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Love? I wouldn't say I loved him, but I did like him, until I realised he was playing a game, not being himself..
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He did and has interacted with HMs. He's not stated he can't be bothered with the human race, he says he he's wary because he finds it hard to trust people because he has been screwed over by those he trusted in the past.
What is hard to get? war·y /ˈwe(ə)rē/ Adjective Feeling or showing caution about possible dangers or problems: "dogs are often wary of strangers". He isn't the first person to build a wall to protect himself. Weary means you are tired of something. Wary means you are apprehensive about something |
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He did and has interacted with HMs. He's not stated he can't be bothered with the human race, he says he he's wary because he finds it hard to trust people because he has been screwed over by those he trusted in the past.
What is hard to get? war·y /ˈwe(ə)rē/ Adjective Feeling or showing caution about possible dangers or problems: "dogs are often wary of strangers". He isn't the first person to build a wall to protect himself. |
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Playing a game and being yourself are not mutually exclusive. Plus, everyone who goes in there realises it is a game. Everyone is using whatever tactics they have at their disposal.
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Why do you suppose so many people love him?
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He has said himself in that clip that he has a fiery side.So he has hidden away to avoid showing it? That is not what this show is about, surely? Lets have a house full of people hiding away from what is essentially themselves.That is my point. I know he has an illness but that is NOT what he is talking about.
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Please don't be so rude I am fully aware of the English Language. He actually said he was "weary" of the human race or people or whatever. Why put himself in a situation where people are all he has ? I don't dislike the man either.. I will NOT insult you with the meaning of the word weary!
No he really didn't. He said that he was wary of people and took a long time to get close to them. He explained it at quite some length.
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Why go into the house ? I can only assume it's for the money.
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It's best to take your time getting to know people anyway.
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He is, they all are in the game show BB
They are all playing a game. It's not a crime, it's not to be jeered or scorned or derided. Neither does it need to be denied. They are game players, how they play is up to them. I think he has played by keeping his own counsel when he realised there wasn't anyone in there for him to be friends with. He must be bored and lonely but it a job he has taken and he is doing it to the end. When he is out I am sure he will be relived, honour his commitments to the show and go home with his partner and his cheque. Nowt wrong with that. |
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No he really didn't. He said that he was wary of people and took a long time to get close to them. He explained it at quite some length.You're right - wary, not weary. |
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No he really didn't. He said that he was wary of people and took a long time to get close to them. He explained it at quite some length. |
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He was renting a farm with his girlfriend but the landlord didn't like that the place was filmed for a few different shows and made them move out, so now he's living with his girlfriends aunt in Cardiff. He's probably focused on acquiring another farm.
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No he didn't, he said he was just weary of people he has been taken advantage of and people see him as an opportunity etc etc.The tile of the video is also weary not wary.I listened to his lengthy explanation.
He may well be wary too but weary is what he said @ 00:40. |
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No he didn't, he said he was just weary of people he has been taken advantage of and people see him as an opportunity etc etc.The tile of the video is also weary not wary.I listened to his lengthy explanation.
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No he didn't, he said he was just weary of people he has been taken advantage of and people see him as an opportunity etc etc.The tile of the video is also weary not wary.I listened to his lengthy explanation.
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He has said himself in that clip that he has a fiery side.So he has hidden away to avoid showing it? That is not what this show is about, surely? Lets have a house full of people hiding away from what is essentially themselves.That is my point. I know he has an illness but that is NOT what he is talking about.
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Well said. I have the same condition as Abz (Asperger's Syndrome), and although I'd dearly love to be able to interact with people as easily as most of the housemates do, that sort of thing is very tiring for me even with people whose company I enjoy. I think Abz doesn't mean that he dislikes humanity, rather that interacting is a strain and can be overwhelming. It's not a pleasant thing to live with, and I take my hat off to him for entering the house and getting this far.
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Well said. I have the same condition as Abz (Asperger's Syndrome), and although I'd dearly love to be able to interact with people as easily as most of the housemates do, that sort of thing is very tiring for me even with people whose company I enjoy. I think Abz doesn't mean that he dislikes humanity, rather that interacting is a strain and can be overwhelming. It's not a pleasant thing to live with, and I take my hat off to him for entering the house and getting this far.
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He's not playing a game! God.
I know, can only think it's desperation incase he prevents a certain ignoramus winning |
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Well said. I think he found it difficult when there were a lot of people in the house but is feeling it easier to cope now it's a bit quieter. It must have been quite a challenge for him. Yes I'm sure he's doing it for the money but so are they all, they are just less honest about it.
I respect him for going in there when it's difficult to do when you are shy/introvert in new crowds Probably the type who only those in his circle see his true personality as he is comfortable around them |
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The title of the video on the Channel 5 site is "I'm wary of people.. I put up a resistance". Whoever put it on youtube transcribed it wrongly.
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No he definitely said weary, sorry.
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Part of adult life and human interaction is controlling your fier
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Maybe you misunderstood because of his accent.
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No he really didn't. He said that he was wary of people and took a long time to get close to them. He explained it at quite some length.