Originally Posted by mmDerdekea:
“Well, perhaps in the role of devil's advocate, is it possibly true that Louisa is a very problematic woman with some real physical and mental/emotional problems?
It seems that is truly the way we have to imagine her as they have presented her. While that may sting, it does bring a certain humanity to Louisa outside of simply seeing her as some simple, pretty, wonderful PW woman who is tormented endlessly by DM.
I agree that DM's hemophobia has a heroic aspect to it--his hidden emotions sudden overcoming his rationality, destroying his beloved London career and lifestyle, and forcing him to retrain to be a PCP to stay in the field of medicine he was born to practice in. However, it's not heroic for him to be rude, impatient, haughty, clueless, and insulting.
Louisa is also shown as being heroic, too--she overcame her terrible childhood to be college-educated and a highly respected teacher and head Mistress; she is a self-actualized professional woman. She is also heroic with staying true to her love of DM, even when that love is full of endless travail. She was heroic to return to PW when she was pregnant, although she certainly screwed up that return throughout S4.
But, she does also have a lot of flaws.
Both of them have heroic aspects and very irritating personality traits. Even though I personally have not liked the last two series, I do admit that the creators and writers have imagined two very complicated, complex characters in DM and it is those intriguing characters which have kept me attached to the show. But, that is about to end if I do not start actually enjoying the episodes they are in.”
mmDerdekea, I couldn't agree more.
Another thing to keep in mind when discussing Louisa's ability (or lack thereof) to manage Martin's decline in S6 is this: Louisa likely has significant abandonment issues, stemming from her mother's departure to Spain, as well as her father's excommunication from the village and subsequent incarceration. The important people in her life, who are supposed to be there for her no matter what, have all bailed in the past. Martin himself has been inconsistent in his commitment to being with Louisa, and so it would be easy to see how she would have difficulty trusting that he will stay.
Often, when someone fears abandonment, they are more likely to jump ship first - a defensive/preventative measure that says, "If you're going to leave me, because everyone
always leaves me, then I'm going to beat you to the punch and be the first to leave when things get difficult,
before you have the chance to abandon me."
Usually it's a lot more subtle, as fears often are, so Louisa might not realize that's what she's doing. But I think this helps to explain her decision to leave for Spain at the end of S6. She can see that Martin is in decline, and if she believes that she's the cause of his unhappiness, she's assuming/afraid that he's going to leave her. So if the relationship is on the rocks, she wants to be the first one gone.
As for what I'd like to see in S7.....
- Martin and Louisa TALKING, ideally with the support of a counselor who can help them identify, articulate, and express their needs/wishes/dreams/hopes
- Louisa learning the full extent of Martin's childhood experience. It's easy for me to forget that she only has snippets of the big picture. Maybe Aunt Ruth could be the one to fill her in, as others have suggested before?
- Some romance for our couple! To somehow find our way back to the sweetness of the outdoor concert date, and to not have it end in a break-up
- Morwenna continuing to grow in maturity and competence. I personally love the character development we've seen in her since her arrival. She's gone from being a flighty and gormless girl, to someone who is able to keep her cool in the middle of emergencies, and who can offer her knowledge of PW and her fellow villagers which is beneficial to Martin (ie the episode with the old man and the pigeons). I'm not keen on her and Al together - it's quite tiresome that he quickly jumps from one receptionist to the next!
- No other love interests / jealousy-inducing relationships for M & L. That's been done with both Danny and Edith, as well as Mrs. T, and I'm done with that.
- And for good measure, a few more pratfalls with Martin hitting his head on door posts, etc. I'm not usually one for slapstick humour, but I missed that in S6