Originally Posted by Halki:
“You and others on here all have different views on how Aspergers manifests itself. All are right because Aspies may share some likenesses, but certainly not all. My daughter is 20 years old. She never attracted disapproving looks because she was always on her best behaviour in public, and also in school. She struggles with social interaction, as in making and keeping friends, likewise with emotional relationships. She does not feel a need to stick to a routine but she has rituals she has to follow to avoid anxiety. She, like many others suffers from depression at times, again a common issue. She is a high achiever and is at university. Despite finding social interaction to be very difficult, she actively pushes those boundaries. She heads committees, has to speak at conferences, and generally pushes herself into difficult for her, situations. There is a reason why she does this. She simply wants to fit in. To be the same. To me, she is brave beyond belief. She is my hero. As to why Abz went in there? For the same reason she would. To show he can fit in.
Lovely to hear about others experiences here. Best wishes to all. xx”
You're daughter sounds just delightful, you must be bursting with pride. My friends lads are very bright too, one especially, he's bordering on genious with maths! They are 12 and going through those 'normal' dodgy years every mum knows!
I'll show her you're post in the morning, it's wonderful to hear how well you're daughter has done and proof that with hard work, determination and unwavering support from a loving family, the skys the limit.
My best wishes to you both