Originally Posted by mmDerdekea:
“I have to agree. LG could walk into a room where her husband is fixing a clock, his mother, whom he has not seen in years in the kitchen, and instead of ordering him to go see her, close the door and ask him if there is some reason he doesn't want to join his mom in the kitchen? She's picked up that he isn't entirely happy she's visited. How does he need her to be in this situation, etc?
That's respecting boundaries.”
“I have to agree. LG could walk into a room where her husband is fixing a clock, his mother, whom he has not seen in years in the kitchen, and instead of ordering him to go see her, close the door and ask him if there is some reason he doesn't want to join his mom in the kitchen? She's picked up that he isn't entirely happy she's visited. How does he need her to be in this situation, etc?
That's respecting boundaries.”
I think that's the type of discussion that needs a bit more time. Louisa was trying to get James fed and get out the door to work - really no time to sit down and delve into his mother issues.






