Originally Posted by kwynne42:
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I was thinking cain had an idealistic view of his marriage to moira, that it fixed him somehow after all the bad things he has done in the past, now Moira has ruined all that with her lies and stuff so all the hopes he had of bettering himself are gone.”
Yes - I'd agree there is that element to his outlook, which, in itself allows himself to shift "responsibility" away from himself - Moira ruined it.
Originally Posted by Gulftastic:
“But Cain is changing. He's aware of his past, and hates that part of himself. He's put so much trust in Moira, even the smallest betrayal makes him fear he could lose it all.
I'm enjoying it. Its actual character development.”
I never said I wasn't enjoying it Gulfie

Do I feel sorry for him? - not one iota!
Do I think he's changing? - I might have done - if he hadn't bullied Moira into telling Adam - she wasn't ready for it - Adam certainly wasn't ready to hear it - and Cain's only motivation was his own petty insecurities about his trust of Moira.
BIB really

- I can't say I've seen any sign of himhating himself for any of his past.
Originally Posted by
Oldnjaded:
“Trouble is sheepie - long standing characters can't realistically be held accountable for their past actions forever. If people like Cain, as just one example, who have done very bad things in the past, were never ever allowed to move on and go on to feel normal emotions like pain, sense of betrayal, anger etc, there quite simply wouldn't be any sls for him. In this particular case of him finding out Moira lied to his face about her past relationship with James, would you prefer him to sit there smiling, without saying a word, because he knows he's also lied in the past? Where would be the drama, or even a basic sl, in that?
Pretty much ALL characters in soaps can be accused of hypocrisy in that respect, based on their past sls. Irl, almost no current characters would even be speaking to any other character because of past rows, hatreds, betrayals etc, (points at Chas and Dobbeh for a start). Basically, we have to 'put to bed' past sls at some point, and take the new ones at face value.
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Whoa there onj - that sounds very much like you're telling me I have to like it for the sake of it.
Characters DO have a past and long standing viewers (like me) are aware of that past - too many times characters are given selective memory or short term personality traits and it can make a mockery of the situation - soaps are not as popular as they used to be - there are reasons for that
One thing I did like about last night's ep was Victoria telling Adam he wasn't perfect - it was an astoundingly pertinent point - but sadly it was thrown in as little more than a throwaway byline.