Originally Posted by wonkeydonkey:
“So what? She wasn't contrite, was she? And she was keen to get into bed with him, and thought it hilarious when he started ...whatever he did start.
I don't really care what Jasmine did: I think it was impolite but not evil. And I think Dappy's manner is clumsy and juvenile, but also not evil. I just hate the smell of double standards.”
More or less hit the nail on the head. People make it out like its always the guy corrupting the damsel in distress as if the woman has no control or responsibility for outcome. I'm not trying to be insensitive to serious cases of rape or sexual assault but at some point women who accept certain behaviour from men do not automatically become victims because people see it as being sleazy.