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this post is for doctor seven its beyond patronising actually who are you to question anyone's behaviour, remember when you were accused of staring at john james in an stalkerish way at that cricket match and he remarked on it how did you feel when it was pointed out. I only addressed your post because I was aghast at your impertinance.
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Not looked in this thread for ages. I saw a story about Big Brother receiving over 1000 complaints about last year's winner Helen's behaviour towards Brian Belo and so was looking in the forum section to see what had happened. Saw this thread was still active at the top of the page so looked to see what on earth could be keeping it going. I saw a post which clearly displayed something which showed signs of something that needs intervention. IT IS perseveration and it needs to be addressed. Perhaps it was provident timing. I'm sure if it was someone else highlighting it you wouldn't have jumped on them so fervently. After all, you dislike me immensely so it's no surprise.
It's the subject of the thread that the very issue for the poster. I would rather intervene and risk my place on the forum than simply sit back and leave that person to spiral even further into a mental health cul-de-suc. This is beyond the DS forum and it's rules. It's about this person's well being in the real world. You might be willing to ignore the issue but I'm not. |
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Not looked in this thread for ages. I saw a story about Big Brother receiving over 1000 complaints about last year's winner Helen's behaviour towards Brian Belo and so was looking in the forum section to see what had happened. Saw this thread was still active at the top of the page so looked to see what on earth could be keeping it going. I saw a post which clearly displayed something which showed signs of something that needs intervention. IT IS perseveration and it needs to be addressed. Perhaps it was provident timing. I'm sure if it was someone else highlighting it you wouldn't have jumped on them so fervently. After all, you dislike me immensely so it's no surprise.
BIB - Neither have I. I have never taken any photos of Josie's tummy. I've questioned the appearance of an apparent scar on her tummy in a pre-existing photo which was of a size and in a place known to be consistent with gastric band treatment. It's the subject of the thread that the very issue for the poster. I would rather intervene and risk my place on the forum than simply sit back and leave that person to spiral even further into a mental health cul-de-suc. This is beyond the DS forum and it's rules. It's about this person's well being in the real world. You might be willing to ignore the issue but I'm not. |
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Phew ..how can somebody be diagnosed ..by someone whose own mental health issues could be called into question
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#teammistyy
![]() Is there really any need to come on here accusing someone of being mentally ill? Below the belt and trying to cause trouble I think. I'm sure LG of 7 has more important stuff she could be doing. Like scrutinising belly buttons for instance ![]() Mental health comes under different categories. Educate yourself and you may understand my concern about Penelope's perseveration. Quote:
this post is for doctor seven its beyond patronising actually who are you to question anyone's behaviour, remember when you were accused of staring at john james in an stalkerish way at that cricket match and he remarked on it how did you feel when it was pointed out
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this post is for doctor seven its beyond patronising actually who are you to question anyone's behaviour, remember when you were accused of staring at john james in an stalkerish way[/b] at that cricket match and he remarked on it how did you feel when it was pointed out. I only addressed your post because I was aghast at your impertinance.
Hey Pickles! That sounds like Perseveration to me
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Are you a doctor? No Are you qualified in anyway that is relevant to what you are saying? No. Because if you were, your massive ego would ensure that we'd know about it in triplicate by now. I've worked in hospitals and trained as a nurse and still wouldn't presume to do what you are doing. But to be honest if we are going by textbook pseudo diagnosis the person who seems to have the mental health issue is actually you. The person going round in a loop saying the same thing over and over is you. The person acting in an inappropriate paternalistic God like interventionist manner is you. The person showing signs of a narcissistic personality disorder is you. You are not saving anyone you are just being an arrogant self agrandising bore. Get your medical degree or zip it.
OK, so let's take it from your perspective. You believe I have mental issues. Having identified this you have chosen to mock me, put me down and generally dismiss me as a person. Now if I was someone with mental health issues you have treated me in both a nasty and cruel manner. What does that say about you? However, I believe the actual case is that you know I don't have a mental health issue but want to deflect the matter in order to avoid taking on board what I'm saying. Quote:
When you get your pshychatrist qualifications come back and i will take note
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I'm not accusing someone of being mentally ill. Shows how wrong you are thinking about the issue. You are are being very dismissive of the situation.
Mental health comes under different categories. Educate yourself and you may understand my concern about Penelope's perseveration. . You are saying she has detrimental behaviour to her health and wellbeing though. Do you realise the impact that could have on someone saying things like this? Penelope must be feeling pretty bad about the things you have said. I think it is rude and patronising to speak about her in this manner on a public thread. |
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You are saying she has detrimental behaviour to her health and wellbeing though.
