Originally Posted by laurielou:
“Ouf, that's a bit much. Louise Jameson has been largely positive about Tom Baker since and they are now good friends who enjoy working together. She's allowed to be honest about their time together, though, surely?. The anecdotal evidence and stories about him suggest that this was a way of behaving he had to a number of people, and has been backed up by others so it's not just coming from her - and she's never claimed he was 'abusive' as far as I'm aware? Just that they didn't get on and found him difficult to work with at the time.
It is no secret that he disliked the character of Leela and wanted it to be just him on his own after Sarah Jane left. He'd also inherited Lis Sladen from Jon Pertwee when he was new and more on the backfoot, so their relationship was probably always going to be more supportive. Louise was the first assistant who was 'given' to him when he'd established himself in the role and obviously felt a bit more in charge and the cantankerousness was starting.”
I know they're friendly now, and I'm glad they get on. I like Louise Jameson well enough, but I get tired of hearing how mean Tom Baker supposedly was to her. All I've ever heard is he didn't pay much attention to her. Get over it love. Yes, she seems to have done that now but only because Tom now gives her the positive attention she craves, so she'll stop moaning about him on the convention circuit.
And yes, Tom was sharp with a lot of people. So was Hartnell, so was Troughton, so was Pertwee etc. It's not to his credit but it's the pressure of being leading man and actually giving a shit about the role. I'm sick of hearing it all being put on Tom Baker as if everyone else was nice as pie and he was just a wicked, abhorrent man.
I guess Tom doesn't have the lovely, sweet smile and apparent vulnerability of Lalla Ward so of course, he must have just been a total bastard to her. Except, it takes two people to make a relationship and two people to make a bad marriage. Without knowing the intimate details of their lives (and not wanting to) I'm not willing to cast Tom Baker as the villain and Lalla as the wronged heroine with the lily-white skin. In fairness to Lalla, I never hear her or Tom slag off the other. Most of my railing in this thread is against the
fans who say this kind of rubbish, not the people involved.
I like that Tom has personality and was never a towing the line drone like everyone involved in the show is expected to be now, even when they leave, so they don't spoil their chances of being invited back. It's so boring to hear people who have paid good money to be at conventions getting the same old Moffat scripted enthusiasm from the cast and crew. 'Bonkers', 'vast', 'epic' etc. If you believe it all you'll think that the Doctor Who production team were specially selected from the world's nicest people. Guess what? It's BS. We'll hear all the dirt about who was really an arse in the years to come, just like we get it about Tom Baker now.
Tom Baker isn't faultless. I'm sure he went too far on numerous occasions with the way he behaved but there was plenty of crap coming back at him too. But all we ever hear is Tom Baker being 'cantankerous', 'difficult', 'abrasive'. Well, given John Nathan Turner ran the show into the ground and got it cancelled and Chris Bidmead has done nothing whatsoever of note since his time on the show,, I would say Tom was probably right in a lot of his attitudes about them.