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Why do some BB fans hate strong , intelligent women?
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rorybb
10-01-2014
I've noticed a lot of dislike on this forum for strong women like Linda and Luisa because they won't stay in their place and be told what to do.
It happened this summer with Hazel (<3) and Gina (<3) as well , for a woman to be popular on Big Brother she has to be seen as dumb and weak.
Deana , Karissa and Kristina , Makosi , Lydia , the list goes on , a lot of BB fans just like men and silly girls.
Fried Kickin
10-01-2014
Linda is a miserable old toad.
I think that's why folk don't like her.

Luisa I don't mind,I wouldn't trust her for the blink of an eye but she makes for a good HM.
Joni M
10-01-2014
I love strong women but there is hardly a plethora of them.

Linda is not. She is errr, morose and self pitying IMO.

Luisa is possibly strong. She doesnt slag off other women and doesnt rely on men.
Liz is the strongest tho by a country mile.

Jasmine is sharp..... but uses her female wiles.
Joni M
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by Fried Kickin:
“Linda is a miserable old toad.
I think that's why folk don't like her.

Luisa I don't mind,I wouldn't trust her for the blink of an eye but she makes for a good HM.”

Agreed on both points
rorybb
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by Joni M:
“I love strong women but there is hardly a plethora of them.

Linda is not. She is errr, morose and self pitying IMO.

Luisa is possibly strong. She doesnt slag off other women and doesnt rely on men.
Liz is the strongest tho by a country mile.

Jasmine is sharp..... but uses her female wiles.”

Liz to me is actually more like a parody of what a strong woman should be like , the woman who has put her career ahead of a husband and family and is miserable because of it , the woman who hates other women , but really she's weak , far weaker then Linda , nothing truly that bad has ever actually happened to Liz , Linda has faced actual struggles.

Liz just wishes she had real problems so she could moan about them .
YesNoMan
10-01-2014
Love 'em, my mum was one. Sexy too!

But it's really Luisa and Jasmine you're describing, isn't it, more than Linda? I half-expected Jasmine to be a flake, like a Heidi Fleiss Jasmine Lennard type of thing, but she isn't showing signs of that. I'm not sure how strong or intelligent Linda is, she's just got the matriarch slot.
rorybb
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by YesNoMan:
“Love 'em, my mum was one. Sexy too!

But it's really Luisa and Jasmine you're describing, isn't it, more than Linda? I half-expected Jasmine to be a flake, like a Heidi Fleiss Jasmine Lennard type of thing, but she isn't showing signs of that to me. I'm not sure how strong or intelligent Linda is, she's just got the matriarch slot.”

The gorgeous Jasmine is of course included as well

I just have a lot of respect for Linda because she's been to hell and back and lived to tell the tale , without really seeming to want sympathy or pity , whereas someone like Liz , nothing that bad has ever happened to her but she want's a constant stream of pity for her horrible lot in life. I respect Linda so much more and that makes her strong to me. Just imo
Reality Sucks
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by YesNoMan:
“Love 'em, my mum was one. Sexy too!

But it's really Luisa and Jasmine you're describing, isn't it, more than Linda? I half-expected Jasmine to be a flake, like a Heidi Fleiss Jasmine Lennard type of thing, but she isn't showing signs of that to me. I'm not sure how strong or intelligent Linda is, she's just got the matriarch slot.”

I agree - those two are definitely what I call strong women. Linda and Liz come across as victimised to some extent. Haven't seen enough of Sam to form an opinion.
whatever54
10-01-2014
I like and admire strong and intelligent women, not so keen on two bit tarts.
Odette Valmont
10-01-2014
I'm in full support of strong, intelligent women like Luisa.

But Linda? Strong and intelligent? I don't think so! More like dried up and conniving...
rorybb
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by whatever54:
“I like and admire strong and intelligent women, not so keen on two bit tarts.”

Luisa is clearly strong and intelligent , she's had a very successful business career. The fact that she likes to wear skimpy clothes or isn't shy about discussing her sex life doesn't make her a "two bit tart". This is the sort of sexism I'm talking about.
xtramo
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by rorybb:
“I've noticed a lot of dislike on this forum for strong women like Linda and Luisa because they won't stay in their place and be told what to do.
It happened this summer with Hazel (<3) and Gina (<3) as well , for a woman to be popular on Big Brother she has to be seen as dumb and weak.
Deana , Karissa and Kristina , Makosi , Lydia , the list goes on , a lot of BB fans just like men and silly girls.”

I don't care about them in anyway tbh, but these words "strong and intelligent" get thrown around far too easy these days.

If I had to make a list of who I would class as strong and intelligent women - NO-ONE who has ever stepped foot in CBB would make the grade.

Furthermore just how much of this forum have you scrutinised? Because Luisa particularly has lots of fans on here, some of them are even calling her their queen..
HonestLee
10-01-2014
For the same reason some of us can't stand an AJ, a Rylan or a Gina for that matter

It's people like that who represent the.. wait for it.. drum roll please..

THE DUMBING DOWN OF SOCIETY

(sorry I know I've lost plenty of you now but that is EXACTLY what it is)

kids don't even learn cursive writing (that's 'joined up' Rylan) any more

ther 2 use2 txtspk

It's all about acting dizzy and useless but looking great

ignorance was bliss, now if you want to get anywhere it's essential
whatever54
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by rorybb:
“Luisa is clearly strong and intelligent , she's had a very successful business career. The fact that she likes to wear skimpy clothes or isn't shy about discussing her sex life doesn't make her a "two bit tart". This is the sort of sexism I'm talking about.”

