Originally Posted by wildpark:
“True, although he did it with a wink as a wind up, but she is so proud of the fact that she "says what she thinks" regardless of other peoples feelings Jim is clearly is fed up with it (even though he says it does not bother him) and all she has to do is cry (instead of owing up that their observation about her was true) and suddenly they are the nasty ones. She is very happy to make critical comments about other people, but if they make critical comments about her in return she does not like it. She is very self-centered.”
The thing that is upsetting her is that they are branding her as 'always starting arguments'.
Even as far back as the nomination day Dappy said to the group that they should all vote for the person who starts the most arguments. So that is obviously what Dappy Jim and the gang are trying to portray her as. Just like whenever Jim has a barney with Linda he tries to say she's drunk, when clearly he is the drunk one.
Jim seems to create personas for people and then uses it as a crutch to beat them with.
Like yesterday when Dappy makes the mysogynystic comments about women, and Jasmine + Luisa take offence to it. And then Dappy follows Luisa around relentlessly trying to pick a fight with her....... Yet Jim says that SHE is the one starting another argument

which upsets her.
And then Luisa has a misunderstanding with Lionel and she's trying to sort it out when Jim starts sticking his ore in making it worse, and then blames her AGAIN for starting an argument, saying it over and over again knowing full well that he made her cry earlier by saying that to her.
The guy is a nasty piece of work who gets off doing his passive agressive shtick with women. He wouldn't dare do it to a man because he's a coward.