Originally Posted by rorybb:
“I've noticed a lot of dislike on this forum for strong women like Linda and Luisa because they won't stay in their place and be told what to do.
It happened this summer with Hazel (<3) and Gina (<3) as well , for a woman to be popular on Big Brother she has to be seen as dumb and weak.
Deana , Karissa and Kristina , Makosi , Lydia , the list goes on , a lot of BB fans just like men and silly girls.”
You are a brave man for posting this here.
I largely agree with what you say (although we disagree on the specifics). I do not think it's only 'strong women' that are disliked, OR 'dumb weak' ones that are 'popular' although I certainly believe that the BB house is not a level playing field for certain 'types' of women and they have a far smaller margin for error before they become cannon fodder.
Double standards and hypocrisy are rife on these forums at times and it takes a determined poster to try and actually debate this properly without being drowned out or dismissed. (this is not meant to sound patronising I promise, so if it does I apologise).
The only thing I would say is that please don't let your thread get sidetracked or bogged down by the 'jealous' argument when others bring it up (and they will), from either 'side' as this actually detracts from the clear fact that there
is bias towards certain types of housemate, and is an easy default fallback for dismissing reasoned debate IMO.
Godspeed to you and I shall be watching this thread with interest.