Originally Posted by
wonkeydonkey:
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I really think she is.
The OP poses an unexpectedly interesting question. Jemima was of course talking to Michael not Gina, but knew that Gina was listening. I don't think many people would state that they wouldn't date a black man, a) to someone they barely knew; and b) in the presence of a black woman. And when Gina asked "Why wouldn't you date a black man" it really was time to extricate herself gracefully from a possible hole, not to dig it 1000 times deeper by suggesting that of course a black woman would never (should never?) date a white man.
1. She dislikes Gina and said what she knew would piss her off; or
2. She genuinely does believe, in spite of being 41, that black people always date black people and white people date white (or 'dark' white) people; or
3. She was being a tiny bit Emily, and trying to sound rather cool and edgy and "let's be brave about this and say the kind of thing that most people wouldn't say".”
You've shifted some things in ways that make Gina sound better than she was and Jemima worse than she was.
I don't think Gina did say "Why wouldn't you date a black man?" She said, "What’s wrong with black men?”
There was no "always" stated or implied when Jemima said "you
probably wouldn’t go for a white guy.”
Nor did Jemima suggest "that of course a black woman would never (should never?) date a white man"
And Jemima didn't say anything that implied she thought "white people" always, only, or even usually (you seem to mean "always") "date white (or 'dark' white) people".
Source:
http://www.bbspy.co.uk/bb14/news/061...formal-warning
I also don't think it was clear that Jemima "knew that Gina was listening".