The John James & Josie Appreciation Thread (Part 231)

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PICKLES60

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by LittleGirlOf7:
“So if someone has broken their arm I shouldn't advise them to go to A&E to receive treatment because I'm not a paramedic?

OK, so let's take it from your perspective. You believe I have mental issues. Having identified this you have chosen to mock me, put me down and generally dismiss me as a person. Now if I was someone with mental health issues you have treated me in both a nasty and cruel manner. What does that say about you?

However, I believe the actual case is that you know I don't have a mental health issue but want to deflect the matter in order to avoid taking on board what I'm saying.

Clueless.”

Don't be so hard on yourself

Mistyy

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by LittleGirlOf7:
“Are you kiddng me? I mean seriously? You think that's what it's all about?

Christ, the selfishness of some people on this thread astounds me.”

The thing is doctors take an oath before they can practice - first do no harm -. What you did was selfish because you haven't thought about the consequences of your actions or the feelings of the person involved. You have helped no one. You've made a public exhibition of someone on a public forum. That's it.
Last edited by Mistyy : 27-06-2015 at 13:52

Dan_Carter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by Mistyy:
“Please don't you start as well. I saw what I saw on a couple of occasions. Why would anyone make a big deal on twitter? JJJ are old news, Josie has tweeted when she's been drunk from nights out about missing someone, wishing they were with her, having a broken heart then deleted. I hesitate to mention love song youtube clips as I can't remember what they were now and don't particularly want landm to pounce on another bandwagon. What proof am I supposed to come up with regarding something that was weeks ago about something that is quite trivial. It just made me wonder. That's it. I don't discuss JJJ any more there was no reason for me to take detailed notes at the time for you and landm. I only came back on here because of Penny. She didn't deserve to be treated like that. Why are you so interested anyway? Where have you appeared from?”

We can talk through private message if u dont want to be pounced on. I am just nosey thats all. Have u not seen my twitter profile?

2bad

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by LittleGirlOf7:
“
Christ, the selfishness of some people on this thread astounds me.”

Yes you're right it was very selfish to try and embarrass Penelope while making yourself look clever

Dan_Carter

27-06-2015

The whole Josie & Luke relationship did feel a bit strange to me aswell - the way it started off and then ended. What does anyone else think?

landm

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by Mistyy:
“1. That wasn't what I was referring to.
2. In my opinion only I think Josie did jump into a rebound relationship but as he turned out to be a nice guy dragged on longer than it should have and got in the way of resolving the way she really felt at the time. Appreciation is shown by taking an interest.
3. How did that get in there? lol Snowy is my little dog lol Is it actually a person too? Just a typo error due to tiredness.
4. How many times do I have to repeat that I have made no allegations, just a passing comment about something I'd personally observed, mentioned during a conversation about some thing else that you keep pouncing on. I'm not a stalker waiting to screen shot or make copies of things that I see on twitter so not sure what I can do for you landm. I saw. You didn't. Suck it up and set yourself free lol. It's trivial and I don't lie or have any reason to, just a passing observation that since Josie has split with Luke there have been drunken tweets after nights out that have mentioned missing someone and getting over a broken heart etc. maybe she WAS talking about Luke. Like I say who knows? Seriously can you just give it a rest because you are like an annoying wasp with nothing to say but says it a lot anyway. ”

So let me get this right....After recently splitting with her boyfriend of 3 1/2 years Josie drunk tweeted that she's missing someone and has a broken heart !!! righty i'm off to try and ponder who she was talking about...but I have a strong feeling it may be John James!

LittleGirlOf7

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by Dan_Carter:
“How do u know how it affects her mental health? She could just spend a few hours a day posting on her-, watching JJJ videos and mooching on twitter and the rest of the day she is doing other things and not thinking about them.”

A few hours? It's been the same handful of messages for three years with what appear to be only occasional variations. It's something called perseveration where someone does repetitive actions as a form of comforting. I just see others on here not helping Penelope break the cycle of this particular psychological pattern of behaviour. It's genuinely not helpful to the person as it means they rely on it as a kind of fix. The longer it goes on the more engrained it will become as an emotional necessity. I'm trying to help her recognise this but others seem intent on keeping her this static loop by telling her to ignore me and basically telling me to get lost.

