Originally Posted by Alrightmate:
“"I is calling you a slag, Mummy. I is disrespecting you to the max".”
“"I is calling you a slag, Mummy. I is disrespecting you to the max".”
Innit bruv
Luisa does not like being questioned over her sex life
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Was Luisa's point that (1) he wouldn't call his mum a slag or (2) how could he denigrate women and not acknowledge that that group included his mum or (3) that his mum would be embarrassed at the way he viewed women?
Either way I think it is infantile to get upset cos your mum is bought into the argument and drag in the other persons family!
Either way I think it is infantile to get upset cos your mum is bought into the argument and drag in the other persons family!
Luisa does not like being questioned over her sex life
she shouldnt have bragged about it to the HMs then should she - so Dappy brought it up and she didn't like it / How many men in one night ???? no answer, jeepers must be a few then if it was that hard to give him a number ! A guy on the panel on BOTS said the other night that on interviewing her she invited him to one before he had a chance to ask her anything, he declined and moved on swiftly !!!what a classy lady Luisa isn't.
Originally Posted by Oldnbold:
“In that case she should have kept her mouth shut about it. All she has done by being so open is giving anyone ammunition to throw at her.”
“In that case she should have kept her mouth shut about it. All she has done by being so open is giving anyone ammunition to throw at her.”
she shouldnt have bragged about it to the HMs then should she - so Dappy brought it up and she didn't like it / How many men in one night ???? no answer, jeepers must be a few then if it was that hard to give him a number ! A guy on the panel on BOTS said the other night that on interviewing her she invited him to one before he had a chance to ask her anything, he declined and moved on swiftly !!!what a classy lady Luisa isn't.
Originally Posted by TrishF:
“Jesus... some people on her scare the sh** out of me. Antiquated and sexist views”
“Jesus... some people on her scare the sh** out of me. Antiquated and sexist views”
I've been massively shocked reading here sometimes.
It's okay in your own dating life to favor demure women... if that's what you like. What's not okay is passing judgement remotely on people for not being the type of woman YOU'D date (or even worse, if you are a female poster, catty bitchy comments with even less direct bearing on your life).
I do understand not preferring viewing them, but it's the name calling that gets me. It's petty.
Really, isn't it long passed time these Mediaeval notions about 'sexual morality' and prurient concern about what other people do or don't do with their own bodies for fun, were tossed out along with fear of the evil eye or the belief that the liver houses the soul.
Originally Posted by BlackberryGirl:
“Really, isn't it long passed time these Mediaeval notions about 'sexual morality' and prurient concern about what other people do or don't do with their own bodies for fun, were tossed out along with fear of the evil eye or the belief that the liver houses the soul.”
“Really, isn't it long passed time these Mediaeval notions about 'sexual morality' and prurient concern about what other people do or don't do with their own bodies for fun, were tossed out along with fear of the evil eye or the belief that the liver houses the soul.”
Some things can be fairly judged at a distance. Some things can't be.
Sexual mores are a tough one. Whether or not you believe women should be chaste and demure, or totally open with their sexuality it has a different flavor commenting on these issues with women than with men. Men typically can't have their entire lives ruined by people labeling them as promiscuous. Women can. It's not as bad as it was in previous centuries, but the terms remain because underneath it a lot of people still seem to believe that sex makes women evil.
Originally Posted by Will_Loz:
“Well said! She is stupid and has the morals of a low life hooker. A disgrace to her daughter.”
“Well said! She is stupid and has the morals of a low life hooker. A disgrace to her daughter.”
Quite, BUT she keeps blabbing non-stop to everyone about her sex life even when it's not the topic and is inappropriate. Surely she knows she'll get reactions or backlash, but it does give her a BIG amount of Air time, which is what she's after.
Originally Posted by white tigress:
“Quite, BUT she keeps blabbing non-stop to everyone about her sex life even when it's not the topic and is inappropriate. Surely she knows she'll get reactions or backlash, but it does give her a BIG amount of Air time, which is what she's after.”
“Quite, BUT she keeps blabbing non-stop to everyone about her sex life even when it's not the topic and is inappropriate. Surely she knows she'll get reactions or backlash, but it does give her a BIG amount of Air time, which is what she's after.”
In groups of women talking together, I've noticed that sex - including lots of graphic details - is a common topic of conversation. Haven't you? I don't think Luisa is unusual in this.
Originally Posted by bacchantic enigma:
“They were obviously loud enough to be heard by everyone and as I was thinking why isn't someone getting in the middle of this to put a boundary between them or try and diffuse it, Linda went and stood in between them.
Regardless of their opinion differences, Luisa was clearly and unequivocally asking to be left alone.
What shocked me,was I didn't see any another man in the house think to stand by in case they were needed. Jim did eventually lead him away, but only well after the fact.”
“They were obviously loud enough to be heard by everyone and as I was thinking why isn't someone getting in the middle of this to put a boundary between them or try and diffuse it, Linda went and stood in between them.
Regardless of their opinion differences, Luisa was clearly and unequivocally asking to be left alone.
What shocked me,was I didn't see any another man in the house think to stand by in case they were needed. Jim did eventually lead him away, but only well after the fact.”
Linda did. She stood silently between Dappy and Luisa at the dining table during their argument.
