Originally Posted by Mobes:
“1) I'm pretty sure River said that 10's Doctor was young, implying her doctor was older so it couldn't be 11”
10 was younger than 11. Tennant might be older than Smith, but River was clearly commenting beyond his physical appearance. Its the same as when, in the 50th, Clara comments that Hurt's eyes are so much younger. He's clearly older than Matt, but Clara can see the difference in his eyes. I think that was the same for River when she met 10.
I don't remember her ever saying she lived with the Doctor, but even if she did, there is so many gaps in 11's life that we never saw, he could well have lived with her at some unseen point.