Originally Posted by PICKLES60:
“Don't be so hard on yourself I think you have a few brain cells”

Oh I see what you did there. I called you clueless on a subject and then you spun it round to make it sound like I was being self critical. You're right. I do a few brain cells to be able to work that out.

Originally Posted by Mistyy:
“The thing is doctors take an oath before they can practice - first do no harm -. What you did was selfish because you haven't thought about the consequences of your actions or the feelings of the person involved. You have helped no one. You've made a public exhibition of someone on a public forum. That's it.”

Originally Posted by 2bad:
“Yes you're right it was very selfish to try and embarrass Penelope while making yourself look clever”

Me trying to help someone was me being selfish?

Fine. We're done.

All the best Penelope. Just know I had your best interests in mind.

Dan_Carter

27-06-2015

I bet Pen is delighted with all the activity on here the last few days - its keeping the TripleJ forum going strong

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by LittleGirlOf7:
“You know that is not going to happen. The reason you are setting that as a benchmark is it because it allows you to carry on with this repetitive behaviour indefinitely.

I don't know your background but for nearly three years now you have displayed clear signs of perseveration. I don't know the reasons for this as there are various causes but I do believe, with your above statement, you have long since reached a point where it's just not doing you any favours. You may see it as a comforting bubble, but in reality it's not particularly healthy. You can read more here about the symptoms of perseveration and it's affects here... http://www.snagglebox.com/article/perseveration

I would urge you to just talk to someone about this. In person, not online. Either a friend or better still your GP, who may be able to refer you to someone who you can chat with in a professional capacity. It's just something for you to think about.”

If you genuinely think I have Mental Issues why not PM...instead of causing attention for yourself ...says more about your state of mind than it does mine....if it is ok with yourself I shall continue to live in my JJJ Buble for as long as I choose..I do not need to seek out any physctaric medical professional advice to post about JJJ..if my posts have caused you problems all I can say is sorry ..maybe for your state of mind you should stop reading what I say about JJJ as my posts are clearly effecting you..take your own advice and seek help where you can come to terms with your own issues..don't ever insult me or any other poster on this Appreciation Thread..this Thread as you well know is a place where JJJers come and show their Appreciation to both JohnJames and Josie ..not a Thread to insult myself or anyone else who clearly love and adore JJJ..yes JJJ are no longer together..yes JJJ may never speak to each other ever again..how foolish do you think I am...but in my Buble JJJ will always remain together...I am a very romantic fool..I adore love stories..JJJ were adorable to watch in BB..I will always say JJJ were born for each other..JJJ themselves may say different..My Buble..My Thoughts..You can carry on your dislike for Josie all you like..your dissission..myself I will carry on my love and positivity for them both..

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by Mistyy:
“Penny, I hope you take no notice of that post. It's just mean spirited and unnecessary. I've just read the definition and it sounds like it could describe 99% of the population including me!! lol The other 1% are the self agrandising people who quote that at others just because they read it in a book once I think! Lots of people are still interested in JJJ and its not clear where they stand with each other at all still, especially with Josie newly single and them both being on friendlier terms and following each other on twitter. LittleGirlOf7 - if it aint broke don't fix it mate. Penny isn't doing any harm, just chats about something she is interested in with her friends on here. Have a little respect for peoples feelings maybe? That was very hurtful of you and I hope Penny doesn't take it to heart. If it bothers anyone, including "Dan" don't come on here and look perhaps. A lot of people still read this thread as shown by the viewing figures, who, like me, don't talk but still like to check in every now and then.”

Hello Misty.xx

How are you.xx
Thank you very much for your kind words..much appreciated.xx

It will take more than LittleGirl OF7 to burst my JJJ Buble.LOL.xx

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by landm:
“1. I think everyone knows after 5 year's where they stand with each other, they have BOTH made it clear.
2. Josie DOES NOT follow John James on twitter. Sorry to inform/ bring a FACT on here.
3 . Penny speaks to her friend not friends, as nobody answers here other than Sue. And Sue only answers when she can get her Laptop working !”

Why do you bother posting on this thread..

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by PICKLES60:
“Post for l gof 7 Well lookey here someone coming onto an appreciation thread to personally accuse another poster of having mental health problems , surely this is against the rules and regulations.. Given that pot kettle black comes to mind I am amazed you bother to even read a thread that includes Josie who you appear to dislike immensely a bit stalkerish wouldn't you say?
I doubt Penny has ever took in depth photos of Josie's tummy to prove she has had plastic surgery.”

