Originally Posted by thenetworkbabe:
“The point is they did have to go. He was still dithering over the colour scheme and unable to leave it alone. There was no time for a discussion. She has no alternative but to keep on repeating the same point that there's no time and he had to stop. He's panicking and trying to save his failure, but at that point there's no time left to improve it. She's gots someone who is losing touch with reality - not surprisingly when it looks as if its his indecision thats been the problem and its produced a half done result.
If Neil or Alex had been, there they wouldn't have just kept on telling Jason that time was up. We have already seen how the alpha males/people who think they are alpha males treated Jason - they tell him to stop being so stupid and ignore what he says and give him orders what to do instead. Thats not open to a female like Luisa - although Leah might try and nearly did it to Zee. Luisa ironically gets the blame, because she's meant to be more female, and she's dared to be unpleasant to to the guy who fits the classic, in need of mothering, male character thats so popular with reality TV viewers. I suspect that if Neil had done it more harshly, the view would be that it was a shame, but needed doing. He clearly shared Luisa's analysis , amd seemed angrier when he made the final call that Jason had to go, so Jason may well have been lucky that he wasn't with him instead of Luisa.”
That's true to a large extent.
They did have to go and Luisa doesn't have any other option in her limited people skills armour but to keep on telling Jason "We have to go" (repeat ad infinitum).
It's also likely that Neil or Alex would have done things differently as in imposed their own will on things and ignored Jason's self-imposed dithery dilemma.
However, there was possibly another route here. That of not nagging or ignoring but gentle (or slightly firmer

) persuasion. It
is annoying when someone is acting like there's all the time in the world when there clearly isn't and dawdling over apparently simple decisions like choosing a couple of colours. That said, there aren't merely two options (whine to get a move on versus ignore and do your own thing) in this situation. It's usually pretty obvious when someone isn't decisive and nudging them to one or other of the possibilities they've selected would seem the obvious way to go. Not simply chanting "Make a decision, make a decision, make a decision" like a nagging mantra.
And it is probably likely that had Neil or Alex ignored Jason's floundering and imposed their own ideas it would have gone down better than Luisa's apparent whinge with no positive substance. But that's because positive action to annoyance tends to bring more positive response than negative action to the same.