Originally Posted by bazaar1:
“That's a sad case, and it sounds like they did the best for the cat, not because of the costs. We were going to go back to nz a few years ago, but our old dog would never of made the flight and stress so we stayed here, maybe it's silly to stay for a dog, but he's part of our family and we'd of felt terrible leaving him behind.”
My friend definitely put Bernard's interests first. Some of her old neighbours said they would look after him but she felt that would be very upsetting for Bernard because he would be so near his old home and he wouldn't understand where his beloved owners had disappeared to. He's really lovely, a dopey, chilled (except on car journeys), loving, lazy, loyal cat. He settled in with me so quickly at the time - but my friend knew he would, she knew his temperament and she also knew that I would give him a great life because she knew how much I loved animals and cats in particular.
I completely understand you adjusting your plans to take account of your dog's needs. I would do the same, definitely.