I'm one of those who much prefer the writers leave the sex and stuff (ie. shenanigans) to our imaginations (see recent posts for examples of how it heats up the imaginations in viewers). It's quite clear they love each other romantically - but the writers need to show how they can make each other happy as a family/couple - how DM and L define "happy" not how we would define it for ourselves. Or at least, that's what I'm hoping the PTB will do --
Doc Martin (Part 17 — Spoilers)
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Originally Posted by Bloodphobia:
“New Park. "Platonic" means that the relationship is not sexual but at least there is a meaningful relationship. In much of series 5 and 6, Martin and Louisa seemed like two people living as roommates, under obligation to take care of their child, with nothing meaningful between them. We grasp onto nuances in the scripts to infer that there must be a sexual relationship between the two. But Martin may be a man with low testerone and limited interest in sex. His back story is that he was an ascetic, celibate surgeon with no interest in women. It was always Louisa who initiated even a kiss. At the marriage proposal Martin did not embrace Louisa She threw herself at him and likely initiated the sex. She later described their sexual relationship as "on the few occasions". In what was probably the four weeks before the first wedding, for a newly sexual couple to have sex only a few times is unusual. Lack of an intimacy with Martin could be one source of her frustration with him. I think that should be one of the first things the marriage counselor addresses, but I doubt that will happen in the show”
“New Park. "Platonic" means that the relationship is not sexual but at least there is a meaningful relationship. In much of series 5 and 6, Martin and Louisa seemed like two people living as roommates, under obligation to take care of their child, with nothing meaningful between them. We grasp onto nuances in the scripts to infer that there must be a sexual relationship between the two. But Martin may be a man with low testerone and limited interest in sex. His back story is that he was an ascetic, celibate surgeon with no interest in women. It was always Louisa who initiated even a kiss. At the marriage proposal Martin did not embrace Louisa She threw herself at him and likely initiated the sex. She later described their sexual relationship as "on the few occasions". In what was probably the four weeks before the first wedding, for a newly sexual couple to have sex only a few times is unusual. Lack of an intimacy with Martin could be one source of her frustration with him. I think that should be one of the first things the marriage counselor addresses, but I doubt that will happen in the show”
What a depressing scenario!
I prefer to think of Martin Ellingham as someone who is deeply inhibited on sexual matters as well as emotional, and very shy -- but in the right circumstances, very interested and even passionate. Judging from the legions of female fans who find him sex on a stick (or maybe that's just on FB), I'm not alone...
Now in S6, as it went on, I could see it -- he appeared depressed and libido often diminishes in that condition. And it well may have contributed to Louisa's frustrations. Though, judging from her p.j.'s. she didn't seem to be doing much about it.
Actually, I probably shouldn't be quite so cavalier about Louisa -- she's probably mostly exhausted and stressed, and that isn't exactly conducive to a flourishing sex life.
Mostly, I agree with Carol, above. The show has deliberately made the "private" lives, private. Some would say they've gone too far, and without the spice of knowing they are sexually interested in each other, it's hard to figure what exactly is keeping them together, given all their other incompatibilities. James Henry enough? only to a degree, I would think.
Originally Posted by NewPark:
“What a depressing scenario!
I prefer to think of Martin Ellingham as someone who is deeply inhibited on sexual matters as well as emotional, and very shy -- but in the right circumstances, very interested and even passionate. Judging from the legions of female fans who find him sex on a stick (or maybe that's just on FB), I'm not alone...
Now in S6, as it went on, I could see it -- he appeared depressed and libido often diminishes in that condition. And it well may have contributed to Louisa's frustrations. Though, judging from her p.j.'s. she didn't seem to be doing much about it.
Actually, I probably shouldn't be quite so cavalier about Louisa -- she's probably mostly exhausted and stressed, and that isn't exactly conducive to a flourishing sex life.
Mostly, I agree with Carol, above. The show has deliberately made the "private" lives, private. Some would say they've gone too far, and without the spice of knowing they are sexually interested in each other, it's hard to figure what exactly is keeping them together, given all their other incompatibilities. James Henry enough? only to a degree, I would think.”
