My dad is planning a surprise for me and my sister knows and she thinks its a good idea but its taking longer than he expected it to plan but he says and my sister says it will happen

Mormon Girl, ENOUGH!!!!

Stop badgering people. It seems that sadly, and I hate saying this, you shouldn't be in a public forum. People don't want to answer because you never stop asking. Never. I think you need to drop it. Autism or no autism.

Yeah but he's told you there's a surprise, you don't go telling people about surprises. What do you think a surprise means?

And yes it's your dad, but i don't think he's doing you much good, giving you false hope. You'll still be here in 5 years going on about the surprise. If he organises it I shall take back what I said.

I just want answers. If people answered all of them then I will stop. I repeat myself a lot its part of my autism just like Im obsessed with lots of famous people as well as Jo and Jake Im also onsessed with David Beckham and Im obsessed with S club 7 because I want them back together and Im obsessed with Steven Gerard and Ant and Dec and Harry Potter cast. Lots of people have met their idols and Im really jealous I was gutted when JLS came to my hometown and I never got to see them or meet them because I was at my sisters wedding a reception which was over a month after her wedding.

Yes, I agree with you. It is clearly a matter of saying something to keep Mormon Girl quiet. It is obvious mormon girl goes on and on and on about it all the time. It must be exhausting for her family. They clearly needed to say something to shut her up. Well intentioned no doubt, but actually doing mormon girl no favours.

My sister knows about it as well and she says its going to happen but I have doubts and I keep on having a go at my dad I was saying to my cousin earlier this so called surprise and I think to myself if my dad really cares about me then he will tell me what it is so I won't get stressed out and Im getting stressed out about not seeing my friend when she comes home from her mission and someone I know is going and Im really jealous that she gets to go and I don't.

No you want stop. Some people HAVE answered your questions. Those who haven't don't want to. It's their right. You also need to focus on something else other than celebrities. It is dangerous and you are, I'm afraid, a potential stalker. Albeit inadvertently. Please. Get some professional guidance to help you focus on something more rewarding. Learn to play guitar or something.

No. I don't need guidance and Im not a stalker and Im not dangerous I have serve autism and Im harmless and Im a lovely woman. Other Eastenders fans have been to wait outside Elstree more times I have and have met the same people a few times are they stalkers as well. Lots of fans make fan pages for their favourite actor/actress are they stalkers as well? I don't want to play the guitar I don't have enough time I go horse riding once a week and I go to the gym at least 3 days or 2 days a week and at the most 4 days a week.

You're not rational enough to go. End of. Your dad can't tell you what the surprise is because there isn't one. Your dad loves you very much. He wants what is best for you. He probably cries his heart out worrying about you. You are likely to be demanding, constant and frankly, bloody hard work. But you need to understand that the world has 6 billion people in it. All living their lives. Your dad goes to work to feed you, to care for you, to clothe you, to keep you warm and safe. To him, you and your sister are everything. Do you not consider how heartbreaking it must be for your dad to hear you question him over whether he cares about you or not? You know he cares about you. Probably too much. But you need to seriously and utterly stop deluding yourself with obssesive thoughts. It is one of lifes burdens that you have autism. But it should never let it restrict you in trying to achieve a happy, healthy and normal life - with guidance. People clearly walk around on egg shells trying to please you or tell you what you want to hear - because they love you. Don't punish them by not believing that.

So Im not rational enough to see my friend who I haven't seen for 18 months? There is a surprise you don't know anything. my dad says there is and my sister says there is and I believe them they don't tell lies. I get money every two weeks more than my dad gets paid and I pay for my own things now.

How can you be rational when you get jealous at everything? So, if you have your own money why do you need your dad to sort out this "surprise"? You get very nasty when people try and give you friendly advice. You see things from only your own singular perspective. I'm quitting talking to you now. I've wasted my time.

Well my friend who I haven't seen for 18 months is my best friend and we have such a good time and I have been waiting for her to come back and its not fair my friend gets to go and see her. Its not a surprise he can pay for.

Riding lessons don't come in cheap so I suspect your dad probably has more money than you.

Calling someone irrational and making nasty comments about their interests, home life and relationships with family and friends is nothing short of bullying. It is not 'friendly advice'. If Mormon Girl's interests and questions are a problem then why click on her threads and post in them?

WTF??? Reading the last few posts I forgot it was a bloody Jo Joyner thread!! Lol

It was a great read to go with my egg soldiers.

Don't forget modest

This is getting ridiculous now.

wow, this thread is like Groundhog Day

round and round and round and round and round..........

And not in a good way!

*exits thread & never return hoping thread fades into oblivion*

How do we get threads closed/locked?

Mormon Girl is perfectly capable of sticking up for herself. If I had deliberately bullied her I would feel utterly dreadful. This is an ongoing thread that is a repeat of a repeat of repeated questions and demands about Jo Joyner that Mormon Girl keeps posting. Posters have in the past been quite annoyed at mormon girl's continuing obbssesion. But, last night myself and mormon girl had proper communication based upon her issues, and whilst it started on this thread it ended up being discussed privately. So, no I am not bullying her. Would never bully her. I just wanted to try and understand her. I do now.

If you don't post in threads, they disappear of their own accord. If this thread is closed, a new identical one will be started by the same person. Leave it be.

I didn't like you calling me a stalker and dangerous. Im not a stalker because I don't follow Jo Joyner around ect and Im not a dangerous person.

I don't want this thread closed because if /when I meet I can announce it in this thread.

And I was wrong to word it the way I did. But, let's move on. It's another day and another step nearer to your dream.