Originally Posted by The Little One:
“The truth isn't always a bundle of feel good is it though?
What did Carol say because I haven't seen it yet but regardless whether or not you want to go, if someone says something not nice about you then it can be upsetting?”
True and this is my problem with Carol, she has no filter and zero empathy.. You can be honest and truthful and still be tactful and kind. There is no need to humiliate people, that's just a power trip and emotional abuse.
Good communication does not involve insults or put downs. Thats just being nasty for the sake of it.
Sophie was quite correct on BBots last night, saying you have to consider others feelings and none of us can say what we like. Words can wound and cause lasting damage.
How many of us can remember hurtful words from the past, quite a few I would say.Its a game but its a game with human beings with feelings and as Sophie said there is a line, you don't cross.