Ooh, I didn't realise that Ashleigh had an appreciation thread.
Hiya people. This is my first post in an appreciation thread this series.
Yes, I quite like Ashleigh. I didn't think I was going to.
Initially I thought I was going to like a couple of others, but now when I think of them I just go 'Pfft, whatever', they just turned out to be a bit nothing to me now. I can only really say that I like Chris and Ashleigh now. I quite regret Matthew going too now in hindsight.
I'm not going to pretend that I like her because she's 'nice' or she does lovely things.
I think that she probably can be nice, she will have a softer side, but it's a warzone in there and it's not the point.
What I like about her is that she's strong. She's consistent. She sticks to her guns.
That to me can impress me. For an 18 year old in there it impresses me even more so.
I also found myself impressed by the fact that after Toya went she operated as an individual and didn't suddenly decide to seek safety under the protection of a group of housemates. I didn't expect that at all.
But it's this hardline approach of hers which I like a lot. She's clear about where she draws the line about what she likes, doesn't like, what she believes to be right, and what she believes to be wrong and she doesn't appear to flip flop.
It was this black and white nature of her which reminded me of the writer Alan Moore's assessment of the comic book character Mr. A.
Quote:
“He takes a card and shades one half of it in dark
so he can demonstrate to you just what he means.
He says, "There's black and there is white, and there is wrong, and there is right, and there is nothing, nothing in between."
That's what Mr. A said.”
Here's a youtube clip of Alan Moore talking about this in the Jonathan Ross documentary 'Jonathan Ross in Search of Steve Ditko'.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hD7EKZ32ODQ
Don't get me wrong, I don't necessarily believe that the world should work like that in reality or can work, but in the BB house it certainly helps where you know where you stand with a housemate. And I am being slightly tongue in cheek about it as it's a comparison that I enjoy and see with some amusement and fun.
The turning point with me when it comes to Ashleigh, where I suddenly sat up and took notice thinking that this is actually an interesting housemate to watch, was one particular scene in the garden when she was chatting to Chris, I think.
She had her shades on and was speaking in an uncompromising manner, naturally, and was trying to maintain a tough exterior, when suddenly a tear rolled down her face out of nowhere. But she carried on talking with conviction without breaking down at all.
That to me was a very interesting slice of reality.