Originally Posted by acid rain:
“So in other words you automatically blame women if they dare to be provocative but you excuse Dappy because it's okay for him, as long as his pulling technique is successful that's all that matters. Apparently.”
In other words that I didn't say or even insinuate.
I excuse lots of behaviour between grown adults that is consensual. For instance I don't look down on gold diggers but rather question to vapidity of men who are prepared to reward that mindset. I attach responsibility to situations and that's my point. I try to get to the root of an issue and I believe that in most consensual adult relationships people are free to accept what they want and people act in the manner that they are allowed. Dappy would approach women differently if his approach regularly failed, it really is as simple as that.