Do you realise the impact that could have on someone saying things like this? Penelope must be feeling pretty bad about the things you have said. I think it is rude and patronising to speak about her in this manner on a public thread. Or would you rather she received the help and support I want her to get? |
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So would you rather she continued the behaviour that is detrimental to her well-being?
Or would you rather she received the help and support I want her to get? I don't think her behaviour is detrimental, you do. Penelope has every right to post about JJJ in an appreciative manner however often she wants to. That is what an AT is for. It is you who is not being appreciative of JJJ or a regular poster on this thread. You are posting in a superior manner trying to put someone down. Maybe you should look closer at your own issues. |
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[quote=LittleGirlOf7;78704734]So if someone has broken their arm I shouldn't advise them to go to A&E to receive treatment because I'm not a paramedic?
OK, so let's take it from your perspective. You believe I have mental issues. Having identified this you have chosen to mock me, put me down and generally dismiss me as a person. Now if I was someone with mental health issues you have treated me in both a nasty and cruel manner. What does that say about you? However, I believe the actual case is that you know I don't have a mental health issue but want to deflect the matter in order to avoid taking on board what I'm saying. No. I have said on two occasions to you now that I am not qualified to judge or diagnose. My point is neither are you. You can't just read something in a book and apply it to publicly diagnose someone when as you admit you are not qualified. And the fact that you are not qualified just shows how wrong you are for what you have said about Penny. We could all diagnose each other with all sorts based on unqualified ignorant opinion. I said it was a pseudo textbook diagnosis like yours is when I turned what you are doing back at you. Its not nice is it? A broken arm is obvious, mental health issues are not. Who are you to presume and publicly embarrass someone on here who never has a bad word to say about anyone? Penny is no different to any of us who still talk about JJJ, the only difference is most people don't share their views about it any more but scratch the surface and people are showing up to add their opinion. Do you honestly think Penny is going to say thank you to you for what you are doing. I just hope you haven't upset her. Please just drop it now. |
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I don't think her behaviour is detrimental, you do.
Penelope has every right to post about JJJ in an appreciative manner however often she wants to. That is what an AT is for. It is you who is not being appreciative of JJJ or a regular poster on this thread. You are posting in a superior manner trying to put someone down. Maybe you should look closer at your own issues. Read what Penelope said in the quote in my first post. Tell me that is a healthy mindset to continue with and I will leave the thread. But not before I say again, I wish Penelope well and truly hope she seeks out the assistance and support she needs for certain aspects in her life away from her PC. |
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Oh dear, are you still going? lol What you keep going on about was never the main purpose of this whole conversation. It was my personal observation, my personal opinion based on tweets that I saw as they happened and was only mentioned because you made a statement that you can't prove either. I just mentioned it because no one knows what the situation is between those two and that was the reason for my doubt. Not that I think or hope they will get back together but that no one knows anything for sure. Josie and Luke never seemed real, he was always the rebound. Josie looks fantastic now, she's single and if there were any residual feelings now would be the time so I will continue to keep my eyes open until they are closed. I wonder if John's going to Ibiza this year? lol You do what you like landm. Sorry you didn't also see those tweets but that's not my problem, I'm not here to serve you or dish any dirt or provide evidence of anything. I don't care lol I only came on because I think what Snowy said about Penny was disgusting and cruel and shouldn't be left unchallenged. See LiittleGirlof7's diagnosis applies to you and me too now. It's catching
![]() ![]() ![]() 2. So you're claiming Josie was in a fake relationship for 3 1/2 years lol really appreciative that statement. ![]() 3. What's Snowy got to do with any of this she's not made any comment, or are you making another allegation without giving any evidence?
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No. I have said on two occasions to you now that I am not qualified to judge or diagnose. My point is neither are you. You can't just read something in a book and apply it to publicly diagnose someone when as you admit you are not qualified. And the fact that you are not qualified just shows how wrong you are for what you have said about Penny. We could all diagnose each other with all sorts based on unqualified ignorant opinion. I said it was a pseudo textbook diagnosis like yours is when I turned what you are doing back at you. Its not nice is it? A broken arm is obvious, mental health issues are not. Who are you to presume and publicly embarrass someone on here who never has a bad word to say about anyone? Penny is no different to any of us who still talk about JJJ, the only difference is most people don't share their views about it any more but scratch the surface and people are showing up to add their opinion. Do you honestly think Penny is going to say thank you to you for what you are doing. I just hope you haven't upset her. Please just drop it now.
