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who
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“I am sure you are a bastion of society.”

i see your out to insult another forum member with your selective personal snipes just because people don't agree with your opinion.
michaelkegnan
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by who:
“i see your out to insult another forum member with your selective personal snipes just because people don't agree with your opinion.”

That is not an insult.
michaelkegnan
11-01-2014
Make no judgments where you have no compassion.
Eurostar
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“I am sure you are a bastion of society.”

Certainly not, but I've nothing in common with Lee either. I wouldn't mind his big ego or immaturity but I don't like his attitude to women.
janna
11-01-2014
The guy has no self awareness, but is a master of avoiding accepting responsibility for his actions.
As someone sensibly pointed out, his phrasing denotes 'I never did nuffink,but I'm saying sorry for it if it makes me look better'.
Even before the bolt hole his convos were unsatisfactory flim flam. "yeah babe, 'course babe, later yeah, you're right babe, we'll talk later babe, sure babe, gotta go babe ....." . Idiot.
auntysplat
11-01-2014
So who the hell was in a 5yr relation-ship with him, what a big head he is
I'm-a-pain
11-01-2014
After watching lee back in the house, my husband and I both looked at each other and said at the same time "all he EVER talks about is himself!!" I know they all do to a point, but he is just over the top with his ME ME ME attitude.

xx
michaelkegnan
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by Eurostar:
“Certainly not, but I've nothing in common with Lee either. I wouldn't mind his big ego or immaturity but I don't like his attitude to women.”

I don't believe he has any bad attitudes towards women; he just messed up. Dappy on the other hand.... He is a bit of a bellend of course.

I just wish people were more light hearted but i guess that is the way society has been molded to be. A lot of hate out there; very sad.
Lilylilac
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“Make no judgments where you have no compassion.”

112 posts in two days.... Do you have no life?
michaelkegnan
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by I'm-a-pain:
“After watching lee back in the house, my husband and I both looked at each other and said at the same time "all he EVER talks about is himself!!" I know they all do to a point, but he is just over the top with his ME ME ME attitude.

xx”

That is why i watch celeb BB. Narcissistic, desperate individuals clamoring to their 15 minutes. That is the beauty of the show.
michaelkegnan
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by Lilylilac:
“112 posts in two days.... Do you have no life?”

What are you stalking me? Yes i am doing a course right now on my laptop; hence why i am online. It will take approximately 3 weeks to complete. My answers are not long essays(usually) and i type immensely fast. If i had no life i would be angry at petty things that happen on BB like most of the people on here. Instead i deal with real issues like preventing the gagging order or stopping Monsanto. My life is dedicated to serving a purpose and enhancing myself. Reality TV is a nice detraction from the constant fight against oppression which clearly most of you don't care about.

I'll now jump on board the band wagon; lets give Lee a prison sentence and condemn him for his wicked behavior. You are all right. What an evil person, truly horrible.
who
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“I don't believe he has any bad attitudes towards women; he just messed up. Dappy on the other hand.... He is a bit of a bellend of course.

I just wish people were more light hearted but i guess that is the way society has been molded to be. A lot of hate out there; very sad.”

you are joking of course " no bad attitudes towards women" you must have the same ethos as him towards women of using them for your own gratification and ego (which is exactly what he has done)to make a comment like that.
also if you agree with the concept of being lighthearted you should try it yourself you never know you might get to like it
muggins14
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“What are you stalking me? Yes i am doing a course right now on my laptop; hence why i am online. It will take approximately 3 weeks to complete. My answers are not long essays(usually) and i type immensely fast. If i had no life i would be angry at petty things that happen on BB like most of the people on here. Instead i deal with real issues like preventing the gagging order or stopping Monsanto. My life is dedicated to serving a purpose and enhancing myself. Reality TV is a nice detraction from the constant fight against oppression which clearly most of you don't care about.

I'll now jump on board the band wagon; lets give Lee a prison sentence and condemn him for his wicked behavior. You are all right. What an evil person, truly horrible.”

