Originally Posted by saladfingers81:
“But Amy chose to leave the Doctor. She chose Rory. She had a choice.”
But wasn't that ultimately just choosing between two men
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“Yes 'the girl who waited' was a dominating theme but of course it would be. She didn't wait for 'a man'. She waited for a time travelling alien who crash landed in her garden. Put gender politics to one side and wouldn't this be the same whatever the gender of the characters? If a female alien had landed in my back garden when I was five you can be damn sure it wouldve impacted on me. Why view it as any kind of subservience or male gaze? You can apply that reading if you wish but the opposite argument is just as valid.”
I get your point. The questions of sexism depend on how strongly you see the Doctor as being 'a man' rather than 'an alien'. But I suppose culturally it's seen as a male role; some people are quite adamant that it shouldn't be a female role. Whether Moffat views the role as being 'a male time traveller' or 'a time travelling alien', who knows? But if you subscribe to the idea that the Doctor must be played by a man, then gender is surely of some importance. The introduction of sexuality also pushes it more towards 'male time traveller', which is one of the reasons why people object to the Doctor having a sexuality. So your argument is valid if gender is unimportant to the show- and there is a debate.
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“As I said before in the thread you could turn this criticism on RTDs companions. Can anyone explain what's empowering about having a centuries old timelord blow apart the life of a teenage girl, break up her relationship with her boyfriend and mother, cause her to vanish for a year devastating her mothers life in the process, force her to sacrifice her life in this reality then inspire her to strive to come back only to be basically told 'thanks but..no thanks. I don't actually want you. But hey! I'm so great that im sure you'll be happy with a poor copy of me so off you pop to your own reality'. And Rose just takes it.
I utterly refuse to believe that such a character arc is any more empowering or lacking in male gaze as Amy Ponds.”
I think all the talk of 'empowerment' is the problem. Women don't need some special thing to 'empower' them. There is the added complexity to the argument of people thinking that Rory isn't 'empowered' so maybe people do think that men need to be 'empowered' but the idea is most strongly linked with women. To suggest that someone needs to be 'empowered' implies that they have no power.
There's no attempt in the Rose arc to empower her at all, you're right, but that's how it should be. Characters should be people; no need to make them special or empowered. They can even be unlikeable and morally weak. Women can get completely screwed over by men- it happens. Of course that would also gain some complaints but as long as the character is well-written, it doesn't matter.
To be fair, there's a clear spin on how you present Rose's arc whereas some people could view Amy's arc as problematic from the basic premise of a girl waiting for a culturally male figure and needing to choose between him and another man. There may be other things around that but isn't that the central premise? I didn't particularly get the impression that she could choose to chuck the pair and go off and do her own thing. I haven't watched it since the broadcast so maybe this was a possibility but if it was just a case of choosing between two men, you can see how some people might view that as sexist.
Technically as a gay man, RTD doesn't have the 'male gaze'. The 'male gaze' is overtly sexual. There is such a thing as a 'female gaze', evident in Mills and Boon-type novels, so I don't think that it's a male problem. I think that the male gaze can add a certain tenderness and romantic quality in some cases so I don't mind an element of 'male gaze'. Indeed it's littered throughout Doctor Who in some crass ways so I don't think that the argument that Moffat suddenly brought all this sexism that wasn't there before is valid. It's a different type of male gaze.
You can acknowledge that something appears sexist or uses sexist tropes but argue that the writing and characterisation makes the whole question of gender irrelevant. But there's this silly idea that any discussion of gender must inherently be something political rather than a cultural debate about perception and the media.