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Steven so aggressive over photo
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FusionFury
11-07-2014
From the Helen school of confronting a situation.

Even though he had a point, why do that if your on a break?

Kimberly is a fraud, not a memorable or great housemate like her fans think.

What's she done?
Steph_Cuckow
11-07-2014
He needs help seriously why would any one act like that
Deleesi
11-07-2014
Originally Posted by Claire_alba:
“Maybe Im missing something here but if it was a guy doing this to a woman he would get pelters. Kim is pulling his plonker and yet when Steven finally looks as if the penny might be dropping into that thick skull people think he is over reacting? Its a photo of the guy she lied she had split up with, why is she gettting anything other than slated?”

I hear what you're saying but it is aggressive controlling nature that I find worrying.
Spidey1
11-07-2014
He's a first class idiot. who does he think he is with her at such an early stage in this "relationship"?

he's a mummy's boy, and he's always had his own way in life because of that. god help all the women who come into contact with this idiot.
Lozzo99
11-07-2014
Originally Posted by Deleesi:
“And as a human being Helen shouldn't have said he was in the right but then she did say she would have reacted the same! ”

Thats warm hearted Helen for ya. True colours.
MissDeeBlue
11-07-2014
Originally Posted by Claire_alba:
“Kim confessed that she had brought a photo of the guy she claims to have broken up with into the house and showed two pics to Steven who says he cant understand why you would take pics of an ex into the house. Kim then turns it round on him saying he is making her feel bad”

Thank you Claire xxx
atko
11-07-2014
Originally Posted by Claire_alba:
“Maybe Im missing something here but if it was a guy doing this to a woman he would get pelters. Kim is pulling his plonker and yet when Steven finally looks as if the penny might be dropping into that thick skull people think he is over reacting? Its a photo of the guy she lied she had split up with, why is she gettting anything other than slated?”

We all know they were together when she came in the house otherwise why is he here in the UK with her?! It's not really the issue, Steven is extremely controlling in a suffocating & unbearable way!!!
AOTB
11-07-2014
Absolute nutjob/ controlling freak.
JinnyJinxed
11-07-2014
Originally Posted by Sugar Ape:
“You have a point, most women would most likely flip if the guy she was seeing / sleeping with was carrying around a photo of another woman.. or if she didn't flip she'd sulk big time.

Having said that, she brought it in, what's she meant to do with it now? Chuck it in the bin?”

I think that you are missing the point.

Kimberly has had a past with this guy for many years - on and off - she hasn't hidden anything from Steven at all, but he has drilled her, and accused her, and made her walk on eggshells, like she has. She hasn't 'had an affair', which is how he is behaving, because she was on a break while in the house. She probably had the photos for comfort, maybe, or reassurance, or simply a touch of home. Either way - this guy is a friend of hers too, and she did/does have feelings for him, and this guy was also in her life, a whole lot longer than Steven. You can't just shut off your emotional feelings for someone in an instant, and certainly not in a high pressure environment like the BB house.

The footage we saw of Steven's behaviour towards her in the intial stages, I felt, showed that he didn't really give her a chance to figure out what she actually felt about him. He was full on, isolating her from the group at times, and going on and on about how HE see's a future with her, and how HE feels about her, until she cracked. It was the behaviour of a Sociopath. It was scary.

The time he said about how 'well he handled the situation, under the circumstances', smacks of sociopathic phrases and behaviour. He will make her life hell, if they try a life outside the house.

And now, his unreasonable reaction to the photos, was awful to watch, and I felt very uncomfortable about it all.

I hope she gets away from him as soon as possible, and gets the therapy she will need to recover from his treatment. You can't treat a Sociopath, because it's a state of mind, not a psychiatric issue. You can only help the victim........ take it from someone who's been through it.
Sugar Ape
11-07-2014
Originally Posted by JinnyJinxed:
“I think that you are missing the point.

Kimberly has had a past with this guy for many years - on and off - she hasn't hidden anything from Steven at all, but he has drilled her, and accused her, and made her walk on eggshells, like she has. She hasn't 'had an affair', which is how he is behaving, because she was on a break while in the house. She probably had the photos for comfort, maybe, or reassurance, or simply a touch of home. Either way - this guy is a friend of hers too, and she did/does have feelings for him, and this guy was also in her life, a whole lot longer than Steven. You can't just shut off your emotional feelings for someone in an instant, and certainly not in a high pressure environment like the BB house.

The footage we saw of Steven's behaviour towards her in the intial stages, I felt, showed that he didn't really give her a chance to figure out what she actually felt about him. He was full on, isolating her from the group at times, and going on and on about how HE see's a future with her, and how HE feels about her, until she cracked. It was the behaviour of a Sociopath. It was scary.

The time he said about how 'well he handled the situation, under the circumstances', smacks of sociopathic phrases and behaviour. He will make her life hell, if they try a life outside the house.

And now, his unreasonable reaction to the photos, was awful to watch, and I felt very uncomfortable about it all.

I hope she gets away from him as soon as possible, and gets the therapy she will need to recover from his treatment. You can't treat a Sociopath, because it's a state of mind, not a psychiatric issue. You can only help the victim........ take it from someone who's been through it.”

I have to confess I haven't really been watching the show the past few weeks, I tuned in tonight for the "graphic sex" (haha), so I can't agree or disagree with you really but you I take your points.

My point was really that if the tables had been turned, there would be more sympathy for the girl and less accusations of sociopathic behaviour etc.

At the moment I can't say any more than Steven is just a bit possessive / jealous and possibly inexperienced.
JinnyJinxed
11-07-2014
Originally Posted by Sugar Ape:
“I have to confess I haven't really been watching the show the past few weeks, I tuned in tonight for the "graphic sex" (haha), so I can't agree or disagree with you really but you I take your points.

My point was really that if the tables had been turned, there would be more sympathy for the girl and less accusations of sociopathic behaviour etc.

At the moment I can't say any more than Steven is just a bit possessive / jealous and possibly inexperienced.”

I don't think so. If she had been the one acting as Steven had been, people would have cried Bunny Boiler. I don't know what is more dangerous, a Sociopath, or a Bunny Boiler.

I have had bunny boiler female friends, that have actually scared me, and I have had to brake contact from, after telling them why I can't have them in my life anymore, and then warning the guys they were with. But the Sociopaths (both male and female) that have manipulated friends, have actually scared me more and seemed more dangerous, because they have the ability to make you question yourself, and make you feel you are at fault, and have things to be apologetic for. They also make you feel like you owe them something. A more extreme example of a Sociopath is apparently depicted in a relationship on Hollyoakes... if you watch that. I don't know - haven't seen that show, only this one.
tff
12-07-2014
I think we're wrong about Kimberly bringing in the photos.

In the past, we've been told they can't bring in photos but during the runs, BB gives them photos of families.

Isn't that the case here? Does anyone remember?
Wasn't there a basket given as a reward for something where everyone got photos?
Do you remember Danielle looking over Ashleigh's shoulder at photos?
And Danielle up in the pod with Kimberly, looking at photos and Danielle saying the guy was good-looking and Kimberly nodding?

I remember that - Kimberly didn't choose those photos, Big Brother did!
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