Originally Posted by Daemon666:
“She tried to ambush him last night and was baiting him whilst surrounded by a bunch for people she felt were on her side at the time and Jim walked away. You could tell she was obviously baiting him because as he walked away she was making comments to try to get him to come back and re-engage in the conversation because Linda felt in a secure position with plenty of people supporting her. Jim played it extremely well by refusing to engage in a battle he could not win because he would have been shouted down.”
Just in case anyone didn't see it and thinks there is some truth in this utterly biased account, here is what actually happened.
Linda, Luisa, Jasmine and Sam were lounging in their pj's on their beds having a chat. Linda was making up a bed. In the course of the conversation (which we got the impression had been about Jim) Linda told the others that she didn't get on with Jim, but didn't want the others to feel they should be influenced by that. Jim walked in and there was an obscure, ill tempered spat about Linda moving some pillows, the nature of which was never made clear. Linda said that she didn't mind that he didn't like her, because she didn't like him very much either. He asked why she didn't like him. She said it was because he was constantly talking over her. He nodded and said yes. Amidst many
interruptions, Linda started to tell him what had just annoyed her, the nature of which we never really got to the bottom of. He started to walk away. She asked him if he wanted, having asked the question, to listen to the answer. He said no and walked out of the room.
There was no 'trap'. There was no 'bait' There were no 'sides'. No one played it 'extremely well' or even averagely well. It was just a bog-standard, rather dull argument between two people who like to be listened to.
Originally Posted by BlackberryGirl:
“Linda pulling 'Mum' rank on Luisa when Linda told Luisa off - and even 'smacked' her - for being a "bitch", Luisa more or less told her to "**** off" - not directly but it was a very interestingly nuanced convo.”
I thought it was interesting, yes, but not in the way you did. I thought it was an unusually equal discussion/ argument, with no 'ranks' at all; just two strong women briefly clashing, then backing off without any particular ill feeling.
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“Luisa is possibly the only younger female in the household who doesn't defer to Linda's age / seniority. Taking a swipe at her age is perhaps one way to undermine Linda's self-defined role and hence position of power / authority as house Mother within the group?”
No, it was just rude.