I have indeedy and your card is up, thank you so much!!

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You are so much welcome and yours is so appreciated, had a bit of a manic day but lovely. Father Christmas, visitor of high esteem whilst I was covering the class then sorting out a cock up on my mortgage which is now virtually sorted.......I can so cope with stress nowadays

You can cope with all sorts Mrs T. So pleased the mortgage is looking like its all happening!!! Any ideas of a moving day?

I saw


Yay. I think Nursery lot are having theirs tomorrow


Yes. You're not being a moody cow Lucky <3

(((((((((((Lucky)))))))))))))) People who say words can never hurt you have never really had anything harsh said. Hard to know whether its best to just deal with it and move on, away from that person or to tell them they've hurt you. I hope you feel better soon!!!

Of course Lucky, I'm sure we all have done. Remember this, if the person who has said it is close to your heart then it hurts, if it is someone who could be quite irrelevant then sod it xx

Someone who loves you will not hurt you love

Evening miners!

Hope everyone is good (well not necessarily good, but well!)

I'm off to bed in a while, not sure if I'll sleep but can but rest.

Big love
SplintZ
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whatever that person did say (it was yesterday) is stuck in my head, i want to get it out, it wasn't nice and the person did apologise but i don't know..

it was written all over my face i was hurt the person apologised like loads (i forgived) but i can't forget it and what they said is stuck in my head.

I'm off to kip now myself Splint, you sleep well if you can! Night night xx

Its not easy to forgive and forget. The only thing you need to remember is, they were wrong - both in what they said and to have said anything like that at all. Remember you are lovely! Say to yourself, but I'm lovely! What do they know? xxx

(((((((Splintz)))))


Aw Lucky It will fade, try not to overthink it. Forgiving & forgetting isn't always easy. I'm sure they didn't mean it but the damage has been done ((((((((((Lucky))))))))

Only i can't stop telling myself that what they said is true, they know me as a person but nothing about me.

I'm willing to be any money that what they said isn't even true so don't you dare tell yourself that it is, you're just going to ingrain it on your mind even further x

i know i almost want to send a message to the person saying how much it did hurt me but that will make life ten times worse so the best I can do is try and forget which right now is not happening maybe because it was so recent i don't know.

i guess i can't help it.

To say sorry is sometimes very hard for people and to say sorry means you know you were wrong. Take substance in that, it's a funny time of the year and emotions run high for a lot of people. If in your heart you know you have done no wrong then that should be good enough to give you peace of mind.

I will bash you over the head with something heavy xx

Don't do it, or least not for the moment. It's not worth it. It's probably because it's so recent. Try not to focus on it as difficult as it is x


I understand Lucky having done it myself so many times.

I know funny thing is i do really believe the sorry its more about what's in my head anyway thank you mrs t i will try and forget as best as i can hopefully over time i'll forget.



it's not i know.

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anyway thank you guys i was thinking this to myself all day i didn't know what to do, but i knew i would get help here didn't really think people would understand but i knew you would

You will do Lucky, it just hurts at the time and if your head is a bit over loaded it hurts just that little bit more...you will forget and the best thing is just to have a hug and forget it as me and my colleagues do on rare occasions xx

Glad you could share it with us lovely xx