I wasn't particularly talking about Luisa but now we're on the subject the BIB confuses me, I mean has she really
YesNoMan
10-01-2014
It's "set foot".



Originally Posted by rorybb:
“Luisa is clearly strong and intelligent , she's had a very successful business career. The fact that she likes to wear skimpy clothes or isn't shy about discussing her sex life doesn't make her a "two bit tart". This is the sort of sexism I'm talking about.”

It's what women have been trying to sort out for bloody decades now, the right and freedom (from other women, latterly) to be all of those things in turn, if not at once, including a mother. I thought that one line post (#9) about the two bit tart looked everso small-voiced and impotent.

I wonder if some posters actually have any experience of this "won't somebody think of the children" cliche. There was a glamma moggul mum at my kids' school. She was nice. There may have been a bit of bitching between mums behind her back, I didn't see any, and the kids were too busy being kids.
AOTB
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by rorybb:
“I've noticed a lot of dislike on this forum for strong women like Linda and Luisa because they won't stay in their place and be told what to do.
It happened this summer with Hazel (<3) and Gina (<3) as well , for a woman to be popular on Big Brother she has to be seen as dumb and weak.
Deana , Karissa and Kristina , Makosi , Lydia , the list goes on , a lot of BB fans just like men and silly girls.”

You are a brave man for posting this here.

I largely agree with what you say (although we disagree on the specifics). I do not think it's only 'strong women' that are disliked, OR 'dumb weak' ones that are 'popular' although I certainly believe that the BB house is not a level playing field for certain 'types' of women and they have a far smaller margin for error before they become cannon fodder.
Double standards and hypocrisy are rife on these forums at times and it takes a determined poster to try and actually debate this properly without being drowned out or dismissed. (this is not meant to sound patronising I promise, so if it does I apologise).

The only thing I would say is that please don't let your thread get sidetracked or bogged down by the 'jealous' argument when others bring it up (and they will), from either 'side' as this actually detracts from the clear fact that there is bias towards certain types of housemate, and is an easy default fallback for dismissing reasoned debate IMO.

Godspeed to you and I shall be watching this thread with interest.
AOTB
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by whatever54:
“I wasn't particularly talking about Luisa but now we're on the subject the BIB confuses me, I mean has she really”

If you took every female poster on this forum OR indeed every woman and man in the population that works in business (from the most lowly to the most mighty), then you could certainly argue she has had (and continues to have) a successful career in business.

...Statistically speaking anyway. No one would claim she is anywhere near the Steve Jobs/ Bill Gates type level,but then it's all relative of course.
YesNoMan
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by AOTB:
“The only thing I would say is that please don't let your thread get sidetracked or bogged down by the 'jealous' argument when others bring it up (and they will), from either 'side' as this actually detracts form the clear fact that there is bias towards certain types of housemate, and is an easy default fallback for dismissing reasoned debate IMO.”

This is very true.
xtramo
10-01-2014
I was about to post a lengthy rebuttal to the OP's point outlining why he/she is wrong but I couldn't be arsed so here it is in a nutshell...

Hitler was strong and intelligent, but that's not why the world hates him!! They/we hate him because of his actions.
AOTB
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by xtramo:
“I was about to post a lengthy rebuttal to the OP's point outlining why he/she is wrong but I couldn't be arsed so here it is in a nutshell...

Hitler was strong and intelligent, but that's not why the world hates him!! They/we hate him because of his actions.”

Still on page 1 and we have Godwin invoked already??!

I knew this thread would get 'lively' but this has exceeded even my expectations!
TheWireRules
10-01-2014
Strong, intelligent woman when it comes to BB at least often translates into being a bitch and , shall we say, being a bit loose. This is certainly true in Louisa's case.

Maybe why this is why they are disliked?
xtramo
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by AOTB:
“Still on page 1 and we have Godwin invoked already??!

I knew this thread would get 'lively' but this has exceeded even my expectations! ”

chuckles
YesNoMan
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by TheWireRules:
“loose”

I'm 45 and this is very old fashioned to me. A flibbety gibbet of questionable libido you say? Perish and damn the floozy. "Loose" is an ancient enough insult to women to have been used in irony as the title of a daytime TV show involving middle aged women.
kate03
10-01-2014
I think I fit the criteria as the 'ultimate bitch'.....I'm a great grandmother.

Have taught all my young 'bithes; what it's about.

What have I taught them? Nothing that any other self-respecting woman would. I.e. kick a guy to the kerb if you feel your nothing more than a trophy on his arm. And don't ever be that trophy in the first place unless he's begged and pleaded and held a public audition to his friends beforehand. Afterwards, then decide.

In otherwords, wherever you go......be heard about. All news is news and ensure he knows his every move is recorded .
rorybb
10-01-2014
Originally Posted by xtramo:
“I was about to post a lengthy rebuttal to the OP's point outlining why he/she is wrong but I couldn't be arsed so here it is in a nutshell...

Hitler was strong and intelligent, but that's not why the world hates him!! They/we hate him because of his actions.”

People don't like a woman like Luisa because she proves you can have it all , she is successful and happy , and doesn't give a damn what people think about her. People want career women to be miserable and lonely and young party girls to be vapid , either way people HATE women who are sexually confident , that is the biggest sin of all for a BB woman.
I'm not even going to address the hitler thing it's so idiotic.
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