It would be more logical to assume, would it not, that being on here is also a nice distraction for most FMs, an escape from reality to discuss a reality TV show. People may seem to be taking BB seriously, but only within the confines of the DS BB boards. You don't know what else we care about - I personally care very much about disability rights and ATOS, I care about the ConDems decimation of the Welfare State, I care about the terrible situation with regard to the loophole in the Bedroom Tax bill that has come to light.

One should never assume that those taking time to post on a discussion board regarding a TV show have any less interest in the wider world, have fewer problems than yourself, care less than yourself, and perhaps should assume that - like yourself - they are taking a break from reality for a while.
Eurostar
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“I don't believe he has any bad attitudes towards women; he just messed up. Dappy on the other hand.... He is a bit of a bellend of course.

I just wish people were more light hearted but i guess that is the way society has been molded to be. A lot of hate out there; very sad.”

Well, that story he told last night of sleeping with five women who were friends with each other and angering the lot of them didn't do him any favours.....it made him sound like a user of people.

He kept adding that he was young at the time but he doesn't seem to have changed much in the meantime.
bitebug
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by auntysplat:
“He has annoyed the hell out of me since he went back in the house, what a Big Head and really cocky”

With only 30 minutes of live feed and the odd clip here and there I find that hard to believe.
Scarlet O'Hara
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by Kromm:
“You can tell the truth if you listen.

For example, when we saw him talking to Casey shortly before their release from their little zoo, she seemed to be buying his act. But his words belied any real truth to his apologies. "I said I was sorry... for whatever I did."

Think about that phrasing. That's the way someone constructs a sentence when they don't even understand what they did--don't accept it and/or hardly understand the actual offense. It's basically "yeah, whatever".”

Yes, well spotted. It's a bit like a dog getting its nose rubbed in a carpet. It has no idea what it's done 'wrong' just that doing this particular thing incurs punishment and disapproval. Except that Lee doesn't feel any actual shame and can't make the right links. He is so surface deep, so obsessed with his ego, ie how he's perceived, and his own justifiable gratification, that he has no empathy or self-awareness.

I find it fascinating to watch. He's got one of the most fragile selfish egos I've seen in CBB.
SULLA
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by Pedro:
“He strikes me as being cripplingly insecure.”

I never got that impression
debi
11-01-2014
For what it is worth here is my take on Lee.

He resembles (not literally) a over zealous puppy dog, eager to please, desperate to be liked and loved but extremely irritating, very inappropriate and high octane attention seeking.

His intentions are not bad, he doesn't have much self awareness and pretty much zero self confidence. He is overcompensating for all of this with his behaviour and is genuinely really upset at how he is being perceived. That may be hard for many to believe but he really has little idea of how others perceive him.

He lacks the ability to inhibit so everything just pours out, every emotion becomes jumbled and meltdowns such as the ones we have sadly witnessed are common in his life.

The story of how many women he had in a week was so long ago he thinks his age and innocence is excusable. However he doesn't realise most people would be shocked at this admission. His honesty is childlike. He is childlike.

Whilst he is extremely creative and clearly longs to be loved he emotional quotient EQ is that of a 7yr old. He is intelligent but just not socially aware enough to keep himself out of the limelight. He doesn't have a great short term memory and gets easily distracted, his concentration is poor and he forgets what he has said and to whom. That also gets him in some sticky situations. His brain seems to operate at 1000mph and he just 'blurts' out stuff in an attempt to pacify and please others. He hates confrontation although provokes it unknowingly!

If Lee was with people who could guide and inform him he would be fine as he is keen to learn but whilst he is with women like Luisa, Casey and Jasmine who also have little self awareness or perception of how others see them or simply they don't care he stands no chance. They are so NOT the sort of personalities he should be surrounded by!

I don't think Lee knows who he is to be honest and the bit he does know he doesn't like.

