Originally Posted by Linda_Dean:
“Indeed. This kind of unqualified projection onto others, based on nothing but their own prejudices, is very ugly to see. Sadly, it's often done to women, by women.
I can't think of one thing she has done that could be construed as arrogant. All of them are being very PR friendly and not there 'true selfs'. It's a popularity contest, and everybody is playing for votes.
She is no more 'fake' than any of the others there... all smiling for the camera, saying their scripted lines and being as uncontroversial as possible.”
Indeed, I see a lovely woman who is self-depracating, sweet to others (didn't one of them last week say that she had given her a pep talk just before they went on?) and is supportive of her fellow competitors.
Obviously, though, I'm gullible (or alternatively, not blinded by prejudice, and one's own skewed perceptions of others).
Originally Posted by millie3:
“I didn't find her so. I say a 45 year old mother of 3 boys trying her best with a dance she know she was struggling with. But if it makes you feel better to make all sorts of assumptions about her then carry on.”
Absolutely.
Originally Posted by indiana44:
“Well, nice to be clearer as to where you are coming from.
Personally, I look forward to her giving it her all every week. Not her best dance tonight, but all the best to her.”
Me too.
Originally Posted by goldberry1:
“Fact is - she didn't dance well - it WAS awful.”
It wasn't 'awful' but hey, that's your opinion (and you know what they say about opinions. (and if you don't look it up).
Originally Posted by indiana44:
“Few people have suggested that she was that great tonight, certainly not herself. Though it certainly wasn't "awful".
But it's all the other rubbish ( IMO ) that's irritating - such as how dare she want to win, smile so much or indeed wiggle her bum as a mature mother.”
or be present in the Tesspit, or even - actually, exist. Maybe she should just do away with herself and then people would be happy (yes, exaggeration, but the sort of behaviour that is witnessed on these boards toward contestants borders on online bullying sometimes).
Originally Posted by jack_kerouac:
“girning and posturing right of centre in the TESS pit for the entire show.”
You're obviously watching a different show.
Originally Posted by
jack_kerouac:
“some men with taste can see through shallow women like miss " its all about me ".
I for one and me mates regards her as " High Maintainance" and Me me me demanding controlling type.
Sorry if that annoys people, but not all men are pervs and many can see through the act / facade.
She has an unnatural personality, and is probably a bad tempered person if doesnt get her own way.
If its to good to be true ....
”
There is no such thing as an 'unnatural' personality. You have no insight into how she really is. You don't know her, have never met her and are making snap judgements because for some bizarre reason, you have taken against her (is her dancing threatening your favourite or something?). You are not a mind reader so how you can purport to believe this stuff you come out with is beyond me.
It's also quite sad.
Originally Posted by indiana44:
“Thank you for that, mr self appointed man of taste. People have different opinions and you and your mates have yours.
Just, try not to be so judgemental as to why folk might disagree with your holier than thou taste.
It is possible that many folk ( guys indeed ) just genuinely like the enthusiasm she brings to each show and are not just shallowly won over by a slightly older woman wiggling a bit in a skimpty dress, such as to get called "pervs" !”
Indeed.
Originally Posted by missfrankiecat:
“Mark stood 'next' to Tess throughout apart from when he danced. Susannah stood on the right hand side of the screen throughout usually behind whichever pro of the couple being interviewed. It was unusual that the couples did not move around the Tess Pit as usual but all seemed to stand in the same positions - presumably on the marks given to them by the crew. Because of their heights Mark and Ben were easily the most visible but let's not let reality interfere with prejudice!”
No, no facts here, please. let's just rant away against somebody we don't know and are never likely to meet for no good reason.
Originally Posted by BuddyBontheNet:
“I can't work out if some of the posters on this thread are just trying to wind people up tonight.
Do people really believe that the couples stand or sit where ever they like in the Tesspit ???
And I am so glad my TV doesn't have the power to enable me to know things about people I've never met in my life, just by watching a light entertainment show. I'd start believing all sorts of conspiracy theories and not be able to sleep at night.”
Me too. It's quite scary to think that some people have this ability and think nothing of sharing it with others for no reason other than to look big and clever.
Unfortunately, such behaviour is not big and it's not clever. Quite the opposite.
Originally Posted by gorlagon:
“(First time posting here since forever!)
Wow. I'm quite amazed at the strength of feeling here. Surprising what comes through the screen at other people.
While I'd agree last night's dance was not good for Susanna and that she overcompensated with her face almost to the point of gurning, I don't see arrogance or cougar behaviour in the slightest. I see a BBC presenter who is a veteran of countless Children in Need and Comic Relief turns who brings a persona of positivity and value for money - as she has been trained to do.
I do wonder why people seem to enjoy the show mostly for the negative feelings they take from it. It doesn't seem like a healthy way to spend Saturday night.”
It's actually quite sad, really. But keyboard warriers seem to think they have the right to spout vitriol about anyone on TV because they don't believe they are real human beings (indeed, apparently, they are fake personalities).
God help any of you if you become well-known, because you'll be subject to the same abuse. Karma will catch up (it will do so anyway)..
Originally Posted by millie3:
“Anyone about to type off another dose of vitriol about any contestant should read India Knight's column in the Sunday Times today. Commenting on the fact that Rebecca Adlington was in tears as every week someone felt the need to comment on Twitter about how she looked just because they were able to do so anonymously. India ends her article by saying that people feel its now socially acceptable to behave like the writer of a poison pen letter. All those ugly thoughts have an instant outlet in social media and no child appears to be taught that its usually a good idea to keep your mean thoughts to yourself. Most of these thoughts, I suspect, come from other women.”
Hmm - not sure whether that's the case or not; however, it certainly seems to be woman in general.
Originally Posted by Servalan:
“It constantly astonishes me how some FMs decide they know enough about some contestants to carry out a character analysis like this one the basis of what are actually preconceptions - and misconceptions.
Did you watch ITT last night? Obviously not. In it, Susannah made it plain that she didn't think she was that good, that she really struggled with the CCC and used avoidance tactics throughout training, pulled faces to try and pretend that she liked the dance, that she doesn't think she has anything in the bag and actually looked awkward in the face of praise from Ben and Kristina.
But never mind, it's easier to build up a picture that suits you and helps deflect from your own favourite's weaknesses, isn't it ...?”
Absolutely, Servalan. I suspect the same. She comes across as a lovely woman with no axe to grind, unlike some people.
Criticise the dancing but when you lower yourself to make nasty and unnecessary and completely unprovoked remarks about someone's personality then you've already lost your case.
It says much more about those indulging in such behaviour than it does about their target (and Susanna is not the only one in the firing line. It happens every year, which is why I have stayed off these boards this year, aside from maybe one or two posts. It has ruined the show for me in previous years and I got sick to death of defending all and sundry against the disgusting personal attacks that were being launched. It's sad that things haven't changed one iota and that people are still indulging in it).
There's no excuse. None.