How and why was Dappy not warned for his slightly rapey talk and behaviour towards Luisa there? He wasn't with Jasmine on the first night either.
How was Dappy not warned for that?
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I think Luisa talking about his cock is a sign that she wouldn't mind some mild horseplay. They've messed around before. There is well-implied consent from previous stuff. Hardly rapey.
Originally Posted by Digital Sid:
“How and why was Dappy not warned for his slightly rapey talk and behaviour towards Luisa? He wasn't with Jasmine on the first night either.”
“How and why was Dappy not warned for his slightly rapey talk and behaviour towards Luisa? He wasn't with Jasmine on the first night either.”
Because he was pissed off his tits. If they were going to talk to him then they'd do it the next morning and ven then only if Luisa was offended by it. If Luisa wasn't then no-one else really has a right to be offended.
Originally Posted by klaw:
“I think Luisa talking about his cock is a sign that she wouldn't mind some mild horseplay. They've messed around before. There is well-impied consent from previous stuff. Hardly rapey.”
“I think Luisa talking about his cock is a sign that she wouldn't mind some mild horseplay. They've messed around before. There is well-impied consent from previous stuff. Hardly rapey.”
Whether she is ok with it or not, grabbing someone and thrusting them towards your waist and going on about what you'd like to / would to do them is surely inappropriate at best?
probably because they both simulated sex in the shower the other night, luisa wasn't bothered by it at all and laughed it off.
Originally Posted by Digital Sid:
“Whether she is ok with it or not, grabbing someone and thrusting them towards your waist and going on about what you'd like to / would to do them is surely inappropriate at best?”
“Whether she is ok with it or not, grabbing someone and thrusting them towards your waist and going on about what you'd like to / would to do them is surely inappropriate at best?”
Kids today eh?
Originally Posted by jason_strentham:
“It was totally harmless & Luisa had no problem with it”
“It was totally harmless & Luisa had no problem with it”
Agree.... I just knew someone would raise this on here
Originally Posted by yorkiegal:
“probably because they both simulated sex in the shower the other night, luisa wasn't bothered by it at all and laughed it off.”
“probably because they both simulated sex in the shower the other night, luisa wasn't bothered by it at all and laughed it off.”
Exactly. A second of harmless fun between hms in full view of loads of cameras
Dappy is into double figures on warnings and so are allot of other housemates
when there is that much going on it's hardly worth showing us on the highlight show
when there is that much going on it's hardly worth showing us on the highlight show
Originally Posted by jason_strentham:
“Luisa had no problem with it”
“Luisa had no problem with it”
Is the correct answer, you win a fat cigar, or "Dappy's Dick" as they call them in Havana.
Originally Posted by Daemon666:
“Because he was pissed off his tits.”
“Because he was pissed off his tits.”
I doubt that would be a defence in a court of law.
Originally Posted by klaw:
“I think Luisa talking about his cock is a sign that she wouldn't mind some mild horseplay. They've messed around before. There is well-implied consent from previous stuff. Hardly rapey.”
“I think Luisa talking about his cock is a sign that she wouldn't mind some mild horseplay. They've messed around before. There is well-implied consent from previous stuff. Hardly rapey.”
But not an invitation to initiate it without your permission.
Originally Posted by Digital Sid:
“Whether she is ok with it or not, grabbing someone and thrusting them towards your waist and going on about what you'd like to / would to do them is surely inappropriate at best?”
“Whether she is ok with it or not, grabbing someone and thrusting them towards your waist and going on about what you'd like to / would to do them is surely inappropriate at best?”
thing is sid most of us women would'nt like it but then he would'nt do it to us she has done the same to him and got hold of his bits
God knows, I'm not one for defending Dappy, but to suggest there was anything "rapey" about what he did, is stretching the imagination.
Originally Posted by yorkiegal:
“probably because they both simulated sex in the shower the other night, luisa wasn't bothered by it at all and laughed it off.”
“probably because they both simulated sex in the shower the other night, luisa wasn't bothered by it at all and laughed it off.”
Again not an invitation to initiate it again when he likes. Whether she was bothered by it or not, it shouldn't go ignored, it's still completely unacceptable. Housemates have been warned for saying and doing things to someone that the other person hasn't been bothered by before. Why doesn't that apply here?
Originally Posted by Digital Sid:
“Whether she is ok with it or not, grabbing someone and thrusting them towards your waist and going on about what you'd like to / would to do them is surely inappropriate at best?”
“Whether she is ok with it or not, grabbing someone and thrusting them towards your waist and going on about what you'd like to / would to do them is surely inappropriate at best?”
To most people it might be, but no Luisa, she has no problem with such behaviour, so if she's not bothered why should anyone else be?
Originally Posted by SnowStorm86:
“God knows, I'm not one for defending Dappy, but to suggest there was anything "rapey" about what he did, is stretching the imagination.”
“God knows, I'm not one for defending Dappy, but to suggest there was anything "rapey" about what he did, is stretching the imagination.”
By that I meant creepy and inappropriate, it's a colloquialism, I wasn't suggesting anything, I'm aware that he was just drunk and messing about. I just find it odd that BB didn't at least tell him it wasn't acceptable when they've warned people for far less than grabbing them by the waist.
Originally Posted by Digital Sid:
“But not an invitation to initiate it without your permission.”
“But not an invitation to initiate it without your permission.”
If Luisa objected she would have said something.
She was laughing her head off.
Originally Posted by hunkydory:
“thing is sid most of us women would'nt like it but then he would'nt do it to us she has done the same to him and got hold of his bits”
“thing is sid most of us women would'nt like it but then he would'nt do it to us she has done the same to him and got hold of his bits”
I agree that she was also inappropriate during the twinsie task but that doesn't really make it alright.
Originally Posted by ForGodsSake:
“If Luisa objected she would have said something.
She was laughing her head off.”
“If Luisa objected she would have said something.
She was laughing her head off.”
Again, housemates have been warned for things the other housemate wasn't bothered by before. Emily in BB8 springs to mind.
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