Originally Posted by JFDonaghy:
“if Luisa said she slept with 5 guys (we don't know is she actually said it) in a night and with Dappy bringing up her daughter she's realised what she said is recorded and documented and will be out there for life..she knows whoever doesn't like her daughter a few years down the line can slaughter Luisa calling her all sorts and that she got ran through by 5 guys in one night and put it out there on tele for all to hear maybe even bragging about it...that would have definitely been running through her head causing her to blow a gasket.”
The obvious response to that then is don't do it, don't say you did it if you have and don't go on a reality show such as CBB. If she is that bothered about her daughter and her daughter's feelings then she should make that her priority and not say and do the things she does and then talk about them on national TV. If she is so happy with her life style then why is she concerned what her daughter would think? If she isn't doing anything "wrong" then why worry about her daughter's feelings?
Dappy was lowest of the low by bringing her daughter into the conversation, but she brought his mum into the conversation so it was pretty much tit-for-tat imho. Choose as what you think of Dappy alot of people do still hold the same opinion as he does when it comes to sex and the differences in men and women and Luisa was right to challenge those opinions if she found them offensive, but she did go completely over the top. Jasmine did it much better and made her point better than Luisa did.
Luisa seems to be able to give it but not take it. If you are going to challenge people then they are going to come back at you and you have to be able to deal with their responses no matter how ridiculous they might be. As she said she likes to tell people what she thinks of them, then she must be prepared to hear exactly what they think of her and she might not always like what she hears. If she has slept with five men in one night then in Dappy's opinion she is a whore. Not saying I agree with him but many people out here will agree with him. If she is going to challenge those views then she needs to keep her cool and do it properly. Once you lose you cool you have lost the argument.