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Ashleigh kissing Ash'es arse all of a sudden, WTH , this BB never seeses to Amaze me |
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Well of course YOU would Janis because you obviously love Ashleigh, even though you say you don't. I don't find any of these words hateful, now if anybody called me a slut and I heard one of my friends say 'I wish she would just f---- off' or I heard somebody call me a monkey, the person that defended her (Winston) and backstabbing them then I would be rather upset.
But I don't think these are hateful words at all. |
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To be fair to Darcy that is ridiculously mild compared to what is used towards certain others and it's not even in the same ball park. You often see the far more offensive words laughed at and encouraged by multiple people and no one says a word.
It' like worrying about a leaky tap when we've got a tsunami headed our way. |
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You really wonder why the Ashleigh fans are called out for having double standards here. You are pulling me up for things I have said as being hateful but Ashleigh has said much worse and now you are defending her for the edited h/ls.
Come on now labbie you really must do better than that. ![]() I completely rest my case!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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You really wonder why the Ashleigh fans are called out for having double standards here. You are pulling me up for things I have said as being hateful but Ashleigh has said much worse and now you are defending her for the edited h/ls.
Come on now labbie you really must do better than that. ![]() I completely rest my case!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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If someone said those things about me I would consider it pretty hateful as I am sure would you
![]() Some people throw the hate word about willy nilly but when I have never, ever said that I hate anybody in my life that most definitely can not be said of me. That is really a ridiculous remark!
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To be fair to Darcy that is ridiculously mild compared to what is used towards certain others and it's not even in the same ball park. You often see the far more offensive words laughed at and encouraged by multiple people and no one says a word.
It' like worrying about a leaky tap when we've got a tsunami headed our way. |
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I never call other women 'bitches', 'ass lickers', 'sluts' etc. There is no excuse to do this on this forum.
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You may not have used the word ass licker to describe Jale but you have certainly implied it or said other words that mean the same thing.
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So you think it is Ok to call a young woman an 'ass licker', 'a bitch' etc. I think these are horrible ways to describe anyone, never mind a fellow female.
![]() Ass licker isn't exactly a hateful word, and Ashleigh is a bitch, she even admitted that herself. She bitches more than any of them in there. |
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But that's the point, it's the words you use.
that makes no sense.
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Why does it matter if they are female
![]() Ass licker isn't exactly a hateful word, and Ashleigh is a bitch, she even admitted that herself. She bitches more than any of them in there. |
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To be fair to Darcy that is ridiculously mild compared to what is used towards certain others and it's not even in the same ball park. You often see the far more offensive words laughed at and encouraged by multiple people and no one says a word.
It' like worrying about a leaky tap when we've got a tsunami headed our way. You are a good voice of reason and it's great to have somebody like you on this thread. Fair but not afraid to put yourself out there. My kind of person.
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I happen to think it is, and you can say someone is 'bitchy'.
And you didn't answer my question, why does it matter if one female says it about another ? what difference does that make ? |
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So you think it is Ok to call a young woman an 'ass licker', 'a bitch' etc. I think these are horrible ways to describe anyone, never mind a fellow female.
Have you expressed even more disgust at those who call Helen slapper, slut, slag? This, and far far worse, happens almost daily and I'm sure I've seen a load of posters in this thread in those too. I seem to recall some pesky sod called AOTB being the only person to actually object there and yet here, where it is far milder a few people are jumping on this? Come on, be fair now. |
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I happen to think it is, and you can say someone is 'bitchy'.
No swear words or awful names there, very mild I think!
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Are you kidding me? I am the guy who gets a beatdown (well alleged internet beat-down anyway!) whenever I dare to pointing out people calling women names (including women posters) is out of order, counter productive to modern feminist ideals and at times downright nasty. And I point it out a LOT.
Have you expressed even more disgust at those who call Helen slapper, slut, slag? This, and far far worse, happens almost daily and I'm sure I've seen a load of posters in this thread in those too. I seem to recall some pesky sod called AOTB being the only person to actually object there and yet here, where it is far milder a few people are jumping on this? Come on, be fair now.
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Bitch/bitchy is there a difference and I am sure that you called Jale an ass licker or something similar, perhaps I will have to look back. What's wrong with condescending and backstabbing as well?
No swear words or awful names there, very mild I think! ![]() |
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Why does it matter if they are female
![]() Ass licker isn't exactly a hateful word, and Ashleigh is a bitch, she even admitted that herself. She bitches more than any of them in there.
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To be fair I don't tend to go into the Helen threads but I do not agree with calling anyone a 'slut' 'slag' etc. I can't be pulling everyone up, I am too busy defending Ashleigh and Chris on here. I detest it when men do it but for other women to do it is just so very, very, wrong.
![]() If at the end of the day sexist and misogynist comments are reduced (I doubt it will ever be eradicated) then who cares which HM it is- the bigger issue is highlighting this kind of thing and trying to point out it's a bit odd to see it so joyously celebrated and encouraged esp in 2014. If the worst we see on here is bitch or saying someone is ass licking then I'd say we'd not just made progress, but giant strides. I've changed my mind- once we take on the slut-shamers and win, I think we will ALL deserve a medal.
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There is a difference imo .
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To be fair I don't tend to go into the Helen threads but I do not agree with calling anyone a 'slut' 'slag' etc. I can't be pulling everyone up, I am too busy defending Ashleigh and Chris on here. I detest it when men do it but for other women to do it is just so very, very, wrong.
![]() Weeks ago, at the time it happened, I pointed out how damaging and hateful it was of Ashleigh to bitch about the other women in the pool that night they all jumped in. I also posted here about her remarks about what women in the house were wearing. Both incidents were nothing to do with Ashleigh being attacked or her defending herself. They were straight up bitch talking about other women implying they were sluts. I said at the time, it's one of the things no woman should do and was laughed at because I suggested that the only result remarks like this can lead to is women being ordered to cover up. So why are you now defending Ashleigh? We have seen/heard her doing something that as you rightly say is "very, very wrong" and no sign that she has learnt not to be so judgemental. |
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