Originally Posted by primer:
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i did not read, or post in the the thread about 'natalie loving herself' nor am i anti natalie. or someone who 'enjoys putting a negative spin on everything she does', and she has often been my favourite dancer of the night on several occasions so please don't make assumptions that aren't borne out by evidence.
i do find it both wearying and predictable however that it seems to be impossible to say anything critical about natalie, or her reported actions, without some pack of enforcers descending growl at you. sometimes, her supporters do her no favours.
which is also my view of anyone who feels the need to make assumptions about what might or might not have been important to those children or families just in order to ensure that natalie's 'reputation' remains golden. sophie was seen dancing with a 12 year old boy, whose name she remembered, and who looked delighted. so maybe no-one 'gave a toss' whether she was there or not, but natalie might have been the favourite of any of those children or families, and some will not have the opportunity to see her again.”
All I can see every time I come on this forum, is the same coterie of posters, who swarm to any thread about Natalie, or even those which tangentially mention her, and say the same negative thing. Then those who support Natalie feel obliged to rebut them. It's all rather ground hog dayish.
People can be as critical of Natalie as they please, you often are. In fact you're one of the posters, who I often see making some barbed comment about Natalie. I don't spend much time on here, so as to your assertions that often you praise Natalie as the best dancer on the night, I cannot gainsay.
There is a world of difference between those who don't connect with Natalie the dancer, those who question her inclusion on the show because of her stage school background etc and the personal, bitter and downright nasty rubbish that litters this forum. And no its not just Natalie, Susanna and to a lesser extent Abbey get it too.
Originally Posted by primer:
“i think natalie has been the dominant force in that partnership from the start, and probably doesn't know how or when to defer graciously, or for the overall good of what they are doing. This would be forgiveable in a teenager, but just looks rather self indulgent and self important in an adult. much like her apparently principled decision to make an imaginary political point by snubbing terminally ill children and their families.”
From that comment, I am very surprised that you would have enjoyed any of Natalie's dances or picked them as your favourites on the night, but hey ho.
In any event, you made a comment about Natalie's non dancing actions, and no one could or would have an issue with that, but at least take the trouble to relay it as reported. You chose to put your own negative spin on it and make it concomitant with your assessment of Natalie's self indulgence and self importance Man that's just reaching.
Also I see no one praising Natalie as if she is a saint, in this or any other thread.