Originally Posted by bazaar1:
“No calling me lazy isn't rude? Or saying I should have a dog because of said laziness isn't rude? I'd hate to think what your manners are like in that case.”
Unless you use your crate as a toilet training tool, I wasn't calling you lazy - if you do, I was.
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“Ah the 'she doth protest to much' argument, code for - I can't think of anything else to say so I will try to belittle my opponent.”
Your whole 'this is a common attitude from those who've not used crates' comment I found particularly patronizing, but it's your opinion and and I didn't rise to it. As for the 'mummy' quotes etc in your later reply to me, and about her being 'bloody perfect etc, me knowing 'bugger all' is not an attempt at a little condecension and insult, no? Again, I didn't rise to it, but now you mention it....
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“ You can put my objections down to professional experience rather than childhood anecdotes.”
and another one...
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“ Again I say there is nothing wrong with not using a crate, it works for many people, but it can help pups settle in quicker without issues. Behavioural science is developing all the time,”
good stuff, but I'm pretty sure toilet training a dog hasn't got that complex in 25 years...
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“ and 25 years ago (which btw still doesn't justify breeding lurchers- they are not breeds, rather mongrels, and have always been a constant member shelters)”
a) I don't agree with it either
b) Yes, my mother now doesn't either
c) as we bred lurchers, I don't need a lesson in their make up, thanks though.
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“ crates were not the done thing, whereas now research and experience shows that they can help pup development and adult dog security. They are not a replacement for good pet ownership, but good owners are quite right to investigate all the behavioural developments and see if they suit them.”
Nothing replaces good ownership, so on that much I totally agree with you.
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“The issue with people like you is that you make assumptions without facts and try to enforce your opinions on others by criticising them and thier methods.”
That's a bit rich coming from you - offering advice on what my mother needed to look out for - wasn't that assuming she didn't have a clue? Assuming that I know no better than you? I may or may not, but it's your attitude thats slightly awry there, not mine.
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“It's like the read on advice - a mother is going back to work and wants advice, instead she gets superior people tell her she's wrong to do so. Ironically it is always those that have only ever stayed at home that feel their opinions matter, those that have returned to work don't have a go at those who chose not to.”
I contributed on that thread, told the OP to go ahead and work, millions of children are born to working parents and bear no damaging mental scars because of it.
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“Similarly here - the only person criticising others choices is you- labelling those who think differently as lazy and bad pet owners, not one crate user has said that those that don't use crates doesn't deserve to have a dog.”
I've had friends that do crate and those that don't - I see no difference in the stability and happiness of the dogs. and I'll repeat this one just for good measure - they should not be used as a toilet training tool.
I don't think they're all that, and you do. I accept your opinions on them, but I don't have to agree with them - it'd be very civil and grown up if you could extend the same courtesy. I'm too old for a bitch fest about a bloody crate.
ETA - I've just noticed it was you who told me in the 'Cat Coming' thread that if I say my cats don't have behavioural issues I'm either blind or lying. I honestly don't think it's me with the rude attitude or wild assumption capacity. You need to calm down on all the google research.