Hello Pickles.xx

How are you..xx
Thanks for your support..much appreciated.xx

Your right Pickles I have no need to get my magnifying glass out to look at Josies tummy or my marker pen out to check Josies weight loss..Josie has not cheated what so ever with her weight loss..very proud of Josie.xx

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by jackyo55:
“Phew ..how can somebody be diagnosed ..by someone whose own mental health issues could be called into question”

Hello Jackyo.xx

How are you.xx
Thank you for your support much appreciated.xx
Wise words there Jackyo.xx

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by 2bad:
“Yes you're right it was very selfish to try and embarrass Penelope while making yourself look clever”

Hello 2Bad.xx

Thank you for your support much appreciated.xx

Dan_Carter

27-06-2015

I dont know if u have seen my post, Pen but I think it was me who started this whole thing off - I am sorry -

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by Dan_Carter:
“Hi Pen - I am sorry if my tweet has upset u. I am a former Triple J fan and I had no right to tell u how to act!”

..excepted

2bad

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by Penelope_Potter:
“If you genuinely think I have Mental Issues why not PM...instead of causing attention for yourself ...says more about your state of mind than it does mine....if it is ok with yourself I shall continue to live in my JJJ Buble for as long as I choose..I do not need to seek out any physctaric medical professional advice to post about JJJ..if my posts have caused you problems all I can say is sorry ..maybe for your state of mind you should stop reading what I say about JJJ as my posts are clearly effecting you..take your own advice and seek help where you can come to terms with your own issues..don't ever insult me or any other poster on this Appreciation Thread..this Thread as you well know is a place where JJJers come and show their Appreciation to both JohnJames and Josie ..not a Thread to insult myself or anyone else who clearly love and adore JJJ..yes JJJ are no longer together..yes JJJ may never speak to each other ever again..how foolish do you think I am...but in my Buble JJJ will always remain together...I am a very romantic fool..I adore love stories..JJJ were adorable to watch in BB..I will always say JJJ were born for each other..JJJ themselves may say different..My Buble..My Thoughts..You can carry on your dislike for Josie all you like..your dissission..myself I will carry on my love and positivity for them both..xx”

Go Penelope!

If it was genuine concern I agree she could have messaged you in private.

Originally Posted by Penelope_Potter:
“Hello 2Bad.xx
Thank you for your support much appreciated.xx”

No problem, I hated to see what was being said about you.

Carry on as you were. Your efforts to keep the thread current are appreciated x

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

JJJers are the best bunch of supporters ever..JJJ are very lucky to have wonderful caring loyal supporters..Thank You All Very Much For Your Support Today..XxxxxxxxXxxxxxxXxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by 2bad:
“Go Penelope!

If it was genuine concern I agree she could have messaged you in private.

No problem, I hated to see what was being said about you.

Carry on as you were. Your efforts to keep the thread current are appreciated x”

Thank You.xx

I will be withering on about JJJ until the cows come home.LOLxx

Penelope_Potter

27-06-2015

Speak to you all later...off for a mooch.xxxxxxxxxxxx

Dan_Carter

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by Penelope_Potter:
“Thank You.xx
I will be withering on about JJJ until the cows come home.LOLxx”

What do u think of Mistyy's comments on Josie's tweets, Pen? Have u seen them?

Mistyy

27-06-2015

Well said Penny! Good for you.

Mistyy

27-06-2015

Originally Posted by Penelope_Potter:
“Hello Misty.xx
How are you.xx
Thank you very much for your kind words..much appreciated.xx
It will take more than LittleGirl OF7 to burst my JJJ Buble.LOL.xx”

Hello Penny,
Although I pop on to read from time to time I haven't posted on here for years. What LittleGirlof7 said about you made me so angry lol It's good to see you are okay.

xxx

Penelope_Potter

28-06-2015

Good Morning All JJJers.xx

Penelope_Potter

28-06-2015

Originally Posted by Dan_Carter:
“What do u think of Mistyy's comments on Josie's tweets, Pen? Have u seen them?”

Think Josie was upset because she heard the news of Marge/Homer splitting up..another perfect couple who were born for each other..very sad.xx

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