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But not before I say again, I wish Penelope well and truly hope she seeks out the assistance and support she needs for certain aspects in her life away from her PC. So you wish to drive her away from posting here.. one of the people that keeps the thread going? Oh I get it now! |
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Hello Mistyy - My name is Dan, short for Daniel. It is that hard to believe that a guy can be interested in Triple J?
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1. I made a statement that Josie doesn't follow John James on twitter! Sorry but It can be proved you just look at Josie or John James twitter!
![]() 2. So you're claiming Josie was in a fake relationship for 3 1/2 years lol really appreciative that statement. ![]() 3. What's Snowy got to do with any of this she's not made any comment, or are you making another allegation without giving any evidence? ![]() 2. In my opinion only I think Josie did jump into a rebound relationship but as he turned out to be a nice guy dragged on longer than it should have and got in the way of resolving the way she really felt at the time. Appreciation is shown by taking an interest. 3. How did that get in there? lol Snowy is my little dog lol Is it actually a person too? Just a typo error due to tiredness. 4. How many times do I have to repeat that I have made no allegations, just a passing comment about something I'd personally observed, mentioned during a conversation about some thing else that you keep pouncing on. I'm not a stalker waiting to screen shot or make copies of things that I see on twitter so not sure what I can do for you landm. I saw. You didn't. Suck it up and set yourself free lol. It's trivial and I don't lie or have any reason to, just a passing observation that since Josie has split with Luke there have been drunken tweets after nights out that have mentioned missing someone and getting over a broken heart etc. maybe she WAS talking about Luke. Like I say who knows? Seriously can you just give it a rest because you are like an annoying wasp with nothing to say but says it a lot anyway.
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Hello Dan.xx
I will continue to live in my JJJ bubble until the day JohnJames or Josie marry..only then will I stop posting on The JJJat...there is always a chance for JJJ to reunite..keeping positive for that to happen.xx Of course JohnJames is living his life for himself..I am very happy that JohnJames does not live his life on Twitter..but I still love hearing from him..love knowing what he is up..JohnJames will tweet ..I have great faith in him..JohnJames will always be there for his supporters.xx |
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1. That wasn't what I was referring to.
2. In my opinion only I think Josie did jump into a rebound relationship but as he turned out to be a nice guy dragged on longer than it should have and got in the way of resolving the way she really felt at the time. Appreciation is shown by taking an interest. 3. How did that get in there? lol Snowy is my little dog lol Is it actually a person too? Just a typo error due to tiredness. 4. How many times do I have to repeat that I have made no allegations, just a passing comment about something I'd personally observed, mentioned during a conversation about some thing else that you keep pouncing on. I'm not a stalker waiting to screen shot or make copies of things that I see on twitter so not sure what I can do for you landm. I saw. You didn't. Suck it up and set yourself free lol. It's trivial and I don't lie or have any reason to, just a passing observation that since Josie has split with Luke there have been drunken tweets after nights out that have mentioned missing someone and getting over a broken heart etc. maybe she WAS talking about Luke. Like I say who knows? Seriously can you just give it a rest because you are like an annoying wasp with nothing to say but says it a lot anyway. ![]() |
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Hello Mistyy - My name is Dan, short for Daniel. It is that hard to believe that a guy can be interested in Triple J?
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So you wish to drive her away from posting here.. one of the people that keeps the thread going?
Oh I get it now! Christ, the selfishness of some people on this thread astounds me. |
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Hi Dan, that was quick! Yes it is hard to believe lol Why all the stirring on twitter all of a sudden?
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Penelope displays a repetitive pattern of behaviour by typing the same thing over and over. This has already gone on three years. To continue is only going to be a detriment to her well-being in the long term. Allow her to at least talk to someone about this away from the internet and then reach her own conclusions on the situation rather than have you answering for her.
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I would consider myself to be obversant on twitter and I haven't seen these tweets on twitter. I am sure it would of been made a bigger deal on twitter if anyone else had seen them. Can u just give me one example of a tweet she sent?
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So if someone has broken their arm I shouldn't advise them to go to A&E to receive treatment because I'm not a paramedic?
OK, so let's take it from your perspective. You believe I have mental issues. Having identified this you have chosen to mock me, put me down and generally dismiss me as a person. Now if I was someone with mental health issues you have treated me in both a nasty and cruel manner. What does that say about you? However, I believe the actual case is that you know I don't have a mental health issue but want to deflect the matter in order to avoid taking on board what I'm saying. Clueless. |
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