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How come Abz never hugs the evicted housemate?
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Blackened1
06-09-2013
He just walks over to the stairs and not hugs them...
Milhause
06-09-2013
Someone mentioned Aspergers?
Shadyfish
06-09-2013
[quote=Blackened1;68496964]He just walks over to the stairs and not hugs them...Coz he's genuine and doesn't do false emotion maybe?
Blackened1
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Milhause:
“Someone mentioned Aspergers?”

Doesnt stop him giving them a hug goodbye though?
dazza89
06-09-2013
Abz hasn't said or done much in the house but his entrance speech to Emma was one of the best moments in BB history..''I'm skint''
Jerrica09
06-09-2013
Maybe he's not tactile. A lot of Aspies hate hugs, especially from non loved ones. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2mGXJksMzZ0 In this video he didn't want his bandmates hand on his shoulder and kept brushing him off.
Vee_Lyons
06-09-2013
Unlike the two-faced slag Charlotte hugging and kissing "tomato head" Bruce. She practically followed him up the stairs. Why is she never up for eviction, she's ghastly.
Jerrica09
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Blackened1:
“Maybe because I dont have it and thats why I dont know much about it?”

My son has Asperger's, he hates hugs, it's a sensory overload thing for him. He'll allow it from me and his uncle, but no-one else.
sandy50
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Vee_Lyons:
“Unlike the two-faced slag Charlotte hugging and kissing "tomato head" Bruce. She practically followed him up the stairs. Why is she never up for eviction, she's ghastly.”

doesn't mean she doesn't like him and wants to see him off does it ! she had a few rows with him, and moved, on,
which is good advice !
2shy2007
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Blackened1:
“Doesnt stop him giving them a hug goodbye though?”

It can do, yes, it may be an idea for you to read up a little on it.
snickypoo
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Milhause:
“Neither do I, ignorance is no excuse. Educate yourself. Some Asperger sufferers don't even want family touching them.”

Im sorry but that is a bit harsh, Big Brother is an entertainment show, I understand there is a HM with Aspergers in the house,this doesnt give you the right to call another forum user ignorant because they have no knowledge of this condition.
Shadyfish
06-09-2013
Agree with you Vee_Lyons and whether it's to do with his Asperger's or just personal choice, he is reacting honestly and not " love you, love you" to someone he doesn't.
It takes a lot to be honest especially when going against the herd, and it can only come from an inner strength and belief in your convictions.
Is he the most entertaining housemate - not by a long chalk - but he is the most honest i think.
rapscallion.
06-09-2013
It's a black ting
Milhause
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by snickypoo:
“Im sorry but that is a bit harsh, Big Brother is an entertainment show, I understand there is a HM with Aspergers in the house,this doesnt give you the right to call another forum user ignorant because they have no knowledge of this condition.”

Read the link regarding "ignorance".

Ignorance means lacking knowledge which the OP certainly displays.

The word ignorant is often used in wrong connotations which you appear to misunderstand also.

Educashun...aint wot it ust t'be....(by the looks of things).
crisis3
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Blackened1:
“He just walks over to the stairs and not hugs them...”

My theory is he's a hologram and they can only afford to switch him on a couple of hours a day with the excessive costs of electricity these days.
Milhause
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Shadyfish:
“Agree with you Vee_Lyons and whether it's to do with his Asperger's or just personal choice, he is reacting honestly and not " love you, love you" to someone he doesn't.
It takes a lot to be honest especially when going against the herd, and it can only come from an inner strength and belief in your convictions.
Is he the most entertaining housemate - not by a long chalk - but he is the most honest i think.”

Totally agree, a quiet, secure honesty without aggression is much to be admired.
Jerrica09
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by rapscallion.:
“It's a black ting”

He's Turkish...
Shadyfish
06-09-2013
yes, and a strength that is very much underestimated.
Last edited by Shadyfish : 06-09-2013 at 22:41
Enidan
06-09-2013
It's because of his fake Jamaican accent.
Damanda
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Enidan:
“It's because of his fake Jamaican accent.”

YES!
That is the real reason
Enidan
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Damanda:
“YES!
That is the real reason”

I thought as much.
snickypoo
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Milhause:
“Read the link regarding "ignorance".

Ignorance means lacking knowledge which the OP certainly displays.

The word ignorant is often used in wrong connotations which you appear to misunderstand also.

Educashun...aint wot it ust t'be....(by the looks of things).”

You don't need to educate me on Aspergers Syndrome, both of my sons have the condition, by the way I think it is great that you have educated yourself about this condition.When the OP commented about Abz not giving the evicted HMs a hug, you knew immediately the reason, as did I, because we are armed with the knowledge. That doesnt make you and I better people than anyone else, maybe some posters who dont understand this condition would benefit from learning about it, but there ways of saying this, and in my opinion you came across as too harsh and somewhat patronising. By the way, you can have your rollyeyes smilie back!
KathrynHenderso
06-09-2013
I think it's the Aspergers too. He's hiding it pretty well though....
Shadyfish
06-09-2013
Originally Posted by Milhause:
“Totally agree, a quiet, secure honesty without aggression is much to be admired. ”

yes and he may be seen as boring by others cause he doesn't do as they do, and speaks in what sounds like" foreign tongue", but he hasn't, as far as I've seen, done anything wrong. I'm Welsh by birth and when I go home my accent changes back, but my morals," ME" as a person, doesn't change. And as for the Asbergers, i don't get it, cos i don't know of any law that says you Have to kiss and cuddle some stranger just cos they've gone out before you in a game and you are still in it. is it cos you are apologising for being better than them?
Ms Steak
06-09-2013
It probably is aspergers. My son has autism, and it would never even occur to him that a hug was the thing to do.
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