I have read her column for a while and she is unhappy in her life, full stop. She wants to be happy with a man in her life, be beautiful, rich, have children and a good career, well she managed the last one somehow.
She is firstly envious of those who have been blessed by good looks which in her book, the husband, children and lifestyle would follow. As she didn't have those looks, it didn't happen for her and her marriage dissolved when her husband had affairs which she wrote about interminably. She praised designer tat and vilified those who didn't wear it, yet it never made a difference to her appeal for men. She wanted kids, not to be but then went on the attack against mothers who speak about their children and upset that group of women.
Her values were skewed when she moved to the country and tried to tell the locals how to lead their lives, with designer bed sheets and perfumed hand wash wondering why she was shunned in the vicinity. She argued her animal doctrine to the local people in the press, ran them down, calling them yokels whilst also describing her designer wellie boots in the same sentence. You couldn't make her up.
How she keeps her highly paid job whilst twittering on about her thousands of pounds overdraft debts whilst living in a desirable area of London, she is nuts and wonders why she gets the hate mail she does. I don't dislike her or even try to understand her, she is like an itch which won't go away, annoying and bothersome.