Originally Posted by missfrankiecat:
“I am quite sure Bruce was trying to be funny and make a joke. Since a joke can still be homophobic (or sexist or racist for that matter - or just plain unfunny) his intent is nothing to the point. For example, many people find Frank Carson, Jim Davidson etc to be highly offensive comedians who the BBC could no longer dream of putting on a family show and the fact that they think they are trying to be funny doesn't make their comments any less sexist or racist.
I think my point is that for a six figure salary I expect an entertainer who isn't bumbling his way through poorly expressed jokes which are frequently tedious and unfunny, with increasingly bad timing and an inability to read the room. The issue of this one exchange is a drop in the ocean of the awkward and amateurish moments we are treated to on a weekly basis.
And the camera pans to the judges as he makes the final remark - Darcy's rictus grimace and Bruno's expression I certainly read as tension - I may be mistaken in my interpretation of their facial expressions but you are certainly mistaken in suggesting that they are not seen on camera during the incident.”
Oh, you're quite sure now, are you? Because earlier you said you didn't know whether he was trying to be funny or not.
I can't believe I'm reading this. Intent and meaning are ENTIRELY relevant in determining whether a joke, a comment or even an insult is homophobic (racist, sexist, ageist, etc.).
The sort of old-school comedians you mention are leaps and bounds away from this harmless, off-the-cuff remark by Brucie, which was clearly aimed at the way Ben is lusted after by the female audience, not as any criticism or offense directed towards homosexuality.
You could only find homophobia in that remark if you are specifically looking for it. Which you sadly seem to be.
Regarding your second paragraph, I think we've got to the crux of the matter. Your view of that particular exchange is clearly warped by your dislike of Brucie's general presence and delivery on the show. It's a shame that you've allowed that to manifest itself in baseless and reactionary accusations of homophobia.
And finally, I've watched the incident back a few times now and Darcy and Len were clearly smiling, not forced as you suggest, when Brucie returned to them. Craig was stone-faced, as usual. And Bruno was clearly contemplating his upcoming comments/scores. Nothing about their behaviour suggests that any of them were obviously offended.
This is all simply a nonsense. There's no controversy here, no matter how hard people try to turn it into one.