Originally Posted by
henrywilliams58:
“I spotted Sofakat's book review on Amazon on
Twelve Minutes of Love: A Tango Story
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Twelve-Minut.../dp/1846272858
I'll have to read it.”
I have just borrowed the book from the library.
Originally Posted by
sofakat:
“Oh dear, really? That is most odd in argentine tango. Perhaps she had just had a truly dreadful day?
The usual response to a good tanda is absolute joy, laughter, smiles and exhuberance I find. Without exception. I have never known any of a tango friends to cry when they have danced a great tanda with a good lead. And some are quite febrile. Tango can attract people with issues of course.
Then again, maybe she just needed a little hug?
”
She was pretty bubbly soon after that and we shared a lovely joyous Milonga tanda half an hour later - and yes i gave a good hug when she left another two hours later and she was fine and happy.
I didn't mean to suggest she was blubbing like a baby. Just sniffing and she didn't have a cold and didn't sniff during the later Milonga tanda.
Heck I very often well up and sniff a bit listening to music. or watching a youtube and not just AT GA music. So I don't think having a cry to music and dance is that big a deal. I welled up and had a sniff to this just yesterday and it is far from emotional AT
http://youtu.be/k5dkwQY-_tk?t=1m42s
This bit in La Boheme usually generates a tear and I have heard it so often.
http://youtu.be/1KZa6RypYO8?t=18s
I have been "dancing" AT for much less than you. Just from early 2013. I've been to too many classes and I find it very difficult to pick up sequences by looking at them demonstrated. Until a couple of months ago I was pretty rubbish and thinking of packing it in.
In September I found a lovely follower at a Milonga who was very kind and positive to me and I have improved a lot since then. But I remain rubbish at replicating set sequences at classes so I devote my energies to interpreting the music and try and get the music list from the DJs before hand and listen to the music.
So pretty much just the basics and few flashy moves from me; for I just haven't got the skills or memory to do them. But hopefully deep and profound musicality. FWIW in the past weeks I am getting feedback along the lines of "few tricks but bags of passion" and "most passionate dancer at the milonga". And on Sunday at the end of a tanda I got with a smile "So it's true what they say" (whatever that meant

). So I suspect my style is somewhat different from most leaders and I am now getting asked to dance rather than having to cabeceo and get rejected as before (head into the smartphone is the new rebote). Good for my ego and therefore good for my dancing.
Off to a Milonga again this evening and I''ll report back if there are any tears