Originally Posted by JanisElizabeth:
“To be fair, most people on here are pretty reasonable. They post their views and allow others to post theirs without accusing them of not knowing their own minds. Sadly there are a few who practically foam at the mouth if anyone dares to disagree with their choice of hm and who don't just dislike particular housemates but seem to hate them with a passion. For the first few weeks this year I didn't really even have a favourite. I liked Kim at first then went off her. I always liked Ashleigh but she wasn't my preferred winner. I think my first preferred winner was Christopher but I have changed my mind and would like Ashleigh to win and Christopher to be second although I wouldn't hate it if it were the other way round. I don't hate Helen. I don't like her either, although there have been times when I have warmed to her a bit but then she has usually said or done something to make me like her less again. As for your point about people defending Helen against some of the nasty things said about her that is probably valid although I don't agree it's only Ashleigh supporters who are doing that. The thing that really winds me up is people putting up a big long post denigrating their object of hate and anyone who dares to support that person but then either ignores or completely dismisses any attempt to respond to or challenge that post. They know who they are (although maybe not in some cases!!! )”
I think you and I may have slightly different experiences on this place to be fair.
Again I appreciate your reasonable reply- I can always respect someone who has a different opinion to me, and who doesn't resort to name calling or being personal. Even if they tell me they think I am wrong, it will never be a problem.
I should make it clear I am not anti Ashleigh, or all her supporters at all- I'd have no issue at all if she won. None.
Personally I find it a bit odd how anyone can get
so invested in BB that they either love or hate any of them to the extent they seem to do, but for me, that is half the fascination with this place and each to their own. I think I look at the show and the HMs differently from most by the sounds of things. (not saying this is any better or worse btw!)
I have become used to writing posts that have points in that are either dismissed out of hand or ignored by many when you dare to challenge them so I can totally take your points on that too.
Post with peace Janis.