Y'know what, I'm starting to find the backward opinions quite entertaining now. That's nice, because being confounded and annoyed was getting tiresome.
And by backward I mean the opposite of progressive. But come to think of it...
And by backward I mean the opposite of progressive. But come to think of it...
Originally Posted by Betty Britain:
“And rightly so ...who is Dappy to demand an answer to how many men she has slept with in one night... None of his business”
“And rightly so ...who is Dappy to demand an answer to how many men she has slept with in one night... None of his business”
I got the impression she had already answered the question and it was the number 5 that had sparked the conversation and the arguments that followed
Originally Posted by aggielane:
“I got the impression she had already answered the question and it was the number 5 that had sparked the conversation and the arguments that followed”
“I got the impression she had already answered the question and it was the number 5 that had sparked the conversation and the arguments that followed”
But so what? Jim is an acknowledged wife beater and alcoholic with anger issues. Dappy had been in court for assault around sexual harassment. Lee admits to promiscuity, alcoholism and manipulating people. Evander has 11 children . By 6 women and 3 marriages.
If Luisa's admits to a sex addiction and seeking help for it. Why does that make her the worst in Dappys opinion? What reason is there for that, except discrimination?
Originally Posted by What name??:
“But so what? Jim is an acknowledged wife beater and alcoholic with anger issues. Dappy had been in court for assault around sexual harassment. Lee admits to promiscuity, alcoholism and manipulating people. Evander has 11 children . By 6 women and 3 marriages.
If Luisa's admits to a sex addiction and seeking help for it. Why does that make her the worst in Dappys opinion? What reason is there for that, except discrimination?”
“But so what? Jim is an acknowledged wife beater and alcoholic with anger issues. Dappy had been in court for assault around sexual harassment. Lee admits to promiscuity, alcoholism and manipulating people. Evander has 11 children . By 6 women and 3 marriages.
If Luisa's admits to a sex addiction and seeking help for it. Why does that make her the worst in Dappys opinion? What reason is there for that, except discrimination?”
It is nice to see im not the only one who is annoyed the other housemates are forgiven for their past deeds but luisa is judged for liking sex.
I am sorry but i prefer someone who likes sex too much instead of the wife beater but i must be crazy.
Originally Posted by What name??:
“But so what? Jim is an acknowledged wife beater and alcoholic with anger issues. Dappy had been in court for assault around sexual harassment. Lee admits to promiscuity, alcoholism and manipulating people. Evander has 11 children . By 6 women and 3 marriages.
If Luisa's admits to a sex addiction and seeking help for it. Why does that make her the worst in Dappys opinion? What reason is there for that, except discrimination?”
“But so what? Jim is an acknowledged wife beater and alcoholic with anger issues. Dappy had been in court for assault around sexual harassment. Lee admits to promiscuity, alcoholism and manipulating people. Evander has 11 children . By 6 women and 3 marriages.
If Luisa's admits to a sex addiction and seeking help for it. Why does that make her the worst in Dappys opinion? What reason is there for that, except discrimination?”
I didn't say I agreed with what he was saying but if Luisa is daft enough to tell an idiot like Dappy personal details of her sex life then she really shouldn't be surprised when he offers his own opinions on it no matter how ridiculous they are.
Originally Posted by Pollyusa:
“Linda did. She stood silently between Dappy and Luisa at the dining table during their argument.”
“Linda did. She stood silently between Dappy and Luisa at the dining table during their argument.”
Yep, I'd mentioned Linda doing that earlier in my post- in the part you have put in bold, I was noticing that no man had done similar. Quite shocking that.
Originally Posted by BlackberryGirl:
“In groups of women talking together, I've noticed that sex - including lots of graphic details - is a common topic of conversation. Haven't you? I don't think Luisa is unusual in this.”
“In groups of women talking together, I've noticed that sex - including lots of graphic details - is a common topic of conversation. Haven't you? I don't think Luisa is unusual in this.”
You are quite right in what you say, some women do talk graphically. They do not however, share it with the whole world.
5 or 10 in one night ? Luisa's told the HMs , but didn't catch how many it was - - did anyone know what she whispered to Jasmine ? Dappy and Linda spoke about it, but Linda said 5 and Dappy 10 , but Linda didn't believe it, of course
Originally Posted by sandy50:
“5 or 10 in one night ? Luisa's told the HMs , but didn't catch how many it was - - did anyone know what she whispered to Jasmine ? Dappy and Linda spoke about it, but Linda said 5 and Dappy 10 , but Linda didn't believe it, of course”
“5 or 10 in one night ? Luisa's told the HMs , but didn't catch how many it was - - did anyone know what she whispered to Jasmine ? Dappy and Linda spoke about it, but Linda said 5 and Dappy 10 , but Linda didn't believe it, of course”
You have an unhealthy preoccupation with Luisa's sex life.
Originally Posted by BlackberryGirl:
“Really, isn't it long passed time these Mediaeval notions about 'sexual morality' and prurient concern about what other people do or don't do with their own bodies for fun, were tossed out along with fear of the evil eye or the belief that the liver houses the soul.”
“Really, isn't it long passed time these Mediaeval notions about 'sexual morality' and prurient concern about what other people do or don't do with their own bodies for fun, were tossed out along with fear of the evil eye or the belief that the liver houses the soul.”
Well said.
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