Offended that Dappy & Evander doesn't think women are equal and then doesnt like it that Dappy talked to women the way he did. She wants it to be equal when it suits her.
Luisa = hypocrite
Originally Posted by huwmichele:
“Offended that Dappy & Evander doesn't think women are equal and then doesnt like it that Dappy talked to women the way he did. She wants it to be equal when it suits her.”
“Offended that Dappy & Evander doesn't think women are equal and then doesnt like it that Dappy talked to women the way he did. She wants it to be equal when it suits her.”
I totally agree. You can't cry for equality then complain that he is talking badly to a woman. He shouldn't be talking to anybody that way, but she changes the goalposts all the time.
Originally Posted by hihopes:
“She expected respect from him, that doesn't make her a hypocrite.”
“She expected respect from him, that doesn't make her a hypocrite.”
Perhaps if she showed respect for others she would get some back.....I'm 50/50 on Dappy and Luisa's argument though, he was totally in the wrong and so was she, she inflamed the situation and is aggressive and hypocritical, she can dish it out but cannot take it when dished out to her.
Originally Posted by huwmichele:
“Why can't he talk to her like that. She wants to be equal.”
“Why can't he talk to her like that. She wants to be equal.”
How does being equal mean being disrespected? I'm confused.
I'm finding the point of this thread confusing.
I'm not sure what the point is that the OP is making.
I'm not sure what the point is that the OP is making.
Originally Posted by hihopes:
“How does being equal mean being disrespected? I'm confused.”
“How does being equal mean being disrespected? I'm confused.”
Because she said that he can't talk to 'a woman' like that. That's sexist because it implies that Evander could talk to a man like that. So, the women were being as sexist as they were accusing Evander of being. Textbook definition of ironic.
I think it's hypocritical of Luisa to criticise Jim for stirring when it's all she does! The argument started because she was talking about Dappy and he overheard...
Both awful people, can't side with either of them to be honest...
Both awful people, can't side with either of them to be honest...
Everything dappy has said to her has been deserved. She went into that house with the declared attitude of not giving a toss for anyone but herself. She sowed the bad seed so she can live with the results.
Originally Posted by huwmichele:
“Why can't he talk to her like that. She wants to be equal.”
“Why can't he talk to her like that. She wants to be equal.”
I bet he wouldn't talk like that to a man - unless he had a buch of his homies with him.
Originally Posted by Stellen11:
“Everything dappy has said to her has been deserved..”
“Everything dappy has said to her has been deserved..”
Utter rubbish. He didn't say it once, he was harassing her.
I agree with the OP! she sees herself as a strong woman who can do what's she likes and say what's on her mind, well she has been challenged and frankly didn't come out of it well, crying that she wants to go home , boo-hoo! ,I find her ridiculous
Originally Posted by Stellen11:
“Everything dappy has said to her has been deserved. She went into that house with the declared attitude of not giving a toss for anyone but herself. She sowed the bad seed so she can live with the results.”
“Everything dappy has said to her has been deserved. She went into that house with the declared attitude of not giving a toss for anyone but herself. She sowed the bad seed so she can live with the results.”
So true, if you go into the house with that attitude eventually you are gonna be challenged and you should be prepared for that , I don't think she was prepared for Dappy. She's lucky that Jim is reigning it in cos she is Deffo not his cup of tea either
Originally Posted by JVS:
“Utter rubbish. He didn't say it once, he was harassing her.”
“Utter rubbish. He didn't say it once, he was harassing her.”
He was harassing her because he called him a chauvinist behind his back to the others, then brought his mother into the argument .you expect Dappy to just sit there and take that . I'm not a great fan of his
But I not surprised he carried it on ,he was fuming
Originally Posted by huwmichele:
“Offended that Dappy & Evander doesn't think women are equal and then doesnt like it that Dappy talked to women the way he did. She wants it to be equal when it suits her.”
“Offended that Dappy & Evander doesn't think women are equal and then doesnt like it that Dappy talked to women the way he did. She wants it to be equal when it suits her.”
agree, pick and choose when it suits her
Originally Posted by JVS:
“I bet he wouldn't talk like that to a man - unless he had a buch of his homies with him.”
“I bet he wouldn't talk like that to a man - unless he had a buch of his homies with him.”
Quite. And as hypocrites go he is a classic example.
Totally agree OP, you couldn't have made up the hypocrisy in her ranting away. She wants to be equal when it suits her but have a go back and 'you can't speak to a woman like that'
Originally Posted by Pices-55:
“Perhaps if she showed respect for others she would get some back.....I'm 50/50 on Dappy and Luisa's argument though, he was totally in the wrong and so was she, she inflamed the situation and is aggressive and hypocritical, she can dish it out but cannot take it when dished out to her.”
“Perhaps if she showed respect for others she would get some back.....I'm 50/50 on Dappy and Luisa's argument though, he was totally in the wrong and so was she, she inflamed the situation and is aggressive and hypocritical, she can dish it out but cannot take it when dished out to her.”
great post.
Originally Posted by huwmichele:
“Offended that Dappy & Evander doesn't think women are equal and then doesnt like it that Dappy talked to women the way he did. She wants it to be equal when it suits her.”
“Offended that Dappy & Evander doesn't think women are equal and then doesnt like it that Dappy talked to women the way he did. She wants it to be equal when it suits her.”
They're both hypocrites.
Luisa is a hypocrite for the reason you said, and also for saying that Dappy's mother would be ashamed when her parents/daughter wouldn't exactly be the most proud of some of the stuff she's said in there regarding her sex life.
Dappy is a hypocrite for saying that Luisa's daughter would be ashamed of her for the stuff she's done considering the stuff he's done, and saying that Luisa shouldn't have brought his mother in to it when he was the first to resort to personal attacks.
But I was on Luisa's side as Dappy started the argument and was unable to back up his own point so resorted to personal attacks and brought up Luisa's background.