“What a depressing scenario!
I prefer to think of Martin Ellingham as someone who is deeply inhibited on sexual matters as well as emotional, and very shy -- but in the right circumstances, very interested and even passionate. Judging from the legions of female fans who find him sex on a stick (or maybe that's just on FB), I'm not alone...
Now in S6, as it went on, I could see it -- he appeared depressed and libido often diminishes in that condition. And it well may have contributed to Louisa's frustrations. Though, judging from her p.j.'s. she didn't seem to be doing much about it.
Actually, I probably shouldn't be quite so cavalier about Louisa -- she's probably mostly exhausted and stressed, and that isn't exactly conducive to a flourishing sex life.
Mostly, I agree with Carol, above. The show has deliberately made the "private" lives, private. Some would say they've gone too far, and without the spice of knowing they are sexually interested in each other, it's hard to figure what exactly is keeping them together, given all their other incompatibilities. James Henry enough? only to a degree, I would think.”
I really don't know about the "low testosterone" issue. I prefer to believe that he is shy, but when given the opportunity he is a wonderful lover and is able to use that as a way to express himself. Edith came back and was highly motivated to get him back in her bed. Louisa stated something about "a few other times" because she was giving her history to Edith whom she saw as a rival threat. I believe those few weeks were filled with passionate sexual encounters. They were both "up" for the honeymoon........no, I see sex as a release and a means of expression for otherwise inhibited DM.
Originally Posted by Mofromco:
“I really don't know about the "low testosterone" issue. I prefer to believe that he is shy, but when given the opportunity he is a wonderful lover and is able to use that as a way to express himself. Edith came back and was highly motivated to get him back in her bed. Louisa stated something about "a few other times" because she was giving her history to Edith whom she saw as a rival threat. I believe those few weeks were filled with passionate sexual encounters. They were both "up" for the honeymoon........no, I see sex as a release and a means of expression for otherwise inhibited DM.”
“I really don't know about the "low testosterone" issue. I prefer to believe that he is shy, but when given the opportunity he is a wonderful lover and is able to use that as a way to express himself. Edith came back and was highly motivated to get him back in her bed. Louisa stated something about "a few other times" because she was giving her history to Edith whom she saw as a rival threat. I believe those few weeks were filled with passionate sexual encounters. They were both "up" for the honeymoon........no, I see sex as a release and a means of expression for otherwise inhibited DM.”
Then there's the "optimally nutritious" dinner -- he was clearly VERY interested in having her stay over.
Originally Posted by NewPark:
“Then there's the "optimally nutritious" dinner -- he was clearly VERY interested in having her stay over.”
“Then there's the "optimally nutritious" dinner -- he was clearly VERY interested in having her stay over.”
"Have some more salt".......LOL
Originally Posted by NewPark:
“Then there's the "optimally nutritious" dinner -- he was clearly VERY interested in having her stay over.”
“Then there's the "optimally nutritious" dinner -- he was clearly VERY interested in having her stay over.”
And he initiated the two kisses on the balcony of her house. The second kiss having a degree of hotness to it, as I saw it, for sure.
Originally Posted by SusieSagitarius:
“And he initiated the two kisses on the balcony of her house.”
“And he initiated the two kisses on the balcony of her house.”
And the sweetly awkward attempt at Carrie Wilson's party.
and he fully responded to her under the tree at the concert (just should've kept his mouth shut afterwards... )
Originally Posted by SusieSagitarius:
“And he initiated the two kisses on the balcony of her house. The second kiss having a degree of hotness to it, as I saw it, for sure.”
“And he initiated the two kisses on the balcony of her house. The second kiss having a degree of hotness to it, as I saw it, for sure.”
Susie, do you happen to remember which episode that was in? I need to, emmm, recheck that hotness quotient
The episode right after the engagement, I think. S03e06 or 7...
The first kiss was just regular (although having him initiate it did make me hold me breath) then he went in for a 2nd one and L just started to respond by going up on her toes and settling in for more lip time when the phone rang
The first kiss was just regular (although having him initiate it did make me hold me breath) then he went in for a 2nd one and L just started to respond by going up on her toes and settling in for more lip time when the phone rang
Originally Posted by carol_avery:
“The episode right after the engagement, I think. S03e06 or 7...
