Just in case anybody is inspired to take up Argentine Tango in the new year just so as to manage expectations:
1> The bloke makes the choreography up live on listening to the music
2> There is a sustained close embrace, chest to chest, throughout the dance. Though some people and places are more liberal on this. Disconnected bits (soltadas) are sniggered at in most places.
3> The lead / choreography is transmitted though gentle movements of the bloke's chest.
4> The arms / hands don't come into play
5> There are NO lifts allowed. Definitely get you banned.
6> Kicks / Ganchos can get you banned at some milongas. Maybe a sneaky one or two in a 3:30 minute song. In any event they are not kicks. Think of a gymnast against a bar - the legs just swing through on meeting an obstacle and swing back and not kick.
Probably a few other things.
Here are a couple of professional couples dance. These are some of my favourite Argentine Tango dance performances. I smile continuously watching them. This is what I am trying to emulate. And they'll tone it down a lot if they dance socially on a crowded dance floor.
Tango
https://youtu.be/2A03_VhrbIE
https://youtu.be/Mq43RQKICeE
Tango Vals (elegant waltz)
https://youtu.be/uhKYNBmL15M
Tango Milonga (more fun)
https://youtu.be/8fut41L4Be0
Very different from anything ever seen on Strictly isn't it? But very addictive. This weekend I'll dance about 15 hours in 5 milongas (social dances). I'll be knackered both physically and mentally. It gets really intense especially trying to interpret some of the music. But really enjoyable.
This is not to "diss" anything on Strictly. It is all very good fun. But very different from real world Argentine Tango.
I've posted it just to manage expectations should you be inspired to take it up and expect to kick and lift or be lifted. But others have posted something very similar above.
Do take it up and report back.