Just my opinion before anyone shoots me down in flames!!
Scarlet O'Hara
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“What are you stalking me? Yes i am doing a course right now on my laptop; hence why i am online. It will take approximately 3 weeks to complete. My answers are not long essays(usually) and i type immensely fast. If i had no life i would be angry at petty things that happen on BB like most of the people on here. Instead i deal with real issues like preventing the gagging order or stopping Monsanto. My life is dedicated to serving a purpose and enhancing myself. Reality TV is a nice detraction from the constant fight against oppression which clearly most of you don't care about.

I'll now jump on board the band wagon; lets give Lee a prison sentence and condemn him for his wicked behavior. You are all right. What an evil person, truly horrible.”

There you go again, with your "most posters" assumptions, as if some or indeed 'most' of us don't also have important jobs, life goals, concerns or use 'light' diversions like CBB. You know nothing about us, so why assume the worst? And why the need to tell us, quite so often, how worthy you are by comparison? It all smacks of insecurity or misanthropy.
Scarlet O'Hara
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by SULLA:
“I never got that impression”

Underneath any narcissism is a deep insecurity. Those who are secure in themselves don't need to promote themselves or seek approval from others.
Kromm
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“I can't believe how serious people on here are. Crazy. You do not know Lee. BB is not a real situation. Everyone that actually knows him says the opposite of DS posters.”

What else do you expect his friends to say?

People here seem to mostly be commenting on what we see of his behavior. What our eyes and ears are telling us. That seems pretty fair.
TerryM22
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by michaelkegnan:
“That is why i watch celeb BB. Narcissistic, desperate individuals clamoring to their 15 minutes. That is the beauty of the show.”

I guess it is.
Toggler
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by debi:
“For what it is worth here is my take on Lee.

He resembles (not literally) a over zealous puppy dog, eager to please, desperate to be liked and loved but extremely irritating, very inappropriate and high octane attention seeking.

His intentions are not bad, he doesn't have much self awareness and pretty much zero self confidence. He is overcompensating for all of this with his behaviour and is genuinely really upset at how he is being perceived. That may be hard for many to believe but he really has little idea of how others perceive him.

He lacks the ability to inhibit so everything just pours out, every emotion becomes jumbled and meltdowns such as the ones we have sadly witnessed are common in his life.

The story of how many women he had in a week was so long ago he thinks his age and innocence is excusable. However he doesn't realise most people would be shocked at this admission. His honesty is childlike. He is childlike.

Whilst he is extremely creative and clearly longs to be loved he emotional quotient EQ is that of a 7yr old. He is intelligent but just not socially aware enough to keep himself out of the limelight. He doesn't have a great short term memory and gets easily distracted, his concentration is poor and he forgets what he has said and to whom. That also gets him in some sticky situations. His brain seems to operate at 1000mph and he just 'blurts' out stuff in an attempt to pacify and please others. He hates confrontation although provokes it unknowingly!

If Lee was with people who could guide and inform him he would be fine as he is keen to learn but whilst he is with women like Luisa, Casey and Jasmine who also have little self awareness or perception of how others see them or simply they don't care he stands no chance. They are so NOT the sort of personalities he should be surrounded by!

I don't think Lee knows who he is to be honest and the bit he does know he doesn't like.

Just my opinion before anyone shoots me down in flames!!”

I totally agree, he's a charmless nurk.
TerryM22
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by Toggler:
“I totally agree, he's a charmless nurk.”

Charmless is a good word.
Toggler
11-01-2014
Originally Posted by muggins14:
“It would be more logical to assume, would it not, that being on here is also a nice distraction for most FMs, an escape from reality to discuss a reality TV show. People may seem to be taking BB seriously, but only within the confines of the DS BB boards. You don't know what else we care about - I personally care very much about disability rights and ATOS, I care about the ConDems decimation of the Welfare State, I care about the terrible situation with regard to the loophole in the Bedroom Tax bill that has come to light.

One should never assume that those taking time to post on a discussion board regarding a TV show have any less interest in the wider world, have fewer problems than yourself, care less than yourself, and perhaps should assume that - like yourself - they are taking a break from reality for a while.”

Very well said, but don't waste your time feeding the troll - come and play with the rest of us.
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