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Old 13-12-2016, 15:52
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Speaking as a gay guy, it does surprise me how gay so many straight guys seem these days - I would have thought Lee the nervous northern guy was gay for sure until it turned out he was meeting a woman. The maths teacher had a bit of a gay vibe to him too I thought.
My first thought on seeing Lee, the nervous barber was that he seemed gay! Paul, the maths teacher was a bit guarded, lacking in confidence i.e. not outright macho but I found that endearing - not necessarily a gay characteristic I would have thought.

(Just for the record I find gay men delightful for the most part, entertaining, open, lively and I like that they can be effeminate). I regard myself as androgynous.
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Old 13-12-2016, 16:21
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My first thought on seeing Lee, the nervous barber was that he seemed gay! Paul, the maths teacher was a bit guarded, lacking in confidence i.e. not outright macho but I found that endearing - not necessarily a gay characteristic I would have thought.

(Just for the record I find gay men delightful for the most part, entertaining, open, lively and I like that they can be effeminate). I regard myself as androgynous.
I too was surprise that he wasn't gay. The tan, the plucked eyebrows and the basic lack of male macho but at the same time dressing like he possessed all the street confidence necessary had me totally confused.
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Old 13-12-2016, 16:26
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I didn't really like either the son or the mum who both went on dates the same night - she made no secret of her distaste looking at the girl he was on a date with, which seemed rude, and he came across as a bit of a knob (and I'm not just talking about that greasy topknot). I have a feeling there was more to the story of why he got dumped by his fiancee than he was making out. He looked rather sneery when he clapped eyes on his mum's date too. Neither really impressed me.

Speaking as a gay guy, it does surprise me how gay so many straight guys seem these days - I would have thought Lee the nervous northern guy was gay for sure until it turned out he was meeting a woman. The maths teacher had a bit of a gay vibe to him too I thought.
He got the date he deserved........an extremely high maintenance bimbo.
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Old 14-12-2016, 02:14
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Just got through my recording.
Overall, nice people having a nice time.
I liked the 3 young women involved, the nervous bloke, maths teacher, Bobby top knot, not so much.
There didn't seem to be an update on the older daters, Bobby's Mum.
They seemed to get on better than I thought, holding hands on the way to the cab.
Jermie and his date was a nice date too, shame there wasn't a spark though.

Maybe it's me, but they seemed to hammer the 'theme' into the ground this week, worse that I can remember.
All those Rubik's cubes around the place and talk of Maths, because of Teacher and his piece to camera 'party piece'
Most the nervous bloke could come up with was wobbly spin

Again too much of the staff and their messing about, get them back to getting mid date reports and chivvying the conversation along between the dates.
They used to be quite good at that IMO.

Oh for fans of Fred, I know this thread is chocked full of them, Fred's getting his own spin-off show, First dates Hotel.
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Old 14-12-2016, 09:41
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Oh for fans of Fred, I know this thread is chocked full of them, Fred's getting his own spin-off show, First dates Hotel.
Just found this, more detailed link on it....
http://www.channel4.com/info/press/n...st-dates-hotel

Sounds somewhat creepy/stalkerish...he wants to find out 'what happens next'!
Will he be inspecting the sheets??? :/
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Old 17-12-2016, 17:27
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Yet another programme that has exceeded its "best before" date. Far too much RUBBISH with the staff trying to make themselves stars (seems to have worked with the French show off, it appears!) and far too many "unrealistic" people that they focus on. Come on producers, how about showing us more "real, average" people rather than week in, week out, showing really attractive women and good looking men 80% of the time! A) Its not realistic (most "single people" do NOT look like most of those who appear on the show, each week) and B) very attractive people like them would not need to be searching around going on "blind dates" to find a partner.
Used to look forward to this show but now record it and fast forward through it cutting out all the staff rubbish and pretty boy/girl stuff, hence it normally only takes about 10 mins to watch an episode now!
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Old 17-12-2016, 17:56
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I still quite enjoy the programme.
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Old 18-12-2016, 00:45
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Just found this, more detailed link on it....
http://www.channel4.com/info/press/n...st-dates-hotel

Sounds somewhat creepy/stalkerish...he wants to find out 'what happens next'!
Will he be inspecting the sheets??? :/
Why would he be inspecting the sheets.
Maybe you want to stop assuming that there's sex involved, the voiceover is there mostly to feed us some daft puns, rather than an indicator that the daters have had sex.
'Drinking late into the night' can actually mean drinking and talking without sex that night.
Try reading the page you've linked too.

