I found the MCV article about Ben and Nathan. Funny that Nathan says that Zach was a big deal. He was popular but sexuality issues were probably more discussed with Johnnie in 2001 and David Graham in 2006. (The 2006 series also had a gay male intruder, making two gay men at one point.) The thing with Zach was simply that he was very popular.
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CREATED ON // THURSDAY, 31 OCTOBER 2013 AUTHOR // TIM HUNTER
This year’s Big Brother has been the most gay-friendly yet having had three queer housemates in the infamous compound. Ben Zabel and Nathan Little tell Tim Hunter about their experience in the Big Brother house.
It’s not unusual for Big Brother to have gay and lesbian housemates, but it’s not as common to have three in the house. All three have been evicted now, and while lesbian/bisexual Tully’s not doing interviews at the moment, the long-lived housemate Ben and short-lived intruder Nathan were more than happy to chat.
Ben, a self-confessed dork with a love for kitsch, is an ex-flight attendant from Brisbane, and while he’d auditioned for Big Brother in 2012, but didn’t get past the second round, his application for this year was fuelled by other matters. “It’s a funny story,” he says. “The auditions were held on the same street where I live in Fortitude Valley, and they were held at the hotel where I had my school formal in 1999. The hotel had been renovated, so I thought I’d pop down and have a look. I feel sorry for all the other people that there were, because there were some real go-getters. It’s like a really bad joke that got out of hand.”
Nathan, on the other hand, runs his own business in Melbourne, as well as hosting trivia and karaoke nights at The Laird Hotel. He too auditioned last year, but didn’t make it through. “Then they contacted me because I didn’t apply this year, and put me through to the final rounds this year. I never considered I’d be the type of person that would be able to go on; I thought I was too old at 35. But I got on anyway, just not in the way I expected, as an intruder. I had three days’ notice before entering the house.”
So what expectations did they both go into the house with?
“I didn’t think I’d last very long,” admits Ben. “Because I suffer with anxiety and depression, I try not to have expectations, because I practice living in the now. And when I have expectations, it’s like trying to predict the future. I thought, I can’t win this, because a gay guy called Ben won it last year, and lightning doesn’t strike twice, and that allowed me to be myself, like I am at home on the weekend. I met Bert Newton, so I don’t care that I didn’t win. I could have gone that night.”
“I wanted to get a break in the entertainment industry,” says Nathan. “People say I have an outgoing personality, and I thought I may as well give this show a go. Unfortunately my personality ended up being quite subdued in the house. When the two female intruders entered, that’s when I realised they were fitting in, and I wasn’t, and that was the big reason why I left, especially when I saw how much these girls wanted to stay and how little I didn’t.”
And has their inclusion in the house reflected a change of attitudes in society? Ben likes to think so. “Big Brother is at its best when it tries to be a microcosm of today’s society. It’s always been gay and lesbian friendly, and has a very strong following in the GLBTI community. Big Brother gets that gay people come in all shapes and sizes and varieties, and they took a risk putting me in there, and it’s paid off for them. I’m very proud of them for that.”
“I remember when Zac was in Big brother in 2007,” says Nathan,” and I remember it being a really big deal at the time, and that was only six years ago. So something has happened in Australia in the last five years; a lot of has to do with the Internet, and being to exposed to a lot more queer characters on TV, and the marriage equality debate.”
And what about their newfound fame? Even while on the phone doing this interview, Ben was stopped in the street for an autograph, photo and chat. “I’m overwhelmed by it, to be honest. The feedback is so kind. I’ve had gay and lesbian people come up and say, ‘G’day’, and I’ve had blokes on building sites come up and shake my hand. It’s extraordinary, and it’s so short-lived, but it’s so nice of them to do that.”
“I’m adjusting to being recognised in the street,” says Nathan. “I wasn’t expecting the age range to be really huge. It can be anyone from 10 to women over 50 – they really love me, so that’s really interesting. And I also get emails from kids who get bullied at school, and I give them advice, and that’s a great thing as well.”
Big Brother screens weeknights at 7pm on Channel Nine.