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well it is wrong. If he was more of a man and said to Casey - 'hey we are chained together, I fancy you, you fancy me, do you fancy a bit, no strings' - thats okay. But he has to lie and make out he really likes them and has feelings to get them into bed. Women don't need to be lied to, they might fancy a bit of no strings. Its the 21st century, women don't need a promise of love or romance these days!!
I don't think the issue is that Lee snogged two different women on different nights. This is not peoples issue with Lee at all. Like its been said, these days it's happens and if had had JUST done that, he wouldn't be coming under so much fire. Where Lee went wrong was give Casey the impression that what they had was more than just casual. When you tell someone you like them, want to spend time with them outside and go on holiday with them that gives that person the impression that he see's some sort of future. Before anyone has a go, I know it was only 3 days and I doubt Casey was expecting a proposal but you can't spout that crap and then snog someone else. If Lee had just been straight with her from the begining and told her, "I want Yasmin but since we're tied up together, fancy a snog?" then Casey wouldn't have reacted the way she did. Sorry but Lee dug his own grave here. |
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I think more to the point is that all this is playing out on TV. Now wouldn't you think that people would be MORE aware of their behaviour with it being a TV programme.
And this makes me think that he perhaps went in with the idea of being a bit carefree (player if that is your choice of phrase) when it comes to flirting etc, and it has all gone a bit wrong/out of control. He now doesn't know whether to stick or twist, and in effect the decision has been made for him - he is stuck with Casey for the foreseeable. Thereby forcing him to confront his behaviour, whether we agree with it or not...so the public chose wisely..
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Casey is making it sound like her and Lee have been in a relationship for 3 years rather than 3 days!
Imo The luv triangle are all as bad as each other. And who says you 'Love' someone after a couple of days? Think this sums this lot up, they have no standards and do not have a clue what 'Love' is. |
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Lee had a snog and fumble with casey, then a snog and fumble with Jasmine. Unless this is the 1930's, that behaviour is not a contract of commitment, exclusivity or marriage. Casey, ffs, if you get in bed with someone you dont know, hrs after meeting, live on tv and perform a sex act on him, DON'T expect him to respect you!!! She looks like she has been round the block a fair few times, it can't come as a surprise that men sometimes say things in bed that they don't actually mean!!
I feel so sorry for lee, hes acting like any lad in the country would, what has he done wrong??Not cricket really is it? I'm not saying Casey is crushed because she was in love with the fella or anything that ridiculous, but she must have felt a complete numpty knowing this was going out on tv each night. Can't help feel sorry for her. As for him, he's not evil, he hasn't murdered anyone, he's just shown himself up to be a self-satisfied, selfish, unfeeling manchild with the self-discipline of a two dicked dog on viagra. |
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What annoys me is the fact that Casey will probably cruise to the final now, just because of this one event! Really annoying but its inevatable, I mean look how much her odds have shortened, and also currently she is 2nd on the new BBSpy poll with 16%!!
I don't hate her but their are much better housemates but regardless of that Casey will get to the final on sympathy alone! ![]()
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the insult to Casey was the way he dumbed down what he said and did with her , to her face and what he didn't say to Jasmine before he embarked on exactly the same behaviour with her - It's a shame she didn't react the way most woman would have reacted and as soon as he did puppy dog sorry for himself eyes and had a cry she went all sympathetic towards him, after having a bit of backbone and having a go at him for how he made a fool out of her on National TV -
He managed to turn it round to making her feel that it was her fault for being a bunny boiler and that he had every right to bed hop - and she let him turn it back on her - she's a fool for that - and yet it still comes across that Casey would forgive Lee if he suddenly told her he'd gone off Jasmine and decided out of thin air, he wants her again, they're both immature and fickle, but Lee's just not very nice, and she is. Can't believe Casey is so naive, wonder what's happened to her with guys before now, they must have really trodden on her. There was a clip of Lee sitting on a sofa and Casey and Jasmine were either side of him - and they both seemed to vying for his attention, it was really wierd ---- and this was after Casey had told Jasmine what Lee had got up to with her !!! those woman allowed this idiot to use them, although I don't think Jasmine cares either way, I think Lee was just 'there' and 'fun' for her - Casey, however, got wayyyyy in over her head after two nights with Lee I'm more annoyed they paid Lee any attention at all, as he just seems so weedy. (I bet his mates will high five him when he gets out, which is sickeningly juvenille like he is) |
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Lee had a snog and fumble with casey, then a snog and fumble with Jasmine. Unless this is the 1930's, that behaviour is not a contract of commitment, exclusivity or marriage. Casey, ffs, if you get in bed with someone you dont know, hrs after meeting, live on tv and perform a sex act on him, DON'T expect him to respect you!!! She looks like she has been round the block a fair few times, it can't come as a surprise that men sometimes say things in bed that they don't actually mean!!
I feel so sorry for lee, hes acting like any lad in the country would, what has he done wrong?? |
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I agree that it's not about his actions as a 'normal lad' but about the fact that he is on TV knowing full well that everyone will see inc those in the house.
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Thank God Lee being in there. Good TV!
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Ok i will be real here. Lee is not a legend; i just say that to wind people up. He is a nice guy but has f**ked up! He made a rookie mistake and needs to apologize to Casey for it.
That being said i HATE the way people are acting like he is evil. Crazy. Relax. Great TV show this year IMO. |
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The worst thing he's done is not ADMITTING to being a player. Playing the coy little "I don't want to be the bad guy" angle, but doing it anyway. If you are that way, have the confidence and guts to be honest about it. Otherwise you are a toad. Snog both girls in a row, fine. But don't you dare act like the injured part. Ever.
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I think alot of people are seriously over reacting tbh. He is a total prat (this cannot be denied) but all he did was upset a girl who had designs on him after only a couple of days by leading her on a bit and then getting off with someone else. Its not a huge deal and no doubt goes on all the time.
Yes he is spoilt and selfish and narcissistic, and completely oblivious to how he may have hurt others with his actions. I think that there are more concerning things in the world to be outraged about. I find it all quite hilarious seeing what prattish thing he might do next. He is at least keeping the show moving even if its for the wrong reasons. |
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Ok i will be real here. Lee is not a legend; i just say that to wind people up. He is a nice guy but has f**ked up! He made a rookie mistake and needs to apologize to Casey for it.
That being said i HATE the way people are acting like he is evil. Crazy. Relax. Great TV show this year IMO. |
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I sort of concur, I mean you could argue that he has been a bit insensitive but not the overblown drama that it has become in the mind of Casey.
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He led Casey to believe that they would make a go of a relationship, albeit in very uncertain terms with the way he rambles when he speaks. He asked her if they would go on holiday together, which she said yes to, and said to her that they would see how it develops on the outside (when he said "YES" and kissed her, on the sofa).
I'm not a particular fan of anyone involved in this love triangle thing, but it's as clear as day that Lee is in the wrong. Jasmine herself even said to Lee that he had led Casey on. |
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Lee has done nothing wrong at all, ever. It is everybody else's fault, always. I don't believe that but he does, this is how his head works, he has a very low level of awareness and that, combined with boy band fame and the girls that come with it, leaves a trail of emotional destruction behind him.
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Lee was just stupid to get with Casey when all along he's liked Jasmine now Jasmine seems to be doing the same to him, karma.
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Are you trolling???
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I feel so sorry for lee, hes acting like any lad in the country would, what has he done wrong??
I don't hate her but their are much better housemates but regardless of that Casey will get to the final on sympathy alone! 