We've had a few pictures and updates of second dates not involving sex, just to hammer the point home.
Voice over: 'He took her up the shard' (fnaar fnaar) and there's the selfie picture of the two of them up the Shard with London in the background.
I can remember another second date that involve a walk in the country, and another selfie shot of the daters.
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Old 18-12-2016, 06:53
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Yet another programme that has exceeded its "best before" date. Far too much RUBBISH with the staff trying to make themselves stars (seems to have worked with the French show off, it appears!) and far too many "unrealistic" people that they focus on. Come on producers, how about showing us more "real, average" people rather than week in, week out, showing really attractive women and good looking men 80% of the time! A) Its not realistic (most "single people" do NOT look like most of those who appear on the show, each week) and B) very attractive people like them would not need to be searching around going on "blind dates" to find a partner.
Used to look forward to this show but now record it and fast forward through it cutting out all the staff rubbish and pretty boy/girl stuff, hence it normally only takes about 10 mins to watch an episode now!
I always think the women aren't generally that good-looking. I want to see more lookers not fewer. More episodes like this one please!
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Old 18-12-2016, 10:46
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I always think the women aren't generally that good-looking. I want to see more lookers not fewer. More episodes like this one please!
Wow really? I think quite the reverse, i.e. that the men are lucky to get such an attractive date!
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Old 18-12-2016, 10:48
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Why would he be inspecting the sheets.
Maybe you want to stop assuming that there's sex involved, the voiceover is there mostly to feed us some daft puns, rather than an indicator that the daters have had sex.
'Drinking late into the night' can actually mean drinking and talking without sex that night.
Try reading the page you've linked too.

We've had a few pictures and updates of second dates not involving sex, just to hammer the point home.
Voice over: 'He took her up the shard' (fnaar fnaar) and there's the selfie picture of the two of them up the Shard with London in the background.
I can remember another second date that involve a walk in the country, and another selfie shot of the daters.
My comment about inspecting the sheets was a joke...lost on you it would seem!

I am more interested in relationships forming, i.e. not the sex angle as you wrongly assume.

Maybe you could try being less patronising???
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Old 18-12-2016, 11:53
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My comment about inspecting the sheets was a joke...lost on you it would seem!

I am more interested in relationships forming, i.e. not the sex angle as you wrongly assume.

Maybe you could try being less patronising???
Maybe try a smiley that indicates where the punchlines are, for the stupid.
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Old 18-12-2016, 14:47
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Wow really? I think quite the reverse, i.e. that the men are lucky to get such an attractive date!
Think he was on a "wind up"! .....otherwise he must be VERY picky!
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Old 18-12-2016, 17:20
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Think he was on a "wind up"! .....otherwise he must be VERY picky!
I must be picky then. It wasn't a wind-up.
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Old 19-12-2016, 21:12
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I like how they're trying to dress this up as a Christmas special when there's deckchairs outside.
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Old 19-12-2016, 21:17
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Too much staff talks in this
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Old 19-12-2016, 21:58
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What an awful episode, fake festivity and really unlikeable couples, the gay pair, how awkward were they?
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Old 20-12-2016, 00:51
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No updates at the end of the show this week?

Not that I expect any of them had much of a possible future! Maybe the gay couple at the end, but not the best episode recently.
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Old 20-12-2016, 01:42
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I like how they're trying to dress this up as a Christmas special when there's deckchairs outside.
Well Christmas specials are usually filmed months ago, certainly wasn't anything special.
A merry christmas from the staff and the successful daters from the series would have done.
They're trying to make a thing of CeCe and the beardy waiter again, I suppose some of the viewers are interested.

Anyway I was pleased to see Mr Moustache and stunning Asian girl were still together.
No clues on the Welsh teacher and her second date/relationship, who I also liked.

As for the daters, wouldn't mind seeing the Turkish bloke and the either of the older daters back again.
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Old 20-12-2016, 02:31
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Too much staff talks in this
The more CiCi and Laura the better, as far as I'm concerned.

Fred and the rest of the lads can pipe down though.
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Old 20-12-2016, 16:07
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Too much staff talks in this
Even worse than normal
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Old 21-12-2016, 02:54
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I thought it was needlessly mean that the big girl who dated the half-Turkish guy wouldn't even give him a hug.
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Old 21-12-2016, 03:18
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Again too much of the staff and their messing about, get them back to getting mid date reports and chivvying the conversation along between the dates.
They used to be quite good at that IMO.

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I know this quote is from a previous programme, but it seemed extremely apt tonight. Why are they going down this route? Who cares?

Except that I don't even like the ''mid date reports''

If I was a customer I'd find them rudely intrusive, and as a viewer, I'm not in the slightest bit interested.
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Old 22-12-2016, 12:42
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I've actually signed up for the show and spoken to someone on the phone from the production company about possibly being on it so fingers crossed I get on it.
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Old 22-12-2016, 15:09
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I've actually signed up for the show and spoken to someone on the phone from the production company about possibly being on it so fingers crossed I get on it.
.......and land Cheryl Cole in the 2017 Celebrity First Dates Edition
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