatened'. We saw him cry because Jay had made a distasteful joke that peripherally mentioned the word 'wheelchair'. I rather suspect that Jay would be amazed at the suggestion that he had seriously threatened Aaron. ”
“Yes, but I don't have any faith in Aaron's perception of 'threatened'. We saw him cry because Jay had made a distasteful joke that peripherally mentioned the word 'wheelchair'. I rather suspect that Jay would be amazed at the suggestion that he had seriously threatened Aaron. ”
Viewers should have seen, so we could make up our own minds. Also, remember how seriously Conor threatening Deana has been taken, even though there didn't seem to be any real danger or intent that he would do as he said.
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“Yes, certainly towards the end I can remember some pretty hostile stuff being said about them, and people finding their romance unbelievable or revolting or both.”
“Yes, certainly towards the end I can remember some pretty hostile stuff being said about them, and people finding their romance unbelievable or revolting or both.”
That's too lacking in specifics.
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“One example is Nicola McLean's comment about Aaron's "Are you going to the party like that?" question. It wasn't very nice to suggest that he 'sounded like an abusive husband', but it was obvious that she was commenting on this ONE remark. There were literally hundreds of furious posts on here, in which her remark was constantly misquoted, and distorted to sound as if she was describing his general behaviour; also as if people had agreed with her on BOTS instead of shushing her. She got a mountain of abuse on twitter, with people threatening her and calling her really horrible names. I am no great admirer of Nicola McLean, but the way she was treated over that one sentence was disgraceful.
(She may have misunderstood his remark btw; he may have meant nothing more than "do you need time to get changed?" - but I can see that his words COULD be interpreted as controlling and critical. )”
“One example is Nicola McLean's comment about Aaron's "Are you going to the party like that?" question. It wasn't very nice to suggest that he 'sounded like an abusive husband', but it was obvious that she was commenting on this ONE remark. There were literally hundreds of furious posts on here, in which her remark was constantly misquoted, and distorted to sound as if she was describing his general behaviour; also as if people had agreed with her on BOTS instead of shushing her. She got a mountain of abuse on twitter, with people threatening her and calling her really horrible names. I am no great admirer of Nicola McLean, but the way she was treated over that one sentence was disgraceful.
(She may have misunderstood his remark btw; he may have meant nothing more than "do you need time to get changed?" - but I can see that his words COULD be interpreted as controlling and critical. )”
Had Nicola not been watching the show? Unless she hadn't been watching and had been given the quote without any context, I think it's reasonable to see it as a comment that wasn't about just that one remark.
I'll discuss the other things in a separate post.





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