The first kiss was just regular (although having him initiate it did make me hold me breath) then he went in for a 2nd one and L just started to respond by going up on her toes and settling in for more lip time when the phone rang”
“The episode right after the engagement, I think. S03e06 or 7...
The first kiss was just regular (although having him initiate it did make me hold me breath) then he went in for a 2nd one and L just started to respond by going up on her toes and settling in for more lip time when the phone rang”
Thank you! I will re-view it
Originally Posted by Hester_52:
“Thank you! I will re-view it”
“Thank you! I will re-view it
”
Just for fun, a survey of kisses: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FuS...xCfriHM4mpKeVV
Originally Posted by SusieSagitarius:
“Just for fun, a survey of kisses: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FuS...xCfriHM4mpKeVV”
“Just for fun, a survey of kisses: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FuS...xCfriHM4mpKeVV”
In slow motion, no less!
Philippa and Martin of BP have taken the love scenes, (very short, in reflection) to a new art form. You are led to think there would be loving conversation between M & L after an embrace, kiss, that would not be interrupted, or med-speak following, but alas, most times this is what happens. In fact, in S6E1 the most sensuous scene at the honeymoon lodge was when Louisa stands facing Martin and says, "Er, hello husband" and Martin steps forward and slightly pushes away her bridal veil and says "Hello, Mrs. Ellingham". Where else could that scene be played in this manner and the viewer taking away from it a seductive move on his part? I thought at that moment M & L had opened a new chapter with commitment, into their lives.
they giveth and then they taketh away
End of S5 he says "I was wrong about you, about London, about all it it.." She cries, we cry, he cries, we all cry..... and opening S6 he is still planning to leave and go to London
End of S5 he says "I was wrong about you, about London, about all it it.." She cries, we cry, he cries, we all cry..... and opening S6 he is still planning to leave and go to London
Originally Posted by Hester_52:
“I so agree with this. It takes a sense of self-worth and acceptance to not be hurt by teasing and Martin does not have that kind of ego strength. (yet, at least. Maybe one day). Why does Louisa mock his vulnerabilities – don’t the villagers do enough of that? It could be argued that in some instances, it’s just her general frustration boiling over, but the scene in the forest wasn’t one of them, and for that reason bothered me particularly. They’ve just gotten married, they’re lost, and he’s trying to protect her. Why is she making fun of him? It just seemed so needless. Martin is complicated, and can be frustrating, no doubt, but, but I find Louisa to be pretty insensitive at times. What the writers were thinking is a good question. So we’re back to the issue of how inconsistently her character is written.”
“I so agree with this. It takes a sense of self-worth and acceptance to not be hurt by teasing and Martin does not have that kind of ego strength. (yet, at least. Maybe one day). Why does Louisa mock his vulnerabilities – don’t the villagers do enough of that? It could be argued that in some instances, it’s just her general frustration boiling over, but the scene in the forest wasn’t one of them, and for that reason bothered me particularly. They’ve just gotten married, they’re lost, and he’s trying to protect her. Why is she making fun of him? It just seemed so needless. Martin is complicated, and can be frustrating, no doubt, but, but I find Louisa to be pretty insensitive at times. What the writers were thinking is a good question. So we’re back to the issue of how inconsistently her character is written.”
Okay, I have to disagree here. I feel that moment in the woods was very funny, light-hearted and not mocking meanly. I mean, couples can have fun together, and at times at each others expense. Louisa was obviously joking, and not purposefully being "mean" and DM knew that. He HAD been goofy with the horse and he knew it.
And we see her soon use the shotgun to tell the home owner to apologize to DM.
This is unlike for example, Louisa viciously mocking DM with Mark Mylow's sister, and then being mean to him again in the bar. That was just awful and for me and inexcusable. They were not married, together, sharing an adventure, having some fun with it. She was just showing a side to her that I found 100% unflattering.
