pmsl Lee Ryan is laughable. hes shown exactly what hes really like and now is coming across as the nice guy. Never thought he were a player and regarded woman as a play toy, let alone not give one thought to the other persons feelings. this change of persona with him is not fooling me in the slightest as hes already shown his true colours. funny what a load of boos from an audience can do .

He's always been very funny , friendly and sensitive and a general nice guy both from seeing him on tv and everything and in person twice he's a lovely person. I don't know why he acted like a player, maybe overwhelmed with the attention or something . Think he's just afraid of being hurt again an wants to be loved. We're seeing the best of him now the secret room has done him good.

It's funny when you're a kid, and all the girls fancy these boyband guys, and you sort of think they must have to be fairly cool to get all these girls (even though, as a lad, you despise the music and pretty much everything it stands for).

Then, you see them on a show like this, and you realise they are actually still boys themselves, stuck in this sort of freakish, perma youth. Lee is a grown man, but let's face it, he acts like a teenager He's dumb, obsessed with girls (stupid ones), and he has no idea what he is doing with anyone- how to talk to anyone, how to explain himself, how to have a relationship... he relies entirely on his boyband persona, and probably always has, which is why he has never grown up.

Depressingly, it still works on glamour girl bimbo's, desperate for fame, and of a similar mental age- we might as well face it, they were made for each other

He needs to grow up. he has 2 children and no matter whether he comes across a silly teen type boy, thick obsessed etc should not condone his behavior with the way he treats woman..

He's sort of narcissistic or self-centered. Virtually everything he does or says revolves around him and his sex life. But he makes a good housemate. Perhaps older housemates - cos they've lived a bit more - tend to be more interested in other people? Who knows!

Great post, very perceptive.
He's even a failure as "a player" - comes across like a teenager trying to be the big man with the girlies, but then cries when it backfires on him.
Can imagine him sitting in his bedroom sulking, refusing to come downstairs but still hoping mummeee will come up with his tea and give him a tenner out of her purse so he can go down the town centre with his mates. It's impossible to view him as a grown man at all.

Good post!