Originally Posted by DiamondBetty:
“It's not a gift, it's a dance technique! Connection is two 'frames' responding to one another. If you and I were in the same room I'd get you to hold your hands up, palms facing me, I'd place my palms to yours (like a mime artist demonstrating an invisible window) and we'd both lean in ever so slightly, just until we were giving an equal amount of pressure, so neither of us would move away and neither of us fall forward, our hands in remaing equally between us.
That feeling should remain whatever happens next, the physical hand hold can change but the equality of pressure creates a balance. Keep that balance and two people move as one, 'connection'.
Sometimes you meet someone and dance with them and your connection is super natural and as you don't need to work at it it becomes much easier to smile at each other, play with the music and interact (looks like 'chemistry' in judge speak) sometimes you really have to work at a connection and it's harder to layer the other stuff on top. It's worth the effort in the long run!
I don't think Brendan is making the effort.”
“It's not a gift, it's a dance technique! Connection is two 'frames' responding to one another. If you and I were in the same room I'd get you to hold your hands up, palms facing me, I'd place my palms to yours (like a mime artist demonstrating an invisible window) and we'd both lean in ever so slightly, just until we were giving an equal amount of pressure, so neither of us would move away and neither of us fall forward, our hands in remaing equally between us.
That feeling should remain whatever happens next, the physical hand hold can change but the equality of pressure creates a balance. Keep that balance and two people move as one, 'connection'.
Sometimes you meet someone and dance with them and your connection is super natural and as you don't need to work at it it becomes much easier to smile at each other, play with the music and interact (looks like 'chemistry' in judge speak) sometimes you really have to work at a connection and it's harder to layer the other stuff on top. It's worth the effort in the long run!
I don't think Brendan is making the effort.”
Thank you, very much. I learned something there.




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