Originally Posted by Mofromco:
“I love Mona's story. I have to believe that is close to what happened. Louisa was not disappointed to be alone with Martin at the honeymoon lodge and Martin loved the aspect that they wouldn't be plagued by the phone....oh what might have been. And I suspect anything physical went down the drain from there.”
“I love Mona's story. I have to believe that is close to what happened. Louisa was not disappointed to be alone with Martin at the honeymoon lodge and Martin loved the aspect that they wouldn't be plagued by the phone....oh what might have been. And I suspect anything physical went down the drain from there.”
Thanks marchrand and Mofromco for liking my story!
I agree w/ mmDerkea. S06E01 was charming. The one w/ the problem is DM. L. is not perfect, but a realistic woman in her role/interactions w/ DM. it's not her role to heal or cure him. Like she said in S01E01 "you got problem" to him.
Originally Posted by mmDerdekea:
“Okay, I have to disagree here. I feel that moment in the woods was very funny, light-hearted and not mocking meanly. I mean, couples can have fun together, and at times at each others expense. Louisa was obviously joking, and not purposefully being "mean" and DM knew that. He HAD been goofy with the horse and he knew it.
And we see her soon use the shotgun to tell the home owner to apologize to DM.
This is unlike for example, Louisa viciously mocking DM with Mark Mylow's sister, and then being mean to him again in the bar. That was just awful and for me and inexcusable. They were not married, together, sharing an adventure, having some fun with it. She was just showing a side to her that I found 100% unflattering.”
“Okay, I have to disagree here. I feel that moment in the woods was very funny, light-hearted and not mocking meanly. I mean, couples can have fun together, and at times at each others expense. Louisa was obviously joking, and not purposefully being "mean" and DM knew that. He HAD been goofy with the horse and he knew it.
And we see her soon use the shotgun to tell the home owner to apologize to DM.
This is unlike for example, Louisa viciously mocking DM with Mark Mylow's sister, and then being mean to him again in the bar. That was just awful and for me and inexcusable. They were not married, together, sharing an adventure, having some fun with it. She was just showing a side to her that I found 100% unflattering.”
I forgot about that scene with Mylow's sister........that was just awful, vicious gossip. I would have fallen out of love with her right then. Another one not as heinous is when Louisa had her antenatal appointment and Martin says "Aren't I supposed to take you?" And Louisa just blows him off......I don't think she realized what he said. Poor dejected Martin. This is what they do to make us like him.
Originally Posted by carol_avery:
“they giveth and then they taketh away
End of S5 he says "I was wrong about you, about London, about all it it.." She cries, we cry, he cries, we all cry..... and opening S6 he is still planning to leave and go to London”
“they giveth and then they taketh away
End of S5 he says "I was wrong about you, about London, about all it it.." She cries, we cry, he cries, we all cry..... and opening S6 he is still planning to leave and go to London”
Slight correction: "End of S4..... and opening S5 he is still planning......
S6 started with the wedding and them ensconced in Portwenn surgery.
Your description above is an apt one for S6 for sure. But then there has been that dynamic through all the series in some way, I think.
Oh yes, SusieS. Your correction is spot on! Thanks.
The PBS station that shows DM on Thursday nights had - how dare they? - fund-raising on instead. I hate fund-raising time on PBS. Grrrr!
The PBS station that shows DM on Thursday nights had - how dare they? - fund-raising on instead. I hate fund-raising time on PBS. Grrrr!
Originally Posted by carol_avery:
“Oh yes, SusieS. Your correction is spot on! Thanks.
The PBS station that shows DM on Thursday nights had - how dare they? - fund-raising on instead. I hate fund-raising time on PBS. Grrrr!”
“Oh yes, SusieS. Your correction is spot on! Thanks.
The PBS station that shows DM on Thursday nights had - how dare they? - fund-raising on instead. I hate fund-raising time on PBS. Grrrr!”
Have to get Acorn TV..........$4.99/ month........all Doc Martin all the time as well as Reggie Perrin, Dirty Tricks, William and Mary and other excellent British programs......I sound like a commercial. I should get paid!
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