Originally Posted by Chas1989:
“Going into this episode, I knew what to expect of Brian's 'character' so that part wasn't too unexpected.
The story itself was decent. Jabez Blessed certainly had an eventful life - losing both his parents and sister at age 6, running away from a workhouse to then having 10 children and still marrying again after his wife's death.”
It was not uncommon for someone to remarry soon after the loss of their wife, and often younger women. Just practicalities, they needed someone around the house and to look after the children. There were lots of spinsters who would welcome marriage.
Worked the other way around with my GGGM, in 1851 she was a pauper, soldier's widow with two small children. She was in her mid-30s and married a neighbour who was about 74. He died a few years later but it gave support for that time